Feelings are hard to avoid bumping. I believe most people are in a state of falling in love. So how to do the most rational after breaking up? Let's take a look
There are two routes to take:
1. composite
If there is only a small conflict between you that leads to a break-up, then there is still room for recovery, and you can choose to compound.
Before recovery, all we have to do is to adjust and improve ourselves during this period of lovelorn time, and recover the other party through targeted recovery methods, and even use some skills to let the other party actively find you to compound.
2. Out of the shadow of lovelorn
If we really do not love, then we can use the lovelorn time to self repair and get out of the lovelorn shadow. Don't go on fighting. Learning the following ways to break up after falling in love is the most rational way.
After the boys break up, they will be less depressed at first and then very depressed because they miss each other's good, while most girls will be depressed and come out of the shadow after breaking up.
So, if girls as a weak side in love, how to get out of the shadow of lovelorn?
① No need to worry about others
When we fall in love, we always worry about each other, such as remembering each other's birthday, etc., and thinking about his favorite gifts, shopping for his clothes, which can be returned to us later.
② Make new friends
New friends make you have a new understanding of society, new discoveries, new friends can always bring you a sense of freshness and good mood. So go to social occasions or platforms to make new friends, forget about breaking up with your ex boyfriend.
③ Empathy moves attention
The lovelorn can transfer the emotion to other people or things besides the lovelorn object appropriately. For example, after lovelorn, you can develop a closer relationship with your friends, actively participate in various entertainment activities, release depression, cultivate your temperament, and join nature to melt yourself into nature's broad mind. This is the most effective way to prevent lovelorn depression.
④ Lovelorn arouses potential literary cells
Lovelorn can improve their literary literacy, sad and lonely after lovelorn might as well organize into a novel, when you open, those calendars in the purpose of the past have become a beautiful memory engraved in your heart.