Everyone may experience a hard time, but as long as you don't give up something, the gloom of life will gradually become clear.
1 pursuit of goals
Recently, I watched a short film made by Huang Bo.
In the short film, Huang Bo goes back to Qingdao in 1994 and sees himself singing hard on the stage.
Behind the stage, he talked to his once passionate self.
Now Huang Bo: 'do you think about what will happen in the future? '
Young Huang Bo: 'anyway, I love acting, as long as there is a stage. I'll go to Beijing after the new year. Anyway, I want to break through. '
Now Huang Bo: 'do you think you are this material? '
Young Huang Bo said: 'I don't know. Anyway, I don't want to live a repetitive life. Try it. '
Now Huang Bo said: 'I want to be a director in the new year, and it's my first time. '
Young Huang Bo said: 'it's hard to be a director. Can you do it? '
Now Huang Bo said: 'I don't know. Learn from you. Try it. '
Young Huang Bo said: 'that's right. Take a big step forward and never know if you don't go to the beginning. '
After reading this dialogue, I was thinking, if we all have the chance to go back to the past, what do we want to say to ourselves five years ago, or even 10 years ago?
Remember a popular saying on the Internet, the most regrettable thing for a person is not that he has no action, but that he has no action.
If you don't pursue your goals, you will never be able to make your future life what you want to be now.
2. Keep learning
Those who have seen super orator may know Liu Yuanyuan.
She said that you should believe that fate will give you a lower starting point than others, and hope that you will fight for a Jedi counterattack story in your life!
In fact, her life is a history of counter attack: she passed the exam in Peking University from the countryside, passed the exam all the way to the champion of super orator, and finally became CEO.
Behind her participation in the program, there are actually some little-known information.
That is, before attending the program, her only experience of speech was in the class committee campaign meeting.
In sharp contrast, her rivals are Taiwan's super athletes who have set a world record across the Sahara, Chinese Americans who are born in Silicon Valley and have rich experience in acting, as well as ghost horse scholars whose three mentors are proficient in speech skills.
Someone once asked her: from the speech Xiaobai to the national champion, what do you rely on to win?
Liu Yuanyuan replied: 'it may make people laugh. I rely on my ability to learn. '
It can be said that learning ability determines a person's life height.
I remember that Tang Wei was banned after filming lust, caution, and she went to England with her whole family.
There, she worked hard in English, from zero foundation to easy use, which gave her the opportunity to work with senior figures in the British film and television industry.
When she appeared in the audience's eyes again, she stood on the international stage and spoke standard and fluent English. There was thunderous applause.
Because of these years of unremitting learning, she has created a chance to turn over for herself.
In fact, learning is a kind of ability, but first of all, an attitude.
If you want to achieve something, it is very important to have an empty cup mentality. Empty cup mentality, as the name suggests, is to think of yourself as' an empty cup ', rather than complacency.
Only by clearing the past can we better absorb new knowledge.
Learning will never be useless. Most of the time, every language and skill you learn, even if it's an invisible interest, will become your most effective weapon at some time.
3 become interesting
Read a story.
Once Aristotle quarreled with his wife. Because his wife's temperament was fierce, he poured a basin of water from upstairs and drenched him all over.
As a result, Aristotle just smiled and said: 'I knew that there would be a rainstorm after the thunder. '
The details of a life are enough to show a person's interest.
"Interesting" mentioned by Jin Du Jun in the entry of the lifelong growth dictionary "133: interesting" is an emotion with high correlation with uncertainty.
In other words, the real interesting includes too many things, such as wisdom, tolerance and curiosity.
Wang Xiaobo said, a long life, to find an interesting person together.
Because being uninteresting means spiritual closure, numbness, poverty and even lack of life energy.
Only by making yourself interesting can you open your heart and accept more possibilities of life.
4 Conclusion
Maupassant has a famous saying:
'life can't be as good as you think, but it can't be as bad as you think. I think people's vulnerability and strength are beyond their imagination. Sometimes, I may be so fragile that tears flow down my face when I say a word. Sometimes, I find myself biting my teeth and walking a long way. '
No matter how hard or tired life is, I hope we can bite our teeth and walk through that difficult road.