1. I have to calm down and talk with my children equally
For examinees, the most difficult level after the results come out is the parental level, especially for the examinees who fail the test and 'play abnormally', the parents' response and attitude are very important. Sometimes, parents' scolding and reproaching may make the child's already suffering heartache painful and give birth to the idea of self abandonment. Therefore, the calm of parents is the most important! No matter what the test is, we should have an equal adult dialogue with our children, and choose to sit down in a suitable place and communicate and plan well with them equally and harmoniously. Communicate with children, understand their ideas, and help them to sort out their ideas and plans together, so that children can understand what they want, how to do, and clear their life development direction.
No matter what the result of the college entrance examination, the sky will not fall
The students who have just finished the college entrance examination must be very complicated in heart, and the stage of waiting for the results is also the most painful period of time. However, parents should let their children know that every step of life is full of too many possibilities. Even if the college entrance examination fails to achieve the desired results, the sky will not fall. In any case, college entrance examination can't decide a person's life.
When children are accumulating in the long test preparation, they unconsciously have the ability to persist in active learning, to concentrate on one goal, to bear hardships and pressure, and to self-discipline for a long time;
These abilities, can accompany a person's life, not rely on a day and a night of learning can be obtained.
3. The end of college entrance examination does not mean the end of study
Although the children don't have to worry about entering school and studying at night for exams, they must let the children know that reading is a lifetime's work. No matter when, it's right to study hard and reserve knowledge.
One child said that he would sleep in the dark after the college entrance examination, and make up for all the sleep he had fallen over the years. But after the child has a good rest, be sure to remind him that others are on the way forward. If you are still wandering in place, wake up carefully and fall too far behind.
Three years of high school is a rare experience in life. Whether it is bitter or bittersweet, it is a process, not the end of learning. The new course is at the foot. It's the luck of life to take the next step firmly.
4. Parents are the most concerned people in the world
For children, high school life is fleeting. After the summer vacation, most children will choose to leave home and go to a far place to go to college. Parents spend less and less time with their children. The days when the children were protected by their parents were over.
After the children, grow up, leave home, work, independence, and then start a family.
Then there is the big tree they worshipped when they were young. We need to be cared for and cared for by the children.
Be sure to tell your children that in this world, parents are the people who care about them the most. No matter what happens on the way after and what difficulties we encounter, we must tell our parents. In the future, we must be filial to our parents
5. The college entrance examination is only the end of the periodic task
College is different from high school. In high school, there were teachers and parents. But when you go to college, no one will do that for you. In the youngest, most precious and most free four years, it is very important for children to manage their own time.
We need to tell our children that the three-year struggle in high school is not only for a good university, but also for a better life and a brighter future.
Four years of college is very important for students. Is it sleeping, playing with cell phones, and sloshing around? Or go to the library, participate in school level organizations, go out to practice? It's all up to you.