Sihaiwang: do you know what it's like to really like a person? Maybe you will say that as long as you don't say it, you can like each other silently. In fact, you can't hide your true love for someone. And whether men really like you or not can be traced. Compared to the men who talk too much,
People who really like you will be easier to judge. Because his eyes, his movements, even his expressions betray his emotions in minutes. When you really fall in love with someone, there will be light in your eyes. So judge whether a man really likes you, not only to listen, but also to see how he does it.
How to see if a man really loves you
1. Always mentioning you
Men's love is not as secret as women's love. They are generous to share good news with their friends or even 'declare sovereignty'. When you meet his friends, they always say to you, 'we've heard a lot about you', 'finally met you today', and even when you talk to them about your recent events, they will say, 'ah, we know that, he has said it', obviously he has been talking about you recently. If you go out with his friends, they will pay attention to what you say and how you feel. As you may have guessed, he has already told his friends that he likes you and hopes that his friends will take care of you so that you can have a good impression on him.
2. Like to share with you
It can be a delicious food, a good-looking book, or even a power supply for his favorite songs. He likes to share it with you. If he can share these with you, then he loves you, because when he sees these things, he thinks of you.
3. Always reply to your message quickly
After receiving your letter, will you reply soon and answer your requirements and questions seriously? If you are his person, he will take the initiative to find an opportunity to approach you. When you see your letter, even if you are busy, he will take the time to reply in time, and seriously answer your request or questions (unless they are difficult to answer).
4. Active condom use during sex
If a man loves a woman, he will be afraid of hurting her, especially in the sexual affairs. If he doesn't pay attention to it, he will make her pregnant. He will definitely take the initiative to use a dynamic condom, even if you say he will not agree during the physiological safety period, he is worried about your accidental pregnancy.
5. Talk to you about his family and family affairs
Men are all relatively strong in nature, especially unwilling to show their fragile side in front of women. And everyone has their own weak side, which is often reflected in the growing environment of men. No matter how strong a man is, he will show his different side in front of his beloved woman. So if he really loves you, he will tell you his family and family affairs without reservation, and even talk about his pet with you with interest, then he has made you a part of the future family.
6. Value dating
It's a common scene in life: after you've finished your work, call him, 'honey, have you finished yet? 'he always said that he was not finished, wait for me for a while. When you are busy with trivial matters, he calls you, asking not what you are doing, but urging you to meet at the designated place in a few minutes. If these two scenes frequently appear in your love story, please give up this man, because he only cares about his feelings.
How to keep love fresh
1. Treat each other as an ordinary partner
That is to say, although it's sibling love, when you are in love, you should treat each other as an ordinary partner, rather than think that each other should play the role of a sister or the other side is a brother, and everything must listen to me. Such love will go wrong for a long time. Successful partners will work together to adapt to this change, believing that change is an inevitable part of life. They can understand and support each other no matter whether they get better or worse.
2. Accept the change of reality
There are changes that happen to everyone, and it's these changes that keep the relationship alive. As time goes by, you have to accept the fact that not every change will follow your expectations. Change may bring you closer to your partner, or it may cause you pain. It requires you to adjust your way of thinking and life and give up something you are familiar with and love.
3. Spend time together
In the early days of your life with your partner, you instinctively prioritize your relationship. With the passage of time and the busy work and life, the priority of getting along with the two of you will unconsciously decrease. If you don't spend time with your partner, the distance between you will get farther and farther. Always flirting with your partner will definitely sacrifice your time in other activities. But for a person who pursues a happy life, this investment is nothing.
4. There's an argument to make
Debate is an integral part of a relationship. You should realize that everyone has their own personality, and you will certainly be different from others. You don't have to worry about disagreements. A frank argument will enhance mutual communication, shorten mutual distance and reach a consensus acceptable to both sides. After the settlement, don't turn over the old account next time when you quarrel. Turning over the old account will make the other party feel that they are always holding on to something, which is not good.