The word "single dog" is popular in today's society. Because of various reasons, more and more people are in the ranks of single dogs, some enjoy it, some feel lonely. How to judge whether a person is single? What are the symptoms of being single for too long?
Symptoms of being single for too long
1. Strong in appearance and lonely in heart
Single for a long time, in front of outsiders will be indifferent, but also very easy to say a good person. However, when you get home, you will feel very lonely. Sometimes listening to a song will make you cry.
2. Not willing to contact strangers
Limited to the existing circle, do not want to contact other strangers. When all the friends around have their own partners, people who are single for too long will become more and more narrow, and the circle will become smaller and smaller.
3. To contact the opposite sex, if the other side does not respond, it will immediately give up
Sometimes courage to contact other members of the opposite sex, but if two or three times after the contact, the other side has not yet shown their attitude. If you are single for too long, you will give up. Because they are afraid of being hurt, they would rather miss it than hurt it.
4. One feels lonely, two feel tired
Sometimes when you are single for a long time, you don't want to fall in love. Because people who have been single for too long have been used to one person's life. Suddenly joining another person will make TA helpless. But single people, and want to end single. Therefore, it will become very tangled: one person feels lonely, two people feel very tired.
Boys who have been single for too long
Being single for too long is becoming more and more diffident
If some passive singles are single for a long time, they may have self-confidence and self denial on the level of self cognition. Some people may not even bother to do their daily dressing. Some single people will focus on their work and study because of family pressure, burying the need of marriage, but as time goes on, the problem will become more and more prominent, and the family's endurance will be severely tested.
I've been single for a long time, and I like to talk dirty
If three or five groups of men get together, they are talking about women besides drinking small wine, especially when several sworn parties are together, and the content of the conversation is even more vicious. Although we are just the normal sexual psychological reflection of men, we still define men as indecent and shameless, even if we just want to pass the boring time, relax the tense nerves, and then increase Enter the harmonious atmosphere of chatting, no longer there are good girls nearby.
Being single for too long reduces the ability of love and communication
The long-term single life may make the passive single people close themselves because of their inferiority and do not want to communicate with others, but this will affect their interpersonal skills. In the long run, a vicious circle will form. People who are single for a long time will feel insecure about intimacy, which leads to the over sensitivity of boundaries and the over weight of prevention psychology in interpersonal communication, especially in heterosexual communication.
Because relatives and friends will pay attention to the marital status of single people, they may be listed by single people as people who reduce the frequency of communication, resulting in damage to the support system. The ability of communication is further reduced, and the possibility of finding the right partner is further reduced.
Single for too long, like to listen to women's past
Men's exclusive desire determines that they 'like to listen to women's past', especially when they want to marry this woman, they want to have a woman's future and past, and hope that her past life and this life can be said to possess for him. It's easy for a man to have a desire for control because of his exclusive desire, and he may also care about your present because of your past.
Single for too long, lonely, depressed
Researchers in Finland followed 1695 men and 1776 women between the ages of 30 and 65 over seven years, 14% of whom were single. Investigators monitored the use of antidepressants through the national prescription drug registry. During the six-year period of the survey, the proportion of people living alone buying antidepressants was 1.8 times that of people living with their families. Although there is no relevant investigation in China, psychiatrists say that loneliness is the most important factor leading to depression, so the passive single should be paid enough attention.
How to judge whether a girl is single
Judging by appearance
Single girls generally do not pay too much attention to their appearance. Because basically no one will look at your appearance, girls usually dress because they have their own boys. If a girl is particularly sloppy and doesn't pay attention to her image, it proves that she has no boyfriend.
Judge by the actions of the other party
If the girl is single, she will leave at the end of work rather simply and will not linger in the office. On the contrary, the girl who has a boyfriend will look out of the window from time to time and feel as if she is waiting for someone to pick her up from work. If she can't wait for that person, she looks lost.
Judging by the behavior of the other party
If a girl has a boyfriend, she has a mind. No matter how handsome a handsome guy walks by, she doesn't care what she looks like. She doesn't even look up. She thinks that the other person is a kind of beautiful decoration. On the contrary, if there is no single girl with a boyfriend, as long as she sees a handsome guy passing by, she shows a special exaggeration or even a narcissistic look.
From the extent of her pursuit
I think it's better for a girl who is a Star chaser to judge whether she is single or not. Because if you are a single star hound, you will be very excited and even scream when you see your favorite idol. But if she had a boyfriend, she would not be so excited in front of her boyfriend. She will be more restrained.
Judging from her circle of friends
There is also a kind of girl, you can see his friend circle, you can understand her emotional life, first add her wechat, and then brush her friend circle, I think this is the simplest way. If it's a girl who loves expression, she will definitely express her daily sweetness with her boyfriend. If it's a girl without a boyfriend, her circle of friends must be basking in some photos with her girlfriends or with her pet. Then she must have no boyfriend.
There's always time
A single girl has time. Is a girl in love swollen? Maybe you have time to find that you are so idle. Are you not disgusted with you when you find out? No disgust means no dislike, no dislike means like.
See how often she plays her cell phone
The frequency of single girls and non single girls playing mobile phones is not the same as the frequency of returning messages. This is not very good-looking, but you can feel from each other, for example, it's very happy to chat once at the same time, which may be a joke told by a friend, but it's lucky to chat once at the same time. It's probably a boyfriend, and what the girl mostly does with her mobile phone, chatting It's more likely to have a boyfriend.