nowadays, fear of marriage has become a popular word. With the rapid pace of life and the rapid development of society, people gradually have more and more requirements for marriage. Therefore, many factors will lead to the phenomenon of men 's fear of marriage
Why are men so afraid of marriage?
1. He doesn't love you
Please don't escape from this topic. Now many men have a playful attitude towards their feelings, and they don't mean to get married at all. 'do you really love me?' this is probably the most frequently asked question between lovers. If you ask each other directly and sweetly, Congratulations, you are still in love. But if you ask this question in the mirror every day and your eyes are full of tears, and even start to ask your friends if they think their boyfriend loves them, 86.42% of them really don't love you, so it's better to find the next one as early as possible.
2. Fear of commitment
It is the nature of animals to seek benefits and avoid harm. Men are afraid that commitment is as common as men's lust. A man's fear of commitment is his fear of being responsible for his commitment.
3. Fear of change
Two people get along so long, so good, suddenly change will lead to lose what? This idea makes men very insecure. Love is not the same as marriage. If a man wants to get married, you should give him enough thought preparation, not surprise him.
If you want to get married and he refuses, you must not be tough. You can talk about the happy life after marriage and children from time to time around him. These can not only test his ideas, but also enhance his vision of marriage.
4. Fear of losing freedom
Love is not bound, two people still have their own life, can live a good two people world. Once married, children, houses, parents and other issues are bound to him. Such a life will make him more stressed and lose his freedom.
5. Too much pressure
Love is a matter of two people. You can go out for a big meal every day. You can go out crazy every night. You can be a moonlight family. Marriage is a matter of two families. When you are in love, you don't look at your family situation or your savings. You just feel that you are together when you are right. But marriage is not the same, you may pay more attention to both sides when the door is right, when suitable to be your wife.
You don't have to bear too much when you are in love, but it's different after marriage. After marriage, you have to shoulder the responsibility of the whole family. Now most of the post-80s generation are only children. You two should shoulder the responsibility of supporting four elderly people. This is a heavy burden. It's too much pressure.