Sihai network

What mistakes are easy to make in a man's love and how to arouse women's favor

Men in the pursuit of the opposite sex, because of the different ideas of men and women, always encounter a variety of problems. Today, Xiaobian sorted out some of the mistakes that men are most likely to make in love, hoping to give you some reference.

Don't make these mistakes when men are chasing girls!

1. Always thought virgins were pure

Only half of the virgins in the world can maintain the physical and mental twin virgins, while the other half also have a layer of glossy hymen. In the spirit, they are more difficult than the others. Some virgins fall in love many times before they get married, have slept with many people, and have seen all kinds of sexual games. Whenever a man wants to pierce her lower body, she shouts' pause '. It would be ridiculous for anyone to use her as a chip in their marriage.

2. I always thought ugly women were so bubbly

I have a college classmate who went to the ugliest girl in the whole school because of his poor conditions. He didn't get there for half a year, but he was rejected n times by the other side and was sneered at by many people. Later, as I reminded him, he used his perseverance to pursue a "thousand people's attention" tie flower, and it was finished in a month. What I want to say is that some ordinary looking women are not confident in themselves, which leads to the lack of love conscience. They always don't believe that there will be men in the world to actively pursue them. Even if there are, they will put their posture very high and high for no reason, and strive to obtain more glory and self-esteem than those beauties.

I think it's easy for them to suffer from both mental and intellectual diseases - that's the mental and intellectual factors that make it difficult for ugly women to get involved.

3. I always thought that if I had money, I could eat it all

The night before yesterday, I was drunk in the bar, had a few bottles of foreign wine with my friend, and played a lot of guessing games with a companion girl around me, so she and I seemed to have 'feelings'. I know in my heart that such women can all be exchanged for money, so I don't think they are precious. All the goods in the world that can be bought with money are not precious. There are a lot of women in the world who don't like money. The real capable men are looking for such women. There are many men who despise a woman's money obsession, which clearly shows his incompetence. The ancients regarded money as dung. I think they were talking flusters. Only when a woman falls in love with a man can money really become dirt.

4. I always thought it was rotten goods

There are many people always think that some women who come to play for free are the leftovers of other people's play. In fact, this is the biggest misunderstanding of men to women. Today I want to say: those real garbage women will never come to your house to let you play for nothing! They will make difficulties for men and offer various excuses and conditions to avoid holding hands, kissing and sex again and again. Whether it's the women who come to our door or the women we find hard, they are all equal and deserve our heart to love.

5. I always think that being handsome is attractive

Even if I'm not ugly, I'll say that. The reason why the so-called handsome men never get off well in the end is that they used their own color at the beginning. Women, when they grow up, will always choose men with connotation, rather than a weak, soft legged handsome man.

How do men get women's favor

1. Considerate

Women are very sensitive, so they are very appreciative of "considerate men": for example, they can give her a warm and practical hug when she feels uneasy; they can give her shoulder support when she needs it; they can open the door for her before getting off the bus. When you can give her meticulous care from the details, her heart can be balanced and coordinated, so that you can slowly become the object of her talk and lover.

2. Put on her favorite clothes

If a man wants to attract women's eyes, he should first understand women's likes from the aspect of dress, and dress up himself according to their appreciation, even if it's not your usual style, occasionally giving himself some new attempts may bring unexpected surprises. In addition, an interesting psychological study has found that women subconsciously think that men in red are sexier and more attractive. If you don't know what she likes to wear, try wearing a red coat to attract her attention.

3. A responsible man

If you do something wrong, you should be brave to bear it. Don't shirk the responsibility to others at will. This is an extremely irresponsible behavior. The most taboo for girls is that boys don't take it on. It makes people feel that boys are not reliable and reliable.

4. Listen to her feelings

Most women are used to saying their inner distress. At this time, don't rush to enlighten them, because for women in trouble, what they need is listening ears, not guiding opinions and suggestions. If you are eager to tell her what to do or not to do, it may make her mood more impetuous. In the process of listening, we should pay attention to eye contact, and properly express understanding, so as to give her a sense of empathy.

5. Just right to flirt with women

The sullen man is seemingly reasonable, but he will play crazily in private. The sullen man's teasing women is not a rogue, but a small flirting method. You should know that women like the silent teasing of men's sullen most, which will make women's interest linger and become more and more addicted. The sullen man is not the real sullen, but the sullen man's subtle Of sending out invitations to women.