4hw.com.cn: no matter men and women like people with high EQ, life will become more relaxed and interesting when they are with people with high EQ, so many young girls also regard high EQ as the standard of finding objects, so how to be a man with high EQ? What are the performances of men with high EQ? Let's take a look at it with Xiaobian~
What are the performances of men with high EQ
Performance 1: passionate and studious about sex
Women often have pressure during sex, mostly due to lack of orgasm, lack of libido and so on. If men take the initiative to learn, improve and try in sex, women will be deeply moved. Most women orgasm by stimulating the clitoris, and they want men to know that and learn how to touch it. '
Tip: explore your partner's body, don't let go of any part, and watch her reaction. This process will also stimulate the man himself. If a man shows a passion for exploration, the female partner will repay him.
Performance 2: surprise
In every woman's heart, we hope that the man can make a surprise for her. Usually, the stronger the emotional connection women feel, the more willing they are to have sex. Surprise will bring emotional sense of security and satisfaction, make women more open in sexual life, and enhance the intensity of sex.
Tips: men should take the initiative to plan and arrange some romantic activities, such as booking a short trip on Friday night, or ordering dinner in a restaurant that their female partner has always been longing for, and picking her up after work. It's important for a man to pick her up, not only to ensure the smooth progress of the activity, but also to make women feel valued.
Performance 3: embracing each other affectionately
A survey of 2000 British women found that 'natural hugs' are the most effective way to boost women's mood. Women want to know that in addition to sex, men love them. When a man gives a hug outside the bedroom, it makes women feel pure love and care.
Tip: after sex, hold your wife for 15 minutes. In daily life, it is necessary to close the relationship by embracing more, such as holding your wife in your arms when watching TV, or giving her a hug from behind when cooking.
Performance 4: show off in front of relatives and friends
Although a man should pay attention to his wife in the bedroom, it is more exciting for him to show his love to his wife in front of his relatives and friends. Engeler said that praising her wife in public would make her feel beautiful and special. To improve her partner's self-esteem is more satisfying and enjoyable than to show her ferocity in sex. Public display of affection will bring out strong sexual passion in the evening.
Tip: take your partner to see your friends. Whispered in her ear, 'I'm glad you came out with me tonight. You are so beautiful that I can't wait to show you off. 'then take her hand and introduce her to her friends.
Performance 5: be able to understand each other's Subtext
It's all about women's hearts, sea needles. Girls say it's OK, in fact, it's something. Girls say you go, in fact, they want you to stay and hug. And these words that don't want to be said clearly and easily, either don't want to say, or want to prove that men really can understand themselves, can understand the meaning of no expression. And the men with high EQ are not so powerful, that is, they can feel the difference between girls saying "nothing" and "nothing ammonia", and can guess the complicated mood behind girls' smiling expression. They know that what girls in love need is just men's control of their mind, and what they need is a sense of psychological security.
Performance 6: warm kiss
Kissing gives a woman a sense of passion. If there is a lack of kissing during sex, the woman will mutter: 'it's too mechanical, he doesn't care about me, he just wants to vent. '
Tip: in a non sexual moment, approach your partner, give her a affectionate kiss, be careful not to oppress too much or use your tongue, and then walk away. In this way, your lust is not too strong, which makes her feel uneasy. At the same time, you have planted the seeds of lust in her heart.
Performance 7: be able to clearly show your bottom line and principles
Why are men with high EQ popular with women? Some people will say that emotional intelligence is high, but it's all soft temper, Niang Pao, being low to women, so popular with women. No High EQ is not soft temper, not submissive. On the contrary, they have independent personality, clear principles and bottom line. They will not constantly change their bottom line in order to get the affirmation of each other, or even kneel and lick, because this is not only low, but also cheap. Men with high EQ, at the right time, will be tough to show their attitude. When their bottom line is challenged, they will express their anger to each other. High EQ is not soft temper, not honesty, but to maintain their own independent personality and attitude, because what you want to leave to each other is a three-dimensional comprehensive and complete you.
Performance 8: expression skills are just right
Mr. Cai Kangyong is generally recognized as a model who understands the way of speaking. He once said that what is more internal and higher than "art" is the understanding of people to themselves. Through speaking, we know how to take others to heart. This is the way I believe in speaking. And a person with high EQ knows how to speak. It's not about how much you say, how gorgeous your words are, and how correct the truth is. It's about whether you really talk about the point and the other person's heart.
Why in the affection, some two sides clearly paid, and all paid a lot, but still say that they can't feel the love? The real crux is whether you give what the other party wants. It is true love that can provide the love that the other party wants, otherwise it can only be blind pay. Men with low EQ always think they love women very much, but they don't get good results in the end. They always love her in the way they think right, but they never think about whether this is what a woman wants. The man with high EQ can understand women's mind. For example, he doesn't have to be very rich. He needs to buy many brands of cosmetics to make women happy. If he can carefully observe and select the fastest eyebrow pencil she likes, the effect will not be better.
Men with high EQ know how to make women happy and give them gifts, which is not only a gift, but also a kind of recognition, understanding and sincerity.