In the process of intercourse between men and women, how can women grasp men's heart and become a charming woman? Of course, there are many skills in it. Today, Xiaobian will sort out these tips and have a look.
Teach you to be a charming woman
1. Tender as water
It is said that no matter how brave the opposite sex is, it will be taken down by the gentle woman, because the water like tenderness is the most deadly attraction, and it can hold the opposite sex tightly. Because the gentle woman, can the opposite sex enough face, enough comfort, enough consideration, when he and a gentle woman together, the opposite sex is often the most relaxed.
For example, when the opposite sex is talking and laughing outside, the gentle woman will laugh with him instead of deliberately embarrassing him. For example, when the opposite sex is suffering from failure, a gentle woman will give her a hug, whisper 'you and me' to comfort the opposite sex, instead of just scolding him for being brainless. For example, when the opposite sex is tired, the gentle woman will take the initiative to massage his body instead of dragging and holding to accompany her shopping or playing.
If you are heterosexual, are you willing to leave such a gentle woman like water? Certainly many people are not willing, and would like to have such a woman around you.
2. Rational enough
Many people say that women are very emotional and always change their emotions for small things. And a lot of times, regardless of the face of the opposite sex, or the severity of things, and completely rely on their own emotions to do things. Such a woman often makes people feel unreasonable. A short time together will make the opposite sex feel different, but a long time together, the opposite sex will only feel very tired.
Therefore, a rational woman is more popular with the opposite sex. Because rational women are more independent, she doesn't need the close companionship of the opposite sex, and doesn't need the help of the opposite sex in everything. Such women have their own ideas, and will try to make their ideas come true. In addition, they will see and deal with things rationally, which makes the opposite sex feel very challenging. As a result, they are often interested in such women.
How to catch a man's heart?
1. Develop the same interests
Couples with common interests are more likely to go on. Because two people with the same interest have many topics to talk about and even have the same views on things. In this way, there will be fewer conflicts and contradictions.
So, if women want to grasp the heterosexual heart, they can cultivate the same interest with each other, so that when two people get along, they can talk, and you can understand each other better.
2. Learn to clean yourself up
Nowadays, many women think that the opposite sex of beauty value is all the scum men. In fact, under the consideration of transposition, as a woman, are they more willing to associate with the handsome opposite sex? Therefore, there is nothing wrong with the heterosexual beauty. Women should learn to clean themselves up and turn themselves into a beautiful woman. Xiaobian thinks that a woman's makeup is really different before and after, so she must learn to make up.
At the same time, dressing also needs to change to suit their own style, for example, the smaller women can take the sweet wind or small fresh route. For example, a woman with a good figure can take a slightly sexy route. In addition, you should also choose the right hair style, such as perm or curly hair, or cut it short. It's better to find the best hair style for you. Don't blindly imitate others, because others' style is not suitable for you.
3. Develop the habit of laughing
Smile can bring good mood to others, so smile more when you are free. No matter facing colleagues or aunts selling vegetables, they should show their smiles. Sweet smile can cure and infect others. When you see your sweet smile, others will turn up unconsciously.
How to maintain the relationship after marriage
1. Don't check on purpose
Husband and wife should contact each other every day, which is necessary for husband and wife to get along. Since husband and wife can't be together every day, the contact is to understand each other's trend, but they can't check the job in the name of care, which will make each other feel that there is no trust between husband and wife.
2. Don't get angry without calling back
It doesn't mean that you can be received when you call the other party. Maybe the other party goes to the bathroom, and the other party doesn't hear the phone. So don't be angry with this. This is not the reason for anger. You have to understand the situation of the other party. Understanding is also necessary for couples to get along.
3. Don't ask who called
It's normal for husband and wife to receive strange or heterosexual calls. Sometimes it's harassment calls. Sometimes it's business. If you can't get a call from each other, you need to know who the caller is. In that way, the husband will get bored of you and feel like he's being supervised.
4. Don't show your love
Now that the Internet is developed, people can understand each other's life trends no matter how far away they are, because it's OK to just send a circle of friends. That's not the case between husband and wife. At least you need to ask each other if they can. If they don't want to bask in the sun, you'd better not quarrel because of this.
5. You can't take your husband as a TV hero
How beautiful the love in the TV play is. The man and the man are all around a woman. Every woman wants to do this. But what kind of things does the writer write about in real life? So you can't ask your husband to do something for you that can't be done. TV will never be performed.
What mistakes can't women make in love
1. Exaggeration in dress
Not all rich men like the dazzling brilliance of female stars. So, when you decide to give someone a reason to pay attention to you in bold, revealing and exaggerated attire, you'd better be 100% sure? That's what he appreciates. Otherwise, he will think you are a shallow woman who lacks confidence and taste.
2. Eloquent
Although you are eager to let him know more about you, talking endlessly will only make the other person feel that you are too nagging and boring. Imagine that if a person can't get the peace and relaxation of mind from his relationship with his girlfriend, then the girlfriend can't take root in his heart. Let both sides feel warm and peaceful to get along is the closest time of heart to heart.
4. Love jumps too fast
How long will marriage be better in love?
The best time to get married
Some people say that marriage after six months of love, after all, is still the sweetest moment of love, and can also judge whether the two sides really love each other. Some people say that marriage after two years of love, in addition to the psychological protection of love, there is also the gradual acceptance and mutual adaptation of life habits and personal ills, which lays a good foundation for the marriage life of the two in the future.
Some people say that after five years of love, they get married. After five years of joint efforts, they already have the economic basis for marriage. At this time, marriage may only be to give parents an account. For the parties, the couple's name has already been established.
It can be seen that the best love period before marriage is between two and five years. In a compromise, three years in love should be the best time to get married. For three years, the passion may have subsided, but it's still surprising to remember. Over the past three years, the economy has also accumulated. Even if it is not enough to buy a house, parents of both sides can help raise the down payment. Parents urged, friends asked, enemies stared, thought, then get married.
How long does it take to get married depends on people
What lies in love are easy to blind people's eyes
Some love is smooth and beneficial, some love twists and turns, facing love we always have a set of our own response. Love is smooth, we often forget to maintain love; love is not smooth, we often find all kinds of excuses for ourselves, tell ourselves maybe I haven't met the right person. Five lies in love can easily blind your eyes.
1. Maybe I haven't met the right person yet
You may tell yourself that I haven't met the right person. In fact, no one is destined to be the other half of whom, the plot of the idol play, will not be established in reality. I think predestination is when you meet a person, you are willing to change yourself in order to cherish each other, so that the two people can more and more tacit understanding. The so-called right person is actually the other party, maybe?
2. Love me and love everything
The person who loves you has no obligation to contain all of you. If he is willing to contain you, you should cherish it. Love a person, love all of them? I disagree. No matter how kind the couple are, they will quarrel because of some things, which are some shortcomings that both sides can't tolerate. But after the quarrel, it doesn't affect their love.
How to make romance as sweet as love after marriage
Nowadays, young people are pursuing romantic life and always find life after marriage boring. So how can husband and wife create romance after marriage, make life more sweet after marriage, and be as beautiful as love? Creating romance in love can enhance the feelings of both parties. Romance is a very important element in love. If you want to create romance, you need to know each other's personality and preferences first. Such romance will make the other party feel surprised and happy. Follow Xiaobian to learn how to make romance after marriage, and let life be like love.
1. You have to live in a two person world if you have children
Couples with children should also remember to find time alone to live in a two person world. Although they are already parents of their children, the most interesting thing in life is to find time alone and enjoy a sweet and carefree time with their lovers. Can't afford a babysitter? It's better to ask parents or trusted good friends to take care of the children and help parents and friends more later.
2. Outdoor travel and picnic
It's a long time to have lunch in the wild. Take advantage of the rare leisure time to enjoy the beautiful scenery and enjoy lunch together. If you plan to have a picnic in the park, you can enjoy the peace and quiet of two people together. Even if it is sitting, two people snuggle together, look at the sunset, blowing the autumn wind is also a very romantic thing!