These two days, an online article "30 thousand a month, or can't support a summer vacation for children" is hot in the circle of friends. For many parents, they always try their best to give their children the best material and educational life, so the cost of raising children is soaring all the way. So, is it really a rich education at home or the cost of education for children is too high? For children, do they really like such a life?
A mother who works as an executive in an enterprise earns more than 30000 yuan a month. Her daughter is a fifth year student in a famous Affiliated School of a foreign language college in Guangzhou. Her husband pays for the big expenses at home. Her daughter goes to the United States for a study tour in summer vacation, 20000 yuan for 10 days. Her daughter usually needs to ask her aunt to take care of her at home, 5000 yuan. In July, she takes two piano lessons every week, 200 yuan, 2000 yuan in total. In swimming class, 2000 yuan ; 6000 yuan for English, mathematics and composition courses, which add up to 35000 yuan & hellip & hellip; (this article is exclusively compiled by WYH, editor of sihai.com. If you need to reprint, please indicate the source and source. Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/zone.html)
It can only be said that this mother is too rich, at least much more than many families. I don't know if she wants to complain about her children's spending in summer vacation, or to show off her wealth. She also wants to send her son to study in the United States and ask an aunt to take care of her daughter. Talking about children's summer vacation expenses, if a mother with billions of assets regrets that "sitting on billions of assets, can't support the children's summer vacation", the child will hire three personal coaches to practice equestrian, golf, tennis in a summer vacation, and go to the United States, Britain and Japan once, which will make people 'resonate', or think it's showing off and deliberately 'pulling hatred'?
There are many make-up classes in children's holidays, which not only burden their children's studies, but also the family's economy. This is an educational and social problem that needs comprehensive management. Some ordinary families, in order to send their children to the cram school, live a very tense life, which is understandable, because they are faced with the anxiety that they can't get rid of -- others' children are making up lessons, their children are not making up for it and worry about falling behind. However, the blind comparison and irrational consumption among parents also pushed up the consumption of education. The monthly salary of 30000 yuan can not support the summer vacation of children. Many of the expenditures are the "willfulness" of the rich, which is not essential for children, but also wishful thinking that it is good for children. Everyone should combine their own family economic situation and their children's individual situation to choose a holiday life suitable for their children, which is beyond the family's financial capacity. What kind of holiday life their children live as a comparison content will make every family overburdened. (this article is exclusively compiled by WYH, editor of sihai.com. If you need to reprint it, please indicate the source and source. Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/zone.html)
There are some holiday make-up lessons, which are difficult to be easily treated, that is, subject make-up lessons. The survey shows that children's education expenditure has become the largest expenditure of many families, which has a crowding out effect on the consumption of other families. However, it is the family's own choice to let children attend five or six training classes on a holiday, and to emphasize high-end and atmosphere, which classes are priced higher, which classes are offered higher, which classes are sent to children for overseas study, etc. Are children willing to go to these training classes? Do they have their own time? The training classes should be based on substance or external gimmicks? Do parents think that if they spend money on so many classes for their children, they can combine a meaningful holiday for their children? (this article is exclusively arranged by WYH, editor of sihai.com. If you need to reprint, please indicate the source and source. Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/zone.html)
Nowadays, going abroad to study has become fashionable, but it also needs to be combined with the reality of family and children. Now, parents seem to think it's shameful not to send their children abroad to study. There are parents who don't care about what they can get from traveling to study. They just want to show their children in their friends' circle to study in the United States. This mentality directly creates the chaos of traveling to study. Traveling without learning is common. Because the travel school institutions have recognized the parents' mentality, they make some travel stunts, saying that it is a famous school, but in fact, they just go to the famous school campus for a round. Some parents complain that the price of study tours is sky high and the gains are not great. They ask the relevant departments to take charge of it, but it is not possible to take charge of the price of study tours conducted by social institutions, because it is market pricing. Overseas study tour has its own value. It can open up the field of vision and experience overseas study. However, students will not be worse if they don't study tour. Conditional families can send their children, unconditional parents do not send, do not feel that this is a loss to the child.
Don't think that willing to invest in children's education is a good thing, and don't measure the effect of education by how much you spend. Parents should pay attention to their children's investment in education, but they should use it to the local areas and keep it moderate. In particular, they should not make blind comparisons in education expenditure and consumption. For the public basic education that should be guaranteed by the government, because of the imbalance, parents choose schools and make efforts secretly, and the resulting increase in family education expenditure, which needs to be solved by the government department; but for the problem that the monthly salary of 30000 yuan can not support children's summer vacation, it needs parents to think more about themselves - is such expenditure appropriate?