as the saying goes: know yourself and know your enemy, and win every battle. If you want to say goodbye to being single, you need to understand women's ideas first. Women hate these types of men most. Look carefully. Take this as a warning. I hope you are not.
The first kind: stingy man
Their appointment announced in advance how much they could not spend this time. After they invited the woman to have dinner, they asked her to invite them back. Every time they invited them to have dinner, they disclosed how much they had for the meal on the table, and he told others that he had sent a lot of affection. Women can't get a little light from them. Women are good at taking advantage. At least, they should ensure their own interests are not infringed. It's hard for stingy men to do it. Women often despair when they are invited twice. To fall in love with them is to find no pleasure.
Second, a man with a habit of cleanliness
This kind of man is too clean in his life. He doesn't feel at ease about anything other people do. He talks and talks endlessly. He should point out and care about everything from small things to big things. This kind of man is more wordy than careful. He can't give you a little quiet space. If you have his place, don't try to be quiet.
The third kind of indifferent and selfish man
This kind of man never thinks that you are a woman and will tolerate you. In his eyes, a woman should take the initiative to pay. In front of a girl, he will be very indifferent to show you his face, demonstrating that you don't want him to actively pursue you. It's impossible. Push the responsibility on the woman, and then she will leave. At the same time, she will lose her image and opportunity, and her feeling and good impression on him. No woman would be interested in a man who has no pity.
The fourth kind, melancholy man
They see life as too heavy and make problems serious. They often ask what to do about it and often say it's annoying. They are in a place where the air is oppressive. The dull atmosphere is easy to infect others. They make people not see hope, but more see the darkness and sadness of life. With them, you have to guess what he is bothered with, why he is not happy, and with such a man, he is always in a state of depression, which is really not affordable for ordinary people.
The fifth, childish man
The childishness and childishness here should be treated strictly differently. Of course, men are a little childish and childlike, but if your boyfriend is a 'child' who does not have the ability to take care of himself or his partner, most women will not accept this kind of man.
The sixth kind of ignorant man
A man with no idea is like a walking corpse without energy or light. Such a man can't give a woman a sense of security, which is very important for women, so the ignorant single man is not likable.
The seventh, rough man
For women, men with hot temper and rough personality are really incurable weak men. Just because they can't speak sense and have no logic, they are cowardly enough to deal with everything with violence. In the face of such a man, we should speak carefully and do things carefully every day, for fear that he will be upset by carelessness, and then it may be kicking and punching. Which woman would like to live in fear every day?
The eighth, the man of love
The man of flower heart is more not true love, but stealing. Presumably, no woman wants her boyfriend or husband to chat with all kinds of women everywhere, eat and drink and have a drink. Playful men are always surrounded by women. They always have a reason to talk to women. It is difficult for such a frivolous and irresponsible man to find a partner for life.
What kind of men do girls like?
1. The family should be rich.
Today's little girls are very material under the guidance of their parents' education. They regard choosing a spouse as their second employment in their lives, especially the little girls with a good family background, who are strictly controlled by their parents. They not only require decent and promising stable work for the male side, but also require the male side to have a car and their own house without mortgage, It's better to be a boy from a 'rich second generation' family.
2. Be handsome and bright in appearance.
Today's little girls value men's appearance very much. It's different from the previous generation, who first look at their personality and then look at their political future. They like the handsome appearance of the male protagonist in Korean dramas, especially the handsome boy who knows how to make the girls happy, and the girls are even more eager. In the same way, the boys prefer the beautiful girls with the devil's figure. In the words of the boys, this is the double amplification of good genes.
3. Age is no longer a problem.
For today's girls, choosing the older men is to find a more father like favor. What's more, the older men are basically successful in business and have a better economic foundation. Especially the men who have experienced marriage will know how to cherish themselves, how to win the favor of girls, and how to make girls have a kind of love The feeling of love, so that girls can easily fall in love with themselves.
4. Believe in how you feel.
Now many little girls like to stay at home and rarely go out to meet face-to-face, but they don't like to meet the opposite sex through matchmaker introduction. Many people first meet and make initial contact through virtual chat tools such as QQ or MSN. Even if they really meet and get along with each other, they are very confident and sensitive about their first feelings, and have no eye contact or first feelings Bad people will definitely turn around and leave.
5. Make yourself comfortable.
Today's little girls value their feelings very much. If they can feel happy and comfortable together, they will stick together. Even if they are not in the same space, they can stick together on mobile phones and computers, as well as SMS, QQ and MSN. They can ignore others' opinions and suggestions at all. However, when they no longer feel each other's feelings Even if the other side makes him feel uncomfortable, he can kick it without hesitation.
6. They should have the same interests.
Being able to play and play are the characteristics of young people nowadays, especially when both sides talk about the video games or toys that young people like to play, they should have topics that can be answered. If one side knows nothing or can't get in his mouth, he will definitely be regarded as a person from an alien ball. If he can't get into the other side's conversation topics, he can't get into the other side's life circle, and can't get into the other side's Naturally, the life circle can not enter into the emotional world of each other.