What is Chengdu dating and disdaining chain?
Four seas network: a few days ago, China's contempt and disregard of chain led to a great stir of public opinion. Many unmarried men and women were mad about this. They even destroyed the three concepts. Even the people's daily also sent papers to despise chains and put substance over emotions. Recently, Chengdu also had a blind eye chain. Unlike other despised chains, they did not care about housing accounts and so on. Object, let's see the details below!
'sister, you don't have to have a Chengdu account. Anyway, I have one. Wechat for you and my son, you can chat. In the middle of Chengdu people's Park, there are trees and people. On both sides of the road, in the flowerbeds and on the umbrellas, a piece of plastic paper about the same size was spread out orderly. On the paper, a few words outlined the basic situation of unmarried people. This is the largest folk blind date corner in Chengdu. Hundreds of parents gather here every day to wait for their son or daughter to be 'selected'.
From the path of the blind date corner, the information on both sides is endless. People look, look, gossip, take pictures, record. Not far from the blind date corner, the exercisers are dancing in the square, singing, sword dancing and Taiji playing without interfering with each other. Most of the people who occupy a corner of the park are elderly parents. They hang up their children's marriage and friends lists in an attempt to find the right people for their children. In recent days, the "disdain chain" of blind dates in Beijing and Guangzhou has touched the parents who have little access to the Internet and become a big talk among them.
On July 19, cover journalists interviewed more than 10 parents seeking marriage for their children, and collected nearly 300 resumes to try to piece together the Chengdu version of the "disdain chain". During the interview, the reporter found that compared with Beijing, Guangzhou and other cities, Chengdu is much more tolerant and gentle. Good character, eye-catching and good character become the high-frequency words of seeking fate in the mouth of these parents.
Behind inclusiveness, there are also personalized needs. Some parents said that they value the aspect very much. The rabbit and the chicken are not suitable. In addition, female doctors, doctors and nurses will also encounter 'contempt' here. Other parents said: 'it's better for a woman's parents to be retired employees of regular enterprises with pensions'. It's worth noting that height is also a concern of parents. Girls under 1.6 meters may be introduced to younger brothers under 1.7 meters. (this article is edited and collated by sihai.com, reprinted and noted with source, original link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/)
Blind date
No hard requirements for house account
Good character, good taste, high frequency words
Basically no hard requirements for RV
Standing in the middle of a group of kind parents, Wang Yueyue, dressed in a Jeans Dress with a hanging shirt, is particularly eye-catching. For this Chongqing girl who just worked from Beijing to Chengdu, the blind date corner of the people's Park is a magical new world.
'they were so enthusiastic. They gathered around and asked questions. They thought they were no different from my nagging mother every day. 'Wang Yueyue said with a smile that when she was in Beijing, her elder martial sister tried to introduce her to her. The little girl thought that she could barely count her skin white, beautiful and highly educated. The family of Xiaokang had no burden. As a result, she was despised because she didn't have a Beijing hukou.' but she went to see her elder martial sister. As a result, the boy not only brought his mother, but also occupied his family with me It's as cheap as it is. Tut, it's said that the future generations will be the people under the root of the imperial city. '
Tolerance, this is Wang Yueyue's biggest feeling when he strolled in the people's Park in the afternoon. "I didn't see a blind date asking for a local account, or a house with a car. It's just a matter of conscience. '
As Wang Yueyue said, the reporter saw in the dating corner, almost all of the dating information, only a simple list of personal data, for the other party, the most economic conditions involved in the formulation is' equal conditions'.
'it's not hard to get Chengdu's Hukou. Besides, this is the condition for my child to find a similar one and live a real life. 'an aunt in a flower skirt, waving a fan, muttered to Wang Yueyue,' you see, my daughter is a civil servant, and those boys who don't have stable jobs will not find them. '
In addition, good character, good character, stable work, good study and progress... These are the most frequently used words in the demand for seeking. "The real type of people who want a house and a car as soon as they come up, compared with the family background, are not many. 'the aunt exclaimed.
More personalized requirements
It's not a good match
Doctors and nurses will be rejected
Of course, there are exceptions to inclusion.
Zhang Ai, 24, was rejected because of her gender. It's just that it's different from Beijing's blind date and despise the "sheep" in the chain. Zhang Ai of the year of the rooster was blocked by a rabbit.
Zhang Ai, who graduated from a 211 university, now works in a state-owned enterprise in Chengdu with stable work. Her parents met a 1987 boy in the people's Park. All the conditions were right. She liked the look of the boy in the picture. I was going to meet and talk to each other, but the boy asked someone to bring the news and said it was inconsistent. Forget it.
'it's said that rabbits and chickens are not suitable. I didn't expect this one. 'Zhang Ai, who heard the news, was not happy. (this article is edited and collated by sihai.com, reprinted and noted with source, original link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/)
'it's really not appropriate to look at the zodiac now. But although we don't care, there may be old people who care about this. "Said one of the parents who wandered around to find a partner for her daughter in this dating field.
In addition to the genitals, there are also requirements for the 'occupation' of the object. In a dating file, there are many regulations that require each other's conditions, such as "height", "education", "appearance", "housing", "occupation" and "economic situation". Some young men wrote in the special requirements, "except doctors and nurses.". "The reporter guessed that it may be because the doctors and nurses are busy and have irregular working hours.
Of course, there are more 'exotic' requirements. For example, a mother looking for a partner for her son asked her to graduate from "985, 211 universities", "Bachelor's degree", "no brothers and sisters", "city account", "parents are regular enterprise retirees with pension". Her son, who is only a civil servant graduated from an ordinary university, has a house and a car.
Blind date
Female doctor 'pick the skull'
People's Park 'no market'
Let it register for marriage website
Liu Yan is a 27 year old doctor at Sichuan University. As she is doing a market research on dating in Chengdu, she went to the people's Park for a field visit in the early morning. She wondered if conditions like her own could be 'seen'.
Around 10 a.m., the female doctor appeared in the blind date corner of the park. She specially dressed up, black short sleeves with vertical striped wide leg pants, also wearing a straw hat. Just into the woods, a wave of aunts in their 50s surrounded them. 'my sister is looking for her own? What do you want? Liu Yan briefly introduced her situation. She was full of warm aunts and suddenly changed her face.
'doctor? Haven't graduated yet? You're a little annoyed to find it here. "Said an aunt. 'sister, you'd better find it at school. You don't have a market here. So many of your classmates, please ask them to introduce you. 'another aunt continued.
A mother from Leshan, who came to meet her son, told reporters that it wasn't that the doctoral students were bad, but that they were 'too good to learn, so that the doll wouldn't stand'. She said that her friend's son had a bachelor's degree. Last year, she married a doctor's daughter-in-law. 'it's like marrying a Buddha at home.' the communication between the husband and the wife is not good, it's just a marriage to make do with '.
Knowing Liu Yan's situation, another mother, who is looking for marriage for her daughter, comforted her by saying, "why don't you sign up for a marriage website and let those consultants introduce you? You can definitely find it with some money.".
Talented students pull their eyeballs
Sichuan University of Finance and economics is everywhere
University of California, Berkeley graduates are also dating
People's Park matchmaking market is full of fireworks. There are many talented people in the matchmaking market. (this article is edited and collated by sihai.com, reprinted and noted with source, original link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/)
Sichuan University, Xi'an Jiaotong University, Southwest University of Finance and economics, Huazhong University of science and technology, and Central University for Nationalities & hellip; end up on the A4 paper of "sitting in a row". At a glance, the graduating colleges are 985 and 211.
In addition to the famous students in China, there are also many overseas returnees who come to ask for marriage. They are masters in Germany, double degrees in the UK and doctors in the United States. They are very talented. The University of California Berkeley postdoc, born in 1983, has attracted many onlookers' astonishment. At the scene, a young girl took out her mobile phone and quickly took a picture of the postdoctoral information with a phone number on it.
However, the requirements of the "other half" are not high. For example, the University of California postdocs hope that the other side's heart will be soft after '1.58 and above' 89 '. Others even have only a few numbers, such as "appropriate conditions" and "appropriate conditions".
The short man is a little hurt
Girls under 1.6 meters
May be introduced to a 1.7-meter-old brother
'sister, you're too tall. You can't stand more than 1.55 meters. You want to numb me. 'in a corner of the blind date corner, an intermediary is pulling a girl in her 20s to register.
'I really have 1.6 meters. 'looking at the intermediary, the girl argued, blushing.
'sister, I didn't say you should be honest in the registration information. I don't need to compare your height with a ruler. I'll be right at a glance. 'said the agent, writing down the girl's height in a red notebook.
In the dating corner, height, and education, age, work side-by-side 'four carriages'. A female agent in her 50s told reporters that it's hard to find someone who is too tall or too short to meet in the people's Park.
'for example, if the woman is 1.55m, I will only introduce him to her. If the woman has 1.57m, you can consider introducing 1.72m. If the height of the woman is more than 1.6 meters, it will definitely introduce 1.75-1.8 meters. "She told reporters that many girls who come to meet each other are not tall and still want to find tall ones." how can it be so easy? Do you think one meter eight will look like one meter 55? "
Under the girl's obstinacy, the agency promised to introduce a man of 1.75 meters to her. 'sister, I can't guarantee that he can see you. Although you are a graduate student, he wants to find someone over 1.6 meters. '
Enter after 95
22 years old and 77 years old
Most of them are women
You can find it when you are 25, a little anxious when you are 28, and divorce when you are 35. 'the main force in the marriage market is the 25-35 age group. However, in the matchmaking field here, people who have been 'killed' for 95 years have been conscripts.
'sister, you're not looking. You're 26 years old. All the girls who have just turned 20 are looking for them. An aunt stopped the girl who was looking at the information and publicized the thick 'files' in her hands. Among them, there are graduates of Xihua University who were born in 1995. At the age of '95, the conscripts were stunned by the fact that they were bloodless. (this article is edited and collated by sihai.com, reprinted and noted with source, original link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/)
There are "after 95" in the bottom and "after 40" in the top. Many widowed old people are looking for their partners here. Most of them are about 60 years old. The oldest one was born in 1940 and is 77 years old. Relatively speaking, the standards of spouse selection for the elderly are more realistic. Many people require that each other have double insurance and a room. At the same time,