What's the Chinese style dating and disdain chain? For single dogs, it's the most merciless irony. It's too heartbreaking! The media summed up a "Chinese style dating and disdain chain" fire. In Beijing, the most competitive indicator in the dating market is the real estate in the central urban area and education highland of "Beijing residents" and "male returnees" and "female undergraduates". A lot of external conditions have become the weight of many old people's dating and competition. It's sad and pitiful!
This report, entitled "Chinese dating price list: my son is only 33, regardless of girls without Beijing hukou, and if he has a disabled hukou, it's OK to have a disabled hukou". It visited Zhongshan, Tiantan, Yuyuantan, Taoranting, Chaoyang and the dating corners of Pudong Century Park in Beijing and Shanghai, and summed up the experience of these places. There are a lot of sensational descriptions in the article:
'high salary and car room are far less attractive than a Beijing hukou', 'foreigners' resumes are all thrown under the roots of trees',' as long as they detect that the other party has a light or heavy accent, they will wave their hands decisively: & lsquo; we don't find other places! & rsquo; '(this article is compiled by WYH, the editor of sihai.com. If you need to reprint, please indicate the source and source. Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/zone.html)
'there is a big difference between Beijing and Beijing households, just like the yellow flag inlaid and the yellow flag inlaid in the Qing Dynasty. '
'Beijing nationality is the authentic Beijinger at the beginning of ID card 110. No matter how hard Beijing households try, they are also outsiders. They have different regions, accents, living habits, marriage customs and family visits during the new year. '
'it's not that you can marry a Beijing girl by buying a house in Beijing. The number of districts, counties and rings where the house is located is more important. "If I live outside the Fourth Ring Road with you, how can I go to relatives later!"
'those who are still paying off the house loan or who don't even have a house have little place in the dating corner. Except for the extremely attractive women, and men, no matter how good the conditions are, do not consider & rsquo; 100%;. '(this article is exclusively compiled by WYH, editor of sihai.com. If you need to reprint it, please indicate the source and source. Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/zone.html)
'the most common opening words for the old people are & lsquo; it's late. Go back quickly. Don't catch up with the evening peak in a moment, and then delay your going home;. Take the subway as an example. If the other side can get home within half an hour by car, it means that the houses are basically near the Third Ring Road, and the houses within an hour are basically living in the Sixth District of the city, while those over an hour often live outside the Fifth Ring Road. '
Similar questions include 'do you have a car for your child', 'is it good to park a car?', and 'parking fees are not expensive?', to infer whether the other party's house is located in a medium and high-end business district or an old community.
At the end of the day, in the park dating market, it's the iron rule to be door-to-door. It's a grand personal marketing and class trading. The house and account are all trading chips on the table. '(this article is exclusively compiled by WYH, editor of sihai.com. If you need to reprint it, please indicate the source and source. Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/zone.html)
Chinese dating list comes from Phoenix Weekly WeChat public.
These explicit practices are not without reason. Nowadays, the house price in the Fourth Ring Road of Beijing is 100000 +, and the house price along the subway in Shanghai is 70000 +, which means that the combination of two ordinary families in Beijing and Shanghai is not only a matter of young people's mutual affection, but also the asset change involved in a marriage letter, which can be compared with the enterprise with tens of millions of assets. Shouldn't such a thing, like an enterprise, engage in 'due diligence', put all the accounts out and put the ugly words in the front?
The reason why the location of the house and the household registration are sensitive is that the resources related to the quality of life and the future of the children are closely linked to this. Without them, they cannot enjoy them. (this article is exclusively compiled by WYH, editor of sihai.com. If you need to reprint it, please indicate the source and source. Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/zone.html)
In this context, there are serious practical reasons for marriage to recognize local people, to be door-to-door, or even to be high-profile in fraud prevention, because to safeguard marriage is to safeguard family wealth security and class level. So "due diligence" dating can not be regarded as anecdote, but should be taken for granted.
As for the details such as "can be slightly disabled, but can't belong to sheep absolutely", it shows another fact that the taboo of the elderly to the zodiac obviously comes from superstition, but today the family property income becomes large, and it is controlled by the elders. The living condition of the young people increasingly depends on the opinions of the elders. As the right of marriage and love speech becomes smaller, you have to bear the standards of these gods and ghosts.