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Chinese price list of blind date

according to the publication of Chinese dating price list, for Chinese people, there are too many external conditions attached to love and marriage. Can such love be pure? Regardless of the fact that the girl without Beijing hukou has been on hot search for a while, what's the matter? In the eyes of Beijingers, the exclusive mood is very obvious. Perhaps in their eyes, a Hukou is far more important than love. Follow Xiaobian to see what's going on?

Chinese dating price list

[door to door is the iron law] Beijing nationality, unmarried, housing, good economic conditions have long been the standard match for the dating market;

[we don't look for foreigners] in the eyes of the old Beijing people in the dating corner, there is a big difference between Beijing nationality and Beijing household. Beijing nationality is the authentic Beijinger with the beginning of ID card 110. No matter how hard Beijing household tries, it is also a foreigner;

[absolutely not sheep] in the blind date corner, the other 11 zodiac animals will always be superior to sheep. Many aunts and uncles think that the life of sheep is not good. They either lose their spouse in the middle of the journey or have no children or daughters. Even if other conditions are suitable, as long as they belong to sheep, they will not consider it.

[dating for the sake of protecting the class] no one in the dating corner wants to find a relatively low-level family whose conditions are not as good as their own, because they are afraid of the decline and the occupation of the wealth that they have accumulated hard. (this article is exclusively compiled by WYH, editor of sihai.com. If you need to reprint it, please indicate the source and source. Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/zone.html)

It's the law of iron to be a door-to-door person. Why do you foreigners have so many things to do? It's good to find someone from Beijing. What else to choose. 'in the blind date corner of Zhongshan Park, a Beijing man who is looking for a mate for his son, scolds a girl who just refused. The same scene may appear in the temple of heaven, Yuyuantan, Taoran pavilion or Chaoyang Park. Numerous well-known uncles and aunts gathered in the parks of Beijing, only to personally manage the life events of their children.

In spite of the hot weather, there are still a large number of elderly people who bring their own benches and dating materials to meet their children in Zhongshan Park. Although photography / Fei Zhi is well-known, the success rate of blind dates is not high. (this article is exclusively compiled by WYH, editor of sihai.com. If you need to reprint it, please indicate the source and source. Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/zone.html)

'now most people are floating. There are too many of them. They are all dazzling. 'said one. In the dating corner, most of them are middle-class urban people of the post-75s and post-80s, with college and undergraduate education as the main education background, as well as Peking University doctor, Tsinghua master and famous American schools. Most of them have settled in Beijing for a long time. With good income or family background, they have at least one independent housing in Beijing with high prices.

Door to door is the iron rule here. In the detailed list of dating conditions, household registration, income, real estate, education and other hard conditions are particularly valued. "Beijing nationality, unmarried, with a house and good economic conditions" has long been the standard match in the dating market. Some have also proposed "Bachelor degree or above in famous universities", "pure old Beijing with working parents", and some even require "CPC members", "intellectual families", etc. Photos are rare. Just like the description of character, character, height, appearance, interest and hobbies in the dating conditions, all of our children are 'handsome men' and 'beautiful women', while the general requirements for each other are 'good character' and 'gentle and generous'. 'dating children is like going to work. It takes years to find one. "These anxious parents occupy a shade deep in the park, which turns the park into a talent market and children's exchange market. (this article is exclusively compiled by WYH, editor of sihai.com. If you need to reprint it, please indicate the source and source. Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/zone.html)

There are a variety of resumes on the ground. Some people call themselves "ever worked as a close English translator for presidents, heads of state and UN secretaries general of many countries in the world", and there are also massage masters who came to make blind dates, holding a colorful red background and white words display board, writing "specially for correction of spine and injury caused by falls" with a photo of training in Taiji suit.

'we don't look for foreigners': the resumes of foreigners are all thrown under the roots of trees.' our son doesn't lack a house, a car or money, even if his height is 1 cm shorter than her family's requirement, her family will choose one from the other. What else will her girl choose on that condition? Beijing's don't only earn a few thousand yuan. If their family can't make a good job or transform from farming to non farming, who can look down on him. '(this article is exclusively compiled by WYH, editor of sihai.com. If you need to reprint it, please indicate the source and source. Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/zone.html)

Mrs. Li married her son, a Beijing girl of average condition, who worked as an administrative post in a middle school. Her monthly salary was 3000 yuan and her family lived in huahugou, Chaoyang. The girl's mother is very picky. She dislikes the fact that Aunt Li's son has a foreign Hukou and is short, which makes her very unhappy.

Her son, 33 years old, used to be a salesman. Later, he spent 30000 yuan on self-study computers and continued to make large copies. Now he is a programmer with a monthly salary of 20000 yuan. He has a house and a car, but no Beijing account. Aunt Li once wanted to introduce a Shandong girl working in a foreign enterprise to her son, but the son repeatedly stressed that he must find 'Beijing's, no burden'. 'he felt that no matter how much money foreigners earn, they have to carry on their house loans for many years. In case their parents are from the countryside, without medical insurance and pension, they need to take care of them when they are ill, and they will not go to school when they have children, and they have to pay for extra-curricular classes, but it's much easier to find a Beijing resident. 'this is the third time that Aunt Li has come to the blind date corner. Compared with her anxiety at the first time, she has a lot of peace.

She has seen clearly: here, high salary and car room are far less attractive than a Beijing hukou. Therefore, she has already given up the high expectations of her daughter-in-law in the future, and only asked each other's parents to get along well with her son. Household registration and regional trampling on each other in the dating corner is particularly naked. (this article is exclusively compiled by WYH, editor of sihai.com. If you need to reprint it, please indicate the source and source. Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/zone.html)

In the eyes of the old Beijing people in the dating corner, there is a vast difference between Beijing and Beijing households, just like the difference between inlaid yellow flag and regular yellow flag in the Qing Dynasty. Although both of them enjoy all the treatment that Beijing hukou should have, the Beijing nationality is the authentic Beijinger at the beginning of ID card 110. No matter how hard Beijing hukou tries, it is also a foreigner, with the difference of region, accent, living habit, marriage custom and family visit during the new year.

The elderly, who are active in the dating corner, have a keen sense of identity and household registration. The old Beijing in these cities can always distinguish the accent outside Beijing accurately between three words and two words. Even if the people in the suburb of Beijing or the people from other parts of the country speak Mandarin and have a thorough understanding of Erhua, they can't fool them. 'where are you from?' this is the first sentence asked by many smart Beijing indigenous elders and aunts.

As long as they detect that the other person has a light or heavy accent, they wave their hands decisively: 'we don't look for someone from other places!' even if the other person has moved his family to Beijing for a long time and got his hukou, it won't help. As for foreigners who don't even have Beijing hukou, they are in an absolute weak position in the dating corner. In the temple of Heaven Park, foreigners without Beijing hukou can only be treated differently, and their dating information is neatly stacked under the roots of trees near the dating corner. It's like an isolated group, with the backpacks and kettles of Beijing's parents as partners, no one cares.