Sihaiwang: in our life, there are many friends around us, but there are few real friends. There are not many friends in one's life. It's enough to have one or two confidants. So what are real friends like? A friend is someone who can help us in the snow. No matter when, he will help you and pull you. I hope you have two or three real friends.
What is a true friend
1. A true friend, for you to pay, is not to return.
We may, in our life, have many people will pass by, have many people will leave a deep impression on us, even become our opinions, that is, real friends. Perhaps, what he pays for you is not to get something in return, but to be able to talk with each other and walk into each other's hearts.
2. A true friend always gives you good advice, not a joke behind your back.
A true friend will always stand up when you are in trouble and bless you silently when you are successful. He is always able to give you good advice, rather than look at your jokes behind your back like some people do.
3. True friends, not too many, become confidants, less.
As the saying goes, it's enough to have a confidant in life. In life, there are not too many true friends, and even fewer people who are destined to become confidants. Maybe we haven't had them in our whole life, and we can't force them to come.
4. A true friend doesn't care about your poverty and wealth, only about your friendship.
A true friend who can come together doesn't care whether you are poor or rich, or how you are. Just being able to walk with you means that you can respect each other. What we care about each other is your friendship.
5. True friends, no matter where they go, are the best consolation and dependence of the soul.
No matter we are far away or close, our true friends will always have the warmest wishes. Maybe we seldom meet each other, but when we meet each other, it's a true friend. No matter what, no matter where, it's the best consolation for our soul and the most reliable friend.
What is a true friend like
It's easy to have fun together, it's hard to work together
Precious love and friendship are nothing more than 'sharing weal and woe, sharing weal and woe'. However, living in the real world, we are always experiencing countless hopes and disappointments, and suddenly find that it is easy to "share happiness" and difficult to "share hardship".
So, when you need him most, if he can appear at your side at the first time, hold your hand, and accompany you through difficulties, the touch of that moment should always be remembered in your heart, which also means that at this moment, you really find the "right" person who can accompany you for life.
I've seen too many friends and heard many cruel stories about "husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and they fly in each other's face". However, the real life does not completely extinguish the hope in our hearts. There are always some good people around us.
Those who are with you when you need them are enough to make us still believe in love and friendship. Yes, it's easy to have fun together. It's hard to share weal and woe together. Sometimes the reality is cruel. Only wish you choose what you want.
It's meaningless to be courteous after heart cooling
'when you are most in need, you will not be there after that. At that time, you will finally understand that the hospitality after heart cooling, like summer's cotton padded jacket and winter's PU fan, has become meaningless. '
When people are in a low ebb, they are the most vulnerable. If you don't take the time to accompany me at this time, when will you really want to accompany me?
A person's loneliness, left, right and so on can't come to you, then the reheat heart will become cold, the biggest disappointment is not the disappointment after not holding hope, but full of expectation but can't wait for you all the time. If one day you can't find me, don't be sad, it's not that I don't love you, nor that you miss me, but that I finally have the courage to leave, but please remember, in Before that, I really had to wait.
Love is when I need you
The best love is when I need you, you happen to be there. All the sweet words are worth your company when I need them most.
Love is not about words, but more about actual actions. Love with "nice words" will never win the hearts of people compared with "sincere company".
Marriage is the best only once in a lifetime. "I wish I had one heart, but I don't want to separate my white head" is probably the happiest ending we can imagine.
The most touching love, in fact, is not as romantic and impractical as the idol play, just need the most simple true feelings to accompany, it is enough to live without regret.
The best love and friendship, in fact, is very simple, that is - when I need you, you happen to be there.
Girls treat you as a friend. Girls treat you as a friend. It'll be clear with you
Girls regard the opposite sex as their friends, which means that you actually enjoy special treatment. Especially for those beautiful girls, it's not easy to become their good friends. That is to say, you need to pay more than other ordinary boys on her, and almost in a willing state to pay. Although you may have your own small abacus, and she knows your own abacus well, she will never give you any chance to verify your integrity. We say that even if you are a good friend, there is a clear boundary between you and your boyfriend. You never have the right to ask for any treatment that your boyfriend can enjoy. Of course, as her good friend, she will do her best to criticize you as a good friend. She will be more or less patient to allow you some requests within the range of friends. Occasionally, she will give you a little sweetness, so that you won't completely lose the chance of counter attack and give up her completely.
Girls will keep distance with you when they treat you as friends
Generally, she will only look for you when she has something to do, and will not contact you when she has nothing to do. Of course, apart from you almost disappear in her circle of friends, she will come out to chat with you like a corpse, to make sure that your heart is still on her. If something happened to her, she would be the first to find you. Sometimes she would not even go to her boyfriend and ask you to help. Do you think it's special treatment? Do you think it means that you are higher than her boyfriend in her mind? If you think so, it's naive. They just don't want to bother their boyfriend.
Girls don't worry about you as friends
You'll never be the most important thing. You can put it aside for a while. If you have a comparison, you can more intuitively know whether you are really just her friend. As long as you see her throwing aside the materials you have given her and happily accompanying her boyfriend to go shopping and eat, you will know what role you are in her mind.
Girls will not let you have a chance to be friends
If you treat her better than before, she will deliberately alienate you. Because, for her, you can only be friends forever. If you dare to disobey her will, she may choose to completely put you in the cold house and never see you again. She will usually suggest her execution plan for your behavior in advance, so as to suppress your unrealistic crazy idea.