Sihai network

How can parents guide their children to indulge in online games?

For modern children, it's not as we used to be. The greatest fun of childhood is to play rubber band and mud. Many children are addicted to online games and can't help themselves, which affects their studies. So for parents, how to guide them to addict to online games?

Case: Xiaochen (pseudonym), Ms. Liu's son, was ranked first in the final exam of the second year of junior high school a year ago. According to the teacher's assessment of Xiaochen at that time, it is no problem to enter the best class of four-star high school in the middle school entrance examination. Now, the gap of scores is not only the best class, but also the threshold of four-star high school. (this article is exclusively compiled by WYH, editor of sihai.com. If you need to reprint it, please indicate the source and source. Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/jiankang.html)

'if he tried hard or didn't play well, I don't have any regrets or complaints, but I've been addicted to the glory of the king for the past six months, and I can't attend any classes. It's really sad, because a game affects the important choice of life, which is too unworthy. 'Ms. Liu often says that to her relatives and friends who care about Xiaochen's performance. (this article is exclusively compiled by WYH, editor of sihai.com. If you need to reprint it, please indicate the source and source. Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/jiankang.html)

Mobile games lead to family 'civil war'

At first, Ms. Liu and her wife thought it was just the rebellious psychology of adolescence, and gradually they knew it was game addiction. They had a heart to heart talk with Xiaochen and his classmates, and learned that half of them were playing King's glory in a gust of wind in Xiaochen class. There were boys, women and QQ groups. Once my son was stimulated and ridiculed by his classmates because of his low game level, and his hard training level indulged in it and ruined his studies. (this article is exclusively compiled by WYH, editor of sihai.com. If you need to reprint it, please indicate the source and source. Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/jiankang.html)

As for how to guide, I think there are several aspects:

First of all, being a parent must set an example. The most taboo is to say not to let children play, while their king glory play happy, which is the most serious, children will have no trust in you.

After that, when parents have enough prestige for their children, they can reward them with games, set learning goals for their children, and if they reach the goal, they will be rewarded, and if they fail to reach the goal, they will be punished.

Finally, the current game can bring some historical and literary elements more or less, and how much can be introduced to children depends on the ability of parents. For example, if a child likes to use Monkey King, he will show him the journey to the West; if he likes to use Liu Bei, he will show him the romance of the Three Kingdoms; if he likes to use Miyamoto, he will introduce the history of the Warring States to him; if he likes Marco polo, he can introduce Marco Polo's travels to him; and so on.

It is more effective to turn the game into a tool that you can master than to ban the game.