In China, generally speaking, pregnant women are not allowed to attend other people's weddings. Do you know why? What's the point? The Chinese nation is a nation with rich history. There are many requirements for pregnant women in ancient customs. It is said that pregnant women can't go to temples three months ago. It is also said that pregnant women can't go to weddings;
Among them, pregnant women can't attend weddings, which pregnant women usually encounter. Do you know the following reasons?
Reason 1: new people will bump into pregnant women
The collision here refers to the collision between the two spirits. Some people may question: 'there are many people who marry with their children, why don't they rush?'
The old people usually tell you that others are their own God of joy and their own God of viviparity, and their own people do not collide with their own; and your God of viviparity is different from their God of joy, of course, there is a collision.
In fact, it's also prudent to marry with your son, because too much excitement will easily lead to miscarriage, so if your child has a baby first, the elders in the family will generally help the new person settle down the fetal spirit first.
In particular, if pregnant women have to go to the wedding, they can't go too close to the bride and groom, let alone enter the new house, or even sit on the wedding bed.
More saying: the bride sees pregnant mother, can life is not smooth all her life, or at least more than three years can bear a baby. Therefore, not only the pregnant mother is afraid of collision, but also the bride and bridegroom's family will have some scruples about it! (this article is exclusively compiled by WYH, editor of sihai.com. If you need to reprint, please indicate the source and source. Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/zone.html)
Reason 2: disorderly environment on site
Marriage is a happy event. Everyone likes to make a scene. But there are too many things pregnant women should pay attention to at the wedding.
① the sound is too noisy. Before the ceremony, in order to pursue the festive atmosphere, the new couple sometimes play some music or simply invite a band. The deafening sound effect will not only affect the mood of pregnant women, but also the fetus.
Second hand smoke. If someone smokes at the wedding site, the dirty air and second-hand smoke will easily stimulate the fetus to have adverse reactions.
③ the site is closed. The general wedding ceremony is in a large banquet hall. The wedding takes about two hours from the guests entering to the end. Because of many people and poor air circulation, staying in a place without fresh air all the time will make pregnant women feel dizzy and nauseous, and make their babies lack oxygen.
4) the children ran into each other. If there are children running around in the wedding ceremony, they accidentally hit the pregnant woman's abdomen, and the consequences are unimaginable.
⑤ the toilet is slippery. The bathroom floor of the hotel is mostly paved with marble, and many guests habitually throw water on the ground after washing their hands. If pregnant women don't pay attention to walking and their feet slip, it is likely to cause tragedy. (this article is exclusively compiled by WYH, editor of sihai.com. If you need to reprint it, please indicate the source and source. Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/zone.html)
Reason 3: too many dishes are not suitable for pregnant women
There are many things that pregnant women should not eat, and the food provided at the wedding banquet can not be changed at will. Wine can be avoided, but in each dish is there any food that pregnant women can't accept.
And now whether the wedding dishes can ensure sanitation, no one can really supervise, so pregnant women to attend the wedding diet is also a big problem. (this article is exclusively compiled by WYH, editor of sihai.com. If you need to reprint it, please indicate the source and source. Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/zone.html)
Reason 4: fear of pregnant women's fault
Wedding, the most afraid is the unexpected situation of pregnant women, wedding families can not afford.
Some pregnant women don't think so. They give birth or even have children at the wedding. As the saying goes, if a wedding is destroyed by blood light, the family that handles the wedding will pour out 'blood mould'!
When you don't see the wedding in ancient times, even if someone commits the crime of killing his head, he will avoid a robbery or choose a day to kill again. In some places, it's forbidden for a woman to enter a new house.
Therefore, adhering to the principle that more is better than less, some people will not invite pregnant women to participate in marriage. (this article is exclusively compiled by WYH, editor of sihai.com. If you need to reprint it, please indicate the source and source. Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/zone.html)
Reason 5: pregnant women are easy to provoke right and wrong
Pregnant women are easy to become the focus of the topic because of their attractive appearance. Not to mention guessing men and guessing women, sometimes leads to some topics, such as how to pacify the pregnant husband, whether the husband will cheat, and so on. It is easy for the bride and groom who should be the focus of attention to be robbed of the limelight by the pregnant woman. Therefore, in order to avoid a large number of people, pregnant mothers do not have to go to the wedding.
As some superstitious sayings above, although we can't be partial, in reality, in the face of the wedding scene with many affairs, in order to avoid the influence of pregnant mother and fetus, pregnant women are better not to attend the wedding as much as possible.
If it is a wedding that must be attended, then it is recommended that pregnant women sit at the position near the window, try to sit at the same table with female guests, do not sit near the sound, pay attention to protecting their own safety when they get up and walk, and be careful when going to the bathroom.
Standing on the wedding side, if your best friend is pregnant, you can also decide whether to invite her to the wedding site according to the actual situation of your best friend.