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How to politely refuse to persuade on the table

How to politely refuse to persuade on the table

There is a saying in China: no wine, no table. It can be seen that Chinese wine culture is also broad and profound. In daily social activities and communication, it is inevitable that all kinds of meals are encouraged to drink, and it seems that people are not respected if they don't drink, so how to politely refuse to drink on the table? Here are some tips for refusing to drink.

I. as long as the relationship is good, how much can I drink!

You can expand and say: 'ninety nine hundred ninety-nine roses can't make a love. Only when the feelings are not enough, can we use roses. Therefore, as long as the relationship is good, how much can we drink? I don't want our relationship mixed with so much water;. Although I drank a little, it was a drop of deep feeling. Every little bit is love! "

Two, as long as the feelings to the position, do not drink will be intoxicated!

Try saying: 'it's a pain to drink with someone you don't like; it's a touch to drink with someone you like. When we come together, it means that we are in the right place. As long as the feelings to the position, do not drink also intoxicated.

Three, as long as the feelings have, drink anything is wine!

If you really can't touch wine, you may as well persuade the other party to replace wine with drinks or tea. You ask him, 'do we have any feelings?' he will answer, 'yes!' and you say, 'as long as we have feelings, anything we drink is wine. What is emotion? Emotion is understanding. Long live understanding! "Then you use tea instead of wine to express it.

Four, shallow feelings, even drink a big bowl; deep feelings, even lick!

On the table, thousands of words can only be attributed to the word "drink". For example: 'if you don't drink this wine, you must think I am ugly. "Such as: 'deep feelings, a swallow; shallow feelings, a lick. 'the persuaders relate how much they drink to the beauty and ugliness of people and the depth of their feelings. You can refute their connection: 'if the depth of feelings is directly proportional to how much we drink, a glass of wine is not enough to reflect our deep feelings. We should jump into the wine vat, because we have been in love for many years. In fact, the feeling is shallow, even if drinking a big bowl; the feeling is deep, even if licking. '

Five, in order not to hurt feelings, I drink; in order not to hurt the body, I drink a little!

He advised you: 'drink! Emotional iron, drink blood! It's better to hurt the body, not the feelings; it's better to drink a hole in the stomach, not to crack the feelings!' this is an irrational performance, you can answer: 'we should consume rationally, drink rationally. Half sober, half drunk, at least accompanied by you in my dream & rsquo; I'm not willing to hurt my body and feelings. Without body, it can't reflect feelings; without feelings, it's walking dead! In order not to hurt feelings, I drink; in order not to hurt body, I drink a little. '

Six, in this happy moment, let's do multiple choice!

Let's open up some ideas, and the way to refuse to drink will come. If he wants to borrow wine to express his feelings and feelings to you, you can say, 'happy moment can do multiple choice questions. To express feelings and meanings, you can: A. hug, B. hold hands, C. drink, choose one of them. I respect you, let you choose; you respect me, should let me choose. Now, I choose A. hug, OK? "

Seven, gentleman move mouth, do not start!

He wants you to drink to him. You can set up a "dilemma", please enter the urn. You asked him: 'would you like to be a gentleman or a villain? Please answer this question first. 'if he says' would like to be a gentleman', you say: 'a gentleman's friend is as light as water', and you can drink tea instead of wine, or you can invite him to drink if a gentleman moves his mouth and doesn't do anything. 'if he says' would like to be a villain', you say 'I don't drink with a villain', and then sit down with a smile. He has no choice.

In a word, there are still many ways to refuse to drink and refuse to drink. We need to adapt ourselves to the circumstances, and "soldiers will stop us". In wine civilization, there are both persuasion and refusal words. You don't have enough alcohol. You can respond in the communication field with your ingenuity and eloquence. Practice makes perfect.

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'some friends say that the highest level of drinking is that other people drink, but he doesn't; the highest skill of drinking is that other people are drunk, but he doesn't; the highest pleasure of drinking is that toasting others can't refuse, but he can run away.