Each person's personality and temperament are different, so there will be two distinct personalities: independent and clingy, which has a lot to do with the growing environment and family situation. In love, do boys like independent women or stick to people? It depends on boys' personalities.
Girls are too clingy and lucky to meet people who are willing to be clingy, but most of them gradually become at a disadvantage in love. Most of the time, it's really nonsense. If you think too much, you'll make trouble. After that, the boy will feel tired. If you're tired, you'll want more and more personal space. The girl will feel less and less secure, and then you'll think again. It seems like a dead cycle! The more you want to get something from him, the less you want, the more sensitive you will be disappointed.
A lot of people will tell me that it's very distressing to meet the other half in love. Some people want their other half to be very clingy, others want their other side to be independent and give themselves some space. So, how do two people in love get along best?
Why men want women to be independent
For men, apart from love, there are many things that need to be dealt with by themselves, such as work, interpersonal conversation in the circle of friends and so on. If her woman stays with him 24 hours a day, everything will make him feel very upset.
I have a friend who says that her girlfriend has to accompany her all day long. Even if we eat together, we always bombard him with wechat, QQ and phone in the morning, which makes him sleepless in the morning. Even when we eat, we don't allow him to eat too fast. Every time my friend complains, he says that there is no free space, even on Saturday and Sunday There is no peace with her. Even if two people just separated for a while. He sighed that he hoped his girlfriend could be more independent.
When two people are together, they are afraid of not being free. When they are together, they lose their most free time. Especially after falling in love, suddenly there is no space for two people to be together. Everyone will feel upset. In fact, women had better learn to be independent, otherwise, such a situation will happen again, sooner or later, the relationship will be over.
Why men want women to stick to people
A woman should have been taken care of in her life, but once she has a boyfriend, her man wants to take good care of the girl, which is not only a responsibility, but also can make people around her feel relieved that she is with you. And in love, two people don't need to think about the future. They get along with each other more happily. At this time, men want their women to be more clingy. What do men need most? His heart that needs to be relied on.
What bothers a man most is a very independent woman. My friend said that his girlfriend is just a man. He has been in love for such a long time that he has never embodied the value of a man. It seems that she can do anything by herself. Even when she enters the restaurant and opens the door, she will be ahead of him. My friend has always been very dissatisfied with her and thinks that she is a man. Her performance always thinks she doesn't need my boyfriend. Although they love each other, a man has a chance to express himself, but his girlfriend's self independence ridicules them.
In fact, men need women to be clingy, and more clingy people will burst their self-esteem and make them feel that they are needed, so in love, clingy women know how to please men better.
After saying so much, is it better to stick to people or to be independent? I personally think it's better to stick to people emotionally. Your man is your life's support. Emotionally, you are together. Only when you are emotionally connected can you ensure that the two people will last for a long time in the future. Of course, we must be independent in life. A man is not your day or everything. An independent woman has her own future. Otherwise, you will lose the whole meaning of life.