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Ten ways to distinguish a woman from a man as a spare tire

Usually speaking of spare tire, it refers to men, but you need to know that everything has two sides, and women will be used as spare tire. Therefore, female friends should be vigilant. This is the case that you are a spare tire. You must seriously consider your feelings.

1. Do not want to introduce you to your relatives or friends, and do not want to know your circle

When you want to take him to see your family or friends, or complain that he doesn't introduce his friends to you, he always puts off for various reasons, such as love has nothing to do with others, bad temper of his family, etc., so please be prepared mentally, these tactics can be translated into 'you are just a spare tire, I'm not going to be serious, which will affect my looking for a girlfriend'. A man is not complicated. If he really likes you, he will be eager to tell the world that you belong to him from now on.

2. Ambiguous but unwilling to be too close

His words will always give you some hints, such as: you are a very important person in my mind, if we are still single after XX years, it's better to get married, you are not just gun friends to me, if my girlfriend is like you & hellip & hellip; in short, give you a kind of illusion that you are quite special in his mind and may have future, but when you want to get closer, be sure Relationship, or want to let him dig his heart and lungs, but he always kept a little distance.

3. Find various reasons to avoid your 'exposure' in his circle of friends

Generally speaking, as long as two people have established a relationship, they will be in a hurry to show their love. It's not enough to be bored with the circle of friends every day. But if a man only treats you as the object of passing time, he will not want you to appear in the circle of friends as a girlfriend, even if there are more sweet words in his daily life. In the face of your doubt, he will always look for various reasons, the reason is the same as the previous one.

You never spend the night together

After intimacy, he will never stay for the night. He will insist on going home even later. He will always use the reason of "something urgent tomorrow morning". Believe me, this man will not take you seriously.

5. Always be passive unless you want to be intimate

He seldom invites or contacts you actively. Even if he does, there are only two situations. One is that he wants to be intimate with you. The other is that he will not find you until the last moment. He rarely makes an appointment with you a few days or even a week in advance. Why? It's not that they are shy and reserved. He has all kinds of ways to contact you, but he doesn't, which only shows that you are actually PlanB in his mind. If he likes you, he will take your feelings and needs into account, not only when he wants to sleep with you.

6. He refuses to promise and always delays

Obviously, it's already ambiguous, and he's always procrastinating when it comes to the level of relationship determination. What's his predecessor's injury, what's the hurry, we can't be together for the time being, and I'm used to a life as comfortable as wind blablablablabla. I'm not going to tell you why. They know that a woman in love can persist as long as she gives some hope, but you don't know that you will only sink deeper and deeper, when the spare tire doesn't know.

7. You can't always do what you promised

'too busy, forget', this is their most common reason. But they are so busy, do you forget what you said? They are so busy that they can't even make a phone call or send a wechat message. Since your work is busier than the president, you should be your president. Why do you still have time to play with ambiguity? To put it bluntly, I don't trust you.

8. You always appear when he is not good

When we meet happy things, we always want to tell our beloved one at the first time, right? But it seems that he will tell you and need you to appear only when the mood is not good? If so, either the person is often in bad mood (please stay away from it), or he left his scenery to his goddess, leaving you only the other side.

9. He will never reply to your phone and wechat in time

The man who regards you as a spare tire seldom contacts you actively. In turn, even if you look for him, he may not respond to you in time. Especially if you send wechat in the past, he may directly pretend not to see it, be busy, not receive it, and then delay to return, or be bored to return.

No matter how good your conditions are, there will always be someone who doesn't love you. If this man doesn't give up his sincerity at all, please don't waste time, give yourself hope and explain for him again and again, and know that a bad man, even if he gets it, is just a kind of self depreciation.

10. He always stood you up and couldn't give you a definite answer

It's normal for you to be pigeoned once in a while, but once his behavior becomes a habit, or when you offer an invitation, such as going to the cinema in the evening, he always says "I want to see the situation" and "I'll reply to you later", then be careful, you may just be the spare wheel. If a man is really so busy, how can he not know what he has to do at night? If he is really busy at work, just tell you directly, then why cover it up? The man who really cares about you, even if he can't meet you for a while, he will immediately find another time to meet you.