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What's the matter with bad comments on girlfriend not working? Does a girl go to her mother-in-law's

many people like to take their own objects home during the Spring Festival, so for girls, do you want to work when you go to mother-in-law's house for the first time? Do you want to be diligent or just like when you are in peace? Recently, a girl was criticized for not working because she went to her mother-in-law's house.

This Spring Festival, 26-year-old Zhao Zhengkai brought his girlfriend home for the first time in his life to celebrate the new year. At the place where he went home, his relatives and neighbors praised her for her beauty and foreign manner. In less than two days, when the plot turned around, his girlfriend was criticized by the whole family. On the first day of the new year, he had a dispute over a meal of dumplings and went back home in advance;

Take the goddess of Chongqing back to her hometown in the countryside to celebrate the new year

Today (25th), reporters met Zhao Zhengkai at the gate of Red Star Macalline mall in Ranjiaba. He is about 1.76 meters tall and works in the new media operation Department of a nearby home decoration company. Zhao Zhengkai's whole face was sad, because of his unhappy spring festival experience.

Zhao Zhengkai's hometown is in the rural area of Handan, Hebei Province. After graduating from Chongqing University of Posts and telecommunications, he stayed in Chongqing to work. In May 2017, he finally succeeded in chasing the goddess Xiaogu for more than four months hand in hand. Xiao Gu is one year younger than Zhao Zhengkai and works in the same office building with Zhao. In the photo, Xiaogu is a standard Chongqing beauty with slim figure and long wavy hair.

On the 29th day of the lunar calendar, the two returned to Zhao Zhengkai's hometown. 'after getting off the plane and turning around all the way, her face was not good. "That night, Xiao Gu quietly complained to Zhao Zhengkai, but he didn't expect his home to be so cold and remote.

The next morning, all the neighbors and villagers came to visit him and praised him for his good looks. Zhao Zhengkai and his family were very happy and proud.

Refusing to make dumplings causes a dispute

But soon, Zhao's sister was dissatisfied with Xiaogu. It turns out that Zhao Zhengkai's solar water heater is frozen and can't be used. In the evening, Xiaogu uses up all the hot water in his house by himself. In addition, although the bedroom where Xiaogu lives is specially air-conditioned, Xiaogu is still not satisfied because there is no separate bathroom.

On the first day of the lunar new year, the whole family wanted to make dumplings together, but Xiaogu came out after 10 o'clock in the bedroom with make-up. Then he took a hand-held humidifier and said to the room with a stove on it: 'the fire made my face red, and I had to keep replenishing water. '

Zhao Zhengkai said that his father's face suddenly turned ugly when he raised the fire for Xiaogu. When his mother asked Xiaogu to make dumplings together, Xiaogu refused to make dumplings because they were not good. He sat alone on the sofa and played with his mobile phone. Zhao's mother sighed.

After eleven o'clock, seeing Xiaogu still sitting still, Zhao Zhengkai's sister couldn't help but let her participate in the picture of reunion. However, Xiaogu said that there was no such custom and stress in the south, so they quarreled and ended up with Xiaogu's anger returning to the bedroom.

'she didn't come out for lunch either. The whole family was silent. 'Zhao Zhengkai sighed.

Sleep late and don't work

Next, although through Zhao Zhengkai's mediation, Xiaogu and his sister no longer have a cold war, but Xiaogu insists on getting up after nine o'clock every day and dressing up in the room until after ten o'clock, which is contrary to the rest of the family.

In addition, unlike her sister, who is busy with her parents every day, Xiaogu never goes into the kitchen. Zhao Zhengkai advises Xiaogu, but Xiaogu says that the kitchen has a smell next to the pigsty, and the kitchen is too cold in the yard. Her body can't stand the cold. Zhao Zhengkai describes Xiaogu as a "boss with legs raised" who waits for dishes to be served every day.

'my parents say you're lazy. You'd better earn some performance and let everyone recognize you. 'on the second night of the first year, Zhao Zhengkai couldn't bear to talk to Xiaogu.

Xiaogu was very excited: 'I bought gifts for everyone in my family and was very polite to everyone. I didn't complain about the cold dishes. I just couldn't adapt to the weather and environment. Was there anything wrong with me?'

Change ticket and return to the government in advance

On the third day of junior high school, Xiao Gu insisted on changing his ticket and called his parents to return to Chongqing in advance. Zhao Zhengkai had to change the ticket from the sixth day of junior high school to the fourth night of junior high school. 'it's hard for me, but I can't let her go alone. I'm not sure. '

At noon on the fourth day of the lunar new year, they went to the airport by car. Later that night, the two arrived at Chongqing airport, where Xiaogu's father had been waiting. Xiaogu told Zhao Zhengkai that they would stay calm for a while and then contact again, and then they left with their father.

'she hasn't paid attention to me these days. I'm confused. 'Zhao Zhengkai said that his sister said via wechat voice:' if you can't see our family, don't force yourself. '

Yesterday, the reporter contacted Xiaogu. Xiaogu said that he didn't mean not to work. He couldn't adapt to the weather, and his bones were hurt by the cold. Moreover, the kitchen is burning, and washing dishes is cold water. She really can't do it. She also explained it to Zhao's parents, but still can't understand it. 'I sleep until 12 o'clock every day when I'm at home for Chinese New Year. I get up at 9 o'clock every day there just to earn performance. What else can I do?'

Survey: the first time I went to the man's house, it was the most popular to choose dishes and wash dishes

Yesterday, through QQ, wechat, telephone and other ways, the reporter interviewed 80 rail families. Without exception, the interviewees said that when they went to the man's home for the first time, they must do some housework, or they would be labeled "lazy", but they have different opinions on what to do.

Feng Qian, 32, who works in a financial company in Jiangbei, is now a second-born mother. She believes that both parents of the man hope that the daughter-in-law will be able to do housework in the future. Therefore, it is necessary to compete for some housework, such as choosing dishes, serving dishes, washing dishes and sweeping the floor.

'you don't have to come. You just have a rest. 'Chongqing netizen' Xiaoye 'said that the man's parents should not believe this sentence. They must be polite and decent to grab jobs. Even if they wave with a broom, the final wind review will be much better.

'when I first went to my parents-in-law's house, I volunteered to cook, and it turned out to be very unpleasant, but it left a good impression on their family that they were diligent and willing to work. 'Miss Zhao, who lives in Nanbin Road, is 27 years old. She said that every time she goes to her mother-in-law's house, she still has to rush to cut fruit, pour her mother-in-law's clothes, etc.

According to the comprehensive survey, the most popular and appropriate household chores are washing dishes, serving dishes and choosing dishes, followed by sweeping the floor and cleaning the house, and a few people suggest that they can massage and iron clothes.

Comment: don't do housework in a big way, it's better to be in the auxiliary position

Chen Zhilin, a member of Chongqing psychological society, said that the first impression is very important when people get along with each other, so it's necessary to go to my parents in law's house for the first time, in addition to being polite and proper, to take the initiative to do some housework, which not only reflects my diligence, but also shows my love for my husband with action.

But when doing housework, there are also some taboos to pay attention to. Don't do everything. The most important thing to pay attention to is that you should not direct your boyfriend to slip around, which not only won't add points, but also is considered to be too strong and not reserved.

Chen Zhilin suggested that smart girls should put themselves in the position of starting, rather than helping to complete some cleaning and preparation work in the kitchen. After dinner, they should not leave without shaking hands, but should help to clean and clean together.