Recently, a mother reported to Qianjiang Evening News & middot; Hour news reporter for help: the head teacher sent a screenshot of her daughter's final examination paper for moral class. She almost fainted after reading it. Later, I showed it to my father. As a result, my father looked up and sighed. " We really don't know how to teach this little devil in the future. " The mother said.
Her daughter is in the sixth grade of a public primary school in Hangzhou. Her homework is careless, but she has always been very thoughtful. She usually likes to express her unique opinions to the people around her. What made my mother faint and my father sigh was actually a suggestion my daughter wrote to the teacher in the final exam paper.
Question on the test paper: 'what do you think your class can improve. Please write down the problems you find and elaborate on your golden ideas for improvement. " The little girl replied, 'I think my class can reduce our homework a little. We are tired! Do you know? It's normal for us to study 16 hours a day! We study hard and don't have a penny's salary! How do you feel about teachers working day and night without salary? The teacher assigns less homework. I'm relaxed and you're relaxed! "
As a bystander, Qian Bao reporter couldn't help laughing after reading it. The little girl's' speaking out 'progressed layer by layer, which was quite logical.
Is the little girl writing the truth? Mom doesn't think it's all. Her daughter gets up at 7 a.m. and goes to bed at 10:30 p.m., which also includes time for eating and rest, so the saying of learning for 16 hours is exaggerated. " The school has a lot of homework, but it is definitely not much. My daughter does it very late for two main reasons: first, she is slow and often gets stuck when she meets difficult math problems; Second, spend time practicing flute every day. "
What bothers the parents is how to teach their daughter in the future? Therefore, they specially asked Qian Bao reporters to ask parents and teachers for advice through the hour news app: our little girl has both personality and thinking, but is there a problem with her point of view? Need correction? How can I help my daughter analyze the problems?
Yesterday, the hourly news app, the official wechat of Qianjiang Evening News and the education wechat 'entrance treasure' received many parents' messages, and many teachers spoke freely.
Children have their own ideas
Dare to express should be encouraged
Bamboo shadow: Children's handwriting is neat, their ideas are clear and independent. It's very good.
My son's name is William: Congratulations, mom and dad. Your daughter has a certain idea! And she dares to express her ideas. All you have to do is support her!!!
Meow meow: it's a good thing to be able to express your ideas boldly. It shows that you are thinking. Thinking children are not bad, so you can discuss it with her, learn what it is for, and correct your attitude.
Blue son is not a fish: we can't blindly press the anxiety of adults on children. I feel that the contents of primary school students' learning now catch up with the contents of our primary school + junior middle school 20 or 30 years ago. It's really harder than we used to be.
Dream mirror: now children are tired of learning. My first grade baby feels like preparing for the college entrance examination. There are a lot of papers and there is no spare time to review.
Prince: the school's written homework can be arranged less, so that students can review and preview independently and expand themselves. Autonomous learning and thinking are the most important.
Tranquility: teachers can do less homework, relax themselves, and students can complain less, but competition is here. She can't know the cruelty of reality. Usually her parents don't pay enough attention to her and have less ideological exchange. They learn for themselves and increase knowledge. She probably can't understand competitiveness and the cruelty of reality. Thank those teachers who are still desperately pointing out students' problems.
Treat learning as a trade
There are conceptual problems
Fourth grade teacher: her parents' painstaking cultivation and teachers' hard teaching are forcing her to work in her eyes. This is a problem with the three outlooks. The sixth grade is not young. The fourth grade students in our class know that learning is for themselves, and they can understand the pains of teachers and parents.
Guo er's father: the logic is wrong. Now you study for yourself. The knowledge you learn is your own. It's like cooking for yourself. What salary do you want?
VIP Hu Hu: Turning learning into trading is simply not clear that learning is for yourself.
Everlasting longing for each other: learning is not equal to work. What we earn is money, and what we earn is knowledge. The child's three views still need correct guidance.
John gecat: learning is an investment and a tool to make money in the future.
Yinuo: isn't learning your own business? It is the teacher's job for the teacher to keep his homework. Whether to write or not is his own business.
Doughnut mm: when we were 13, would we understand what we only understand when we are 30? To grow up, some detours are necessary. Personally, I don't think we should educate too deliberately.
Sunny and sunny: it's normal for the child to learn for others. Winter vacation let children be home for a month, experience firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea, and understand how to live!
Who is learning for
Parents need guidance
Shuqiu: learn for yourself or for others. Every generation will encounter this problem.
Gvmqia: it's really good for children to think, but the results of their own thinking or discussion with their classmates are not necessarily correct. Therefore, we also need the correct guidance of parents. We can talk to the children about the real purpose of learning and why there is no salary to study in school.
DAGO: parents have the responsibility to tell their children that if they want to relax now, they will have to suffer from life in the future. It is impossible to be relaxed and happy, and then achieve outstanding results different from others.
Flowers bloom and fall: parents should instill from time to time and give more practical examples to their children. If you can't bear the pain of learning, you will suffer the pain of life in the future. It depends on how you choose?
Blotto: learning is really very hard. This is an objective fact. Increase children's life experience, from participating in housework to completing housework independently.
Michell: it's because parents don't guide well. What's easy to reach the standard in learning? God rewards diligence. Children are not working alone. You are about to face the high school entrance examination. At this time, you will sigh. Thank you for working so hard.