Original title: the 24-year-old graduate of the National People's Congress lost contact in Beijing, and his family confirmed his death. He once left home alone because of bad mood
In the early morning of November 22, a reporter from Beijing Youth Daily learned from Wang Yumin's family that it was confirmed that Yu Min had died. " From the perspective of family members, people have been found, and we don't want to say anything more. Thank you for understanding. "
Previously, the family had issued a notice of missing persons, saying that at about 18:40 on November 19, Wang Yumin, a 24-year-old graduate of the National People's Congress, left home alone due to bad mood and lost contact near Fangzhuang, Beijing.
Wang Yumin is 24 years old. Both undergraduate and graduate students are studying in the Business School of Renmin University of China. After graduating from the school in June, he worked in a financial company. " Recently, I often make mistakes in my work. I can't do anything well. I'm very disappointed with myself. "
Sister Yumin said that Yumin just graduated from graduate school in June this year. Before the incident, she revealed that she was in a bad mood due to too much work pressure, and even asked for leave for half a day.
"On the afternoon of the 19th, she asked for leave because of too much work pressure. I was always with her. In the evening, she said she wanted to go out, so she threw me away." My sister told the Beijing Youth Daily that Yumin's undergraduate and graduate students are studying in the Business School of Renmin University of China. She just graduated in June. After working, she lived with her friends in zone 1, Fangguyuan, Fengtai District. In the evening of the 19th, she was lost near unit 5, building 17, the community. At present, his family has lost contact with him for more than 24 hours and has filed a case with the police, 'but he hasn't found it after looking for it all day and all night. Yu Min's close friends, classmates and colleagues all asked, and there was no clue. " My sister said that Yumin is usually introverted. She always holds her own when she has something on her mind. She has a very gentle temper and never gets angry. Now the temperature is low at night. Yumin didn't take her cell phone or wallet when she went out. Her family are very worried about her safety.
Before the loss of contact, Wang Yumin and her friend Ms. Cao rented in zone 1, Fangguyuan, Fengtai District. Ms. Cao said that she and Wang Yumin were junior high school classmates. They had known each other for 13 years. When she returned home from graduation to find a job, they rented a house together. " She is usually introverted, but her work needs to deal with people often, so it is difficult for her to do it. " Ms. Cao said that Wang Yumin has low self-esteem in her life and work, and always looks sad.
Ms. Cao remembers that she went to school abroad two years ago. Wang Yumin told her she had depression. She consulted a psychologist at school and went to the hospital to see a doctor. " Some time ago, she went to the hospital again. I asked her how she was. She didn't say it specifically, and I didn't care. " Ms. Cao now regrets that she did not pay attention to Wang Yumin's situation. For Wang Yumin suffering from depression, Ms. Wang also confirmed to Red Star news that her sister did go to the hospital to see a doctor because of depression.
Earlier, Ms. Cao had agreed with Wang Yumin to introduce her to a boyfriend this week and meet and eat with boys. " I didn't expect such a thing to happen. " Ms. Cao said that Wang Yumin is a cautious and reliable person. She believes that Wang Yumin will not have any extreme behavior.
Xiao Wei (a pseudonym), who once participated in an internship with Yumin in the winter of 2018, recalled: "sister Yumin is a very serious and responsible person. If you ask her any questions, she will help me. She feels very stable and gentle." Xiao Wei said that in the past year, she also encountered various things. She was not in a good mood at one time, so she had less contact with her sister. When she saw the missing person notice on the 20th, Xiao Wei was very shocked, and she didn't expect the worst news in the end. " The wechat avatar of the student sister is a figure running forward in a spacesuit. I hope she can really reach the starry sky she yearns for and be a happy corn. "
Extended reading:
What if there are too many negative emotions?
1. Find out the source
No matter what kind of things, there will be a reason, and so will negative emotions. When there are negative emotions, you should calm yourself down and think about what causes your negative emotions, whether it is because of clothing problems, lack of sleep, or too concerned about others' evaluation of yourself. You should find out the source of negative emotions in time, control your emotions, and fully understand your strengths and weaknesses.
2. Change the environment
If you can't get rid of negative emotions, you might as well try to change the environment. For example, if you are upset in the company, you can ask for leave to travel and embrace nature to absorb negative ions in the air, so that your brain, body and mind can get enough oxygen and blood. If work is not allowed, you can take a walk for an hour after dinner every day to regulate your mood and improve your work efficiency.
3. Adjust your way of thinking
Most of the negative emotions are closely related to their own way of thinking. Everyone hopes that what they expect can be done well, but it is inevitable that there will be contradictions due to the influence of the outside world. Everything has two sides. As long as you practice more in life and try to do everything well in life, you can make yourself full of self-confidence.
4. Talk to your friends more
You might as well talk to your relatives or reliable friends to release your negative emotions. Make friends with positive and optimistic people, which can bring positive power. We should listen to more music or books and cultivate interests to enrich the spiritual world and relax our thoughts.
5. Keep moving, breathe deeply or meditate
Regular exercise, 30 minutes of meditation or deep breathing every day can release pressure and eliminate negative emotions in time. Exercise can release tension and vent negative emotions. Meditation can make people calmer. Deep breathing can relax the body and mind and eliminate the tension.
reminder
In our daily life, we will inevitably encounter unpleasant things. We should actively face everything, accept everything with a broad heart, and make friends with positive and optimistic people. After finding something or something that causes negative emotions, you should learn to overcome it.