Many couples become more and more indifferent. When they can't live, they give birth to the idea of divorce. But who will suffer more from the divorce of middle-aged couples? Look at what the following three people said:
Mr. Zhao, 40, divorced for more than a year. Of course, women suffer
Mr. Zhao, 40 pairs this year, has divorced his ex-wife for more than a year. Although he is still single, he is accompanied by a young girl, so his life is also pretty good.
The reason why he chose to divorce was that Mr. Zhao thought his ex-wife was too nagging, and indeed some people were old. Mr. Zhao didn't want to go home every day, because he felt uncomfortable when he saw his ex-wife.
A few years ago, it was tolerable. After contacting many young girls, he felt that he could not live with his ex-wife, so Mr. Zhao decided to divorce, because he felt that middle-aged men could have many choices after divorce.
Mr. Zhao said that a man is about 40 years old, which is the golden age of a man. He is now successful in his career. In fact, it is not difficult to find another suitable one, but women are different. When a woman reaches middle age, it is actually difficult to find another one.
Mr. Luo, 39 years old, has been divorced for more than half a year, and men suffer losses
Mr. Luo, 39, has divorced his ex-wife for more than half a year. Although Mr. Luo has always hated his wife, especially after his wife is pregnant, Mr. Luo has always been reluctant to divorce.
It's not because Mr. Luo cares about his old relationship, but because Mr. Luo is afraid that his property will be divided after divorce, so he hasn't divorced, but he has an extramarital affair.
Finally, after his ex-wife found out, he directly sued for divorce. As a result, Mr. Luo had nothing, and then he went out of the house. Mr. Luo now has nothing.
Therefore, he thinks that men suffer more when middle-aged couples divorce, because it involves the joint property of husband and wife. If it is not handled well, men may have nothing.
Mr. Li, 42, has been divorced for two years. No one will suffer
Mr. Li, 42, has been divorced for more than two years. At that time, he and his ex-wife divorced peacefully. After many discussions, they still chose to divorce and leave the children to his ex-wife.
Mr. Li said that if the couple can't live, they should choose divorce, because it's good for both of them, but considering the children's problem, they have been making do without divorce.
After middle age, the child has begun to be sensible, so the two decided to divorce. After divorce, they have their own lives and seldom contact each other.
However, because of the children's problems, the two people still meet occasionally. When they meet again after divorce, they don't look like enemies, but talk about the children calmly.
Therefore, divorce is not right or wrong, just for the sake of two people's future. In fact, there is no problem of loss. As long as you can't live, you can choose divorce.