The biggest harm to couples' divorce must be their young children. What should mothers do if they want to take away their children and get custody of their children? Here are 8 tips that help women get custody of their children for your reference:
The woman's skills for custody are as follows:
1、 Highlight the advantages of your salary or economic conditions.
Now the cost of raising children is getting higher and higher, and all kinds of expenses for children, such as education, insurance, medical expenses and so on. It is human nature for every parent to worry that their children will lose at the starting line and try their best to create good conditions for their children. When judges decide custody, they often first consider the economic conditions of both sides.
2、 Highlight their educational level, living environment and other humanistic advantages.
The story of Meng's mother moving three times tells us the importance of creating a good and healthy growth environment for children. In real life, a community with good public security can ensure the safety of children, and a quiet community can ensure the rest of children. On the contrary, the displaced life can not guarantee the safety and rest of children.
3、 Highlight that you and your parents can accompany your children.
Now many new parents are office workers, and their children can only be taken care of by their grandparents. If the parties can prove that their parents' company time, education level and physical condition are superior to each other, they also have an advantage.
4、 Prove that children have the habit of living with themselves for a long time.
Judges will generally continue the children's living habits, so as not to let the children too much experience the differences between their parents before and after divorce. Because the divorce of parents has been a great trauma to children, if the living environment is changed again, children may not be able to adapt for the time being.
5、 Strive for custody of children in accordance with the law.
In order to protect the basic legitimate rights and interests of children, the law stipulates that children under the age of two, that is, lactating children, are generally raised by their mothers. For children over the age of two and under the age of ten, the ownership of custody is not clearly stipulated, but "everything is conducive to the growth of children" is the principle. For children over the age of 10, the judge will consider their opinions.
6、 Prove that the other party has factors that are not conducive to the child's growth.
If the other party has a lover and is likely to get married, or the other party has bad habits such as drug abuse and gambling, the judge generally will not judge the other party to raise children. In addition, half fathers, half mothers, stepparents and other factors may also affect the healthy growth of children.
7、 Custody is not static.
At the time of divorce, the judge will judge the custody of children according to the situation of both parties, but if the situation changes at that time, the parties can request the court to change the custody at any time. After review, if it is found that Party B with custody is unable to continue to raise children and endanger children, or the other party is more conducive to the growth of children, the court will also change the custody.
8、 Strive to win the child's heart.
Especially for children over the age of 10, the judge will carefully listen to their opinions and record them in the transcripts as an important basis for the judgment of custody. Parents should show sincere and sincere feelings to minimize the harm brought by divorce to their children.