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Do you want to kowtow in the new year? Netizens in the north and the south are discriminating agains

As the old Chinese saying goes, there is gold under a man's knee. It is said that kneeling is as precious as gold, and it is not easy to kneel to people. Of course, from a modern point of view, daughters also have it under their knees. But North and South netizens began to quarrel again. Do you want to kowtow to the elders for the new year? What do you think of this problem.

However, if you go back to your hometown and kneel for 'gold' because of following some traditional customs, dare you?

Recently, netizens have been quarreling about it. A new daughter-in-law from the south is going back to her hometown with her husband from the north. Before she moved, she had learned that she would kneel down to her relatives and elders to receive red envelopes. Even in the first year of her new daughter-in-law's visit, she would kneel down to other elders in her family.

The female side has never had this tradition from the individual to the family, and even thinks that this way of new year's greeting is' feudal and a little insulting '. But the man thinks that the woman should do as the Romans do, and that the resistance of the woman is' unreasonable and disrespectful '.

Deep interpretation of excellent data:

"Ritual sense" from the perspective of region

According to relevant survey: Shandong, Henan, Beijing and Guangdong netizens pay more attention to the sense of Spring Festival ceremony.

Among all kinds of Chinese New Year customs, Shandong has the highest sense of ceremony, accounting for 10.2%.

Henan, Beijing and Guangdong followed closely, accounting for 8.1%, 7.2% and 6.8% respectively.

Do you want to kowtow to each other's elders in the new year?

Nowadays, the debate about whether the Spring Festival should be a new trend or a tradition, whether to respect the ceremony or to seek new changes is only a specific action. As long as we keep the awe of the important festival and the sense of ceremony, the new spring festival will glow with new vitality in the digestion and change of various rituals.

So the two factions of "kneeling and not kneeling" are not entirely unreasonable. If we can communicate and understand each other more, many contradictions may be solved.

At present, what people have to do is to respect each individual's freedom of understanding and choice of kneeling. If you don't like kneeling, please allow them to express etiquette and respect in other ways; if you are willing to kowtow to your elders, please respect the way they like.

There's no need to take a set of values that they think are right as tokens, but to criticize and intimidate each other from their own standpoint, 'you have to kneel', 'you're not allowed to kneel' & hellip; & hellip;

In the Spring Festival, the happiness of reunion can only be decided by kneeling or not? You have to taste the sweet melon or not? That's too sorry for the meaning of spring festival itself.