It's new year's Eve in a few days. The couple discuss who is going to have the reunion dinner. It's hard to get along with each other. A couple almost get divorced because of this. Should they go to their mother's home for the new year's Eve dinner or their mother-in-law's home? It's better to discuss with both of them and make it clear with their parents. They must all be one family. Don't hurt their harmony.
Take a look at the problems faced by these two couples, and you will see what to do when they encounter this matter.
Colleague a married her husband in Shandong Province. It's a place with strong traditional ideas. She brushes tickets there every day. It's just a few days before the new year, but the train ticket still hasn't been painted. What should I do? Her husband must go back. Previously, she also hoped that she could not buy the ticket at the right time, so she could not go, but the man's determination was also great, so she had to go back and check the ticket. There were more than 4000 first-class passengers, which was very painful. What can I do? Continue to swipe the tickets.
Colleague B rushed to check the tickets and took a new year's minimum guarantee. He said that her husband was not active because he went back to his wife's house. After the new year's celebration, he started again. It's a beautiful name to say that he would buy tickets at that time. In fact, he didn't want to spend the new year in his wife's house. They are usually in his wife's house. Once I did it, there's no reason to object, but it's true that he was not active.
Colleague C was just married. In the absence of a one-year agreement, the man must go home for the new year's Eve, so the two families have to eat together. First return to the men's house by train, then return to the women's house by air ticket on the third day of junior high. I say you are more tired than going to work like this. She said it's not true, but you can't give up your family rights. How can you fight for your parents.
There are also other examples. When she went to her friend's house last weekend, her husband said sour and sour that they wanted to go back to their mother's house for the new year. Their parents in law come to celebrate the new year. Their daughter-in-law goes back to their hometown to accompany their parents. Of course, it happens occasionally. Most of the time, she went back to her parents-in-law.
This situation shows that the modern concept of marriage has made a lot of progress in the past, but it basically reflects the male orientation in the new year. Do you have to face whether it's going back to your mother-in-law or your mother's family?