After the wedding and funeral in the funeral home, their love story makes people cry
According to media reports on October 21, yesterday, a young man in Dalian, Liaoning Province made up a wedding and held a funeral for his wife in the funeral home. They once agreed not to cry, but they made everyone cry.
'I'm 35 years old. It's 12:30 in the morning. I'm on my way to Dalian funeral home to accompany my 34 year old wife's last time & hellip& hellip;'
This is a passage from 35 year old Xu Shinan in his circle of friends.
Five and a half years ago, Xu Shinan's wife Yang Liu was diagnosed with cancer. Accompanied by Xu Shinan, Yang Liu struggled with the disease. After all, she failed to overcome her fate and left her life calmly. Xu Shinan said that they have planned to hold a wedding several times, but it has not been realized. Now that his wife has left, it is his wife's last wish to hold a pink and red rose wedding for her.
On the morning of the 20th, the special wedding and funeral in Dalian funeral home moved all those who knew and did not know them. Wearing a wedding dress, Yang Liu, with Xu Shinan's love and the blessing of patients all over the country, lay in 169 pots of pink roses and 'held' a wedding with her husband. The funeral after the wedding is simple and calm, which is also Yang Liu's wish & hellip& hellip; At the age of 28, she was diagnosed with breast cancer. Although Xu Shinan and Yang Liu were college classmates, two people met each other on the Internet. Xu Shinan said that when he graduated from college, he didn't know the direction of life. He stayed in an Internet cafe every day. Since he met Yang Liu, under her guidance, he gradually walked out of the Internet world and found the hope of life.
"Yang Liu and I are single parent families. No one can help us." After entering the society, they rent the cheapest house and do the most common work. He first helped people with credit cards. After having a small deposit, they opened a small supermarket near the school.
Until May 2012, under the guidance of his relatives, he entered the aquaculture industry. Yang Liu followed him to the seaside in Dongying, Shandong Province and rented a small house without bathroom, heating, air conditioning and hot water. During the day, he went out for business, and his wife stayed alone in the house to help him look at the shop. " There are very few people there. Sometimes there is no one talking for a month. Yang Liu has lived like this for more than a year. "
Accompanied by Yang Liu, Xu Shinan's business gradually improved. On August 13, 2013, the two registered for marriage on the day they had known each other for six years. That year, Xu Shinan bought a house in Yingkou, Yang Liu's hometown, and prepared to hold a wedding to give Yang Liu a stable life.
Everything was so sudden that people were caught off guard. In November of that year, Yang Liu's right breast began to ache. " When we first went for an examination, the doctor said it might be hyperplasia. " In February of the following year, when Yang Liu's breast pain was unbearable, when he took Yang Liu to Dalian railway hospital, the hospital suspected that there was a greater possibility of benign tumor. After surgery in March of that year, it was diagnosed with cancer, and the doctor asserted that willow's disease could live up to five years. " That year, she was only 28. "
In Xu Shinan's words, Yang Liu's strength made everyone can't believe it. She didn't cry or shed tears once from her illness to her last departure. When the pain is unbearable, he hides in the room alone and always leaves the best side to everyone.
Two years after the operation, Yangliu experienced 8 times of chemotherapy, 32 times of radiotherapy and one year of targeted therapy. Yang willow changed the name of micro-blog to 'breast cancer cici' ', and released her own treatment experience and mental experience on the Internet. She not only helped her sick friends who had the same experience with her, but also encouraged them to face life positively.
Yang Liu was rated by the hospital as' anti-cancer little star ', and also helped more than 7000 netizens on his microblog. " Once, Yang Liu was invited to CCTV to share her anti-cancer experience, but she thought she looked bad and lost all her hair, so she politely refused. " Xu Shinan said that because his wife loves beauty, their wedding has not been held. His wife has always wanted to keep her best moment at the wedding.
After two years of anti-cancer, the cancer cells in willow were contained. Xu Shinan said that both of them were very happy at that time, and their life returned to the previous days. In order to make his wife's life better, he rented a house for his wife in Dalian. His wife helped him do business in Dalian. He ran business alone in other places.
"The business was going well at that time. In 2017, I bought a house in Dalian." Xu Shinan said that the two began to prepare for the wedding again. However, fate always plays tricks on people. In July 2018, a big lump appeared again in his wife's left armpit. He went to the hospital for examination and the cancer relapsed again. " To tell the truth, we all know that there will be such a day, but we just don't know that the disease relapses so quickly. "
This time, Xu Shinan and Yang Liu gave up traditional western medicine treatment. He took Yang Liu to visit famous doctors all over the country, hoping to control their condition with traditional Chinese medicine. " We run all over the country and travel while treating diseases. We are also very happy in a year. " In May this year, the treatment of traditional Chinese medicine could not keep up with the development of willow disease. The cancer cells of willow have transferred to bone, liver and other organs of the whole body. In July, after Yang Liu sneezed, she could no longer stand up because of a fracture. On October 6, Yang Liu went into a semi coma and didn't know anyone. " Before she left, she didn't say a word to me & hellip& hellip;'
The wife left at 8:13 p.m., which is the number of days she met Xu Shinan. Xu Shinan said that it was doomed. He looked through his wife's Taobao shopping cart, which was full of wedding supplies and wedding dresses selected by his wife. There are many pieces. I haven't found the right one. " You didn't choose well. I'll help you choose. I'll buy you the most beautiful wedding dress. " 169 pots of flowers surround the beautiful bride
Looking through Xu Shinan's circle of friends over the past few days, we can understand his inner suffering. He likes to laugh and scold. It is difficult to describe his inner suffering. He sent a little video of baking ice on the fire and asked his wife, 'do you eat this while it's hot or cold?' Xu Shinan said that when Yang Liu was with him, he didn't have a good day. He didn't even live in the house they bought in Dalian. The regrets of this life can't be made up after all.
Some netizens heard about Yang Liu on Weibo and sent a wechat to ask Xu Shinan: 'brother in law, sister CICI, nonsense on Weibo, right?' Xu Shinan can only leave one sentence, 'brother-in-law, I'm sorry for you'.
On the morning of the 20th, the wedding and funeral were held at the same time. Xu Shinan and Yang Liu, lying among the flowers in their newly bought wedding dress, bowed to their parents. 169 pots of flowers were sent by patients all over the country. In the farewell hall, in the two large projections, the rolling broadcast is the beautiful photos of Yang Liu. In the photos, she still has long hair and sweet smile, which not only makes everyone feel that the strong and beautiful girl is still around us.
In the farewell hall, everyone held back their tears and wiped their tears silently. Before her death, Yang Liu always told her family not to cry, advised her sick friends to face it strongly. Xu Shinan kept telling himself that if he didn't cry, Yang Liu wouldn't want to see Yang Liu's funeral. " Today's wedding, although late, also fulfilled the dream of willows. All I can do is fulfill your wish. Let you put on your wedding dress and fulfill my wish. " Although he warned himself not to cry, Xu Shinan collapsed while pushing willows to cremate.
'said not to cry, willow, I couldn't help it. I'm sorry & hellip& hellip;'