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Before cohabitation, women need to do 9 kinds of psychological preparation: cohabitation rules for m

what should women think about before cohabiting? What should they prepare for? 9 kinds of psychological preparations should be made before cohabiting.

1. If you choose to live together, you should be prepared to discover his shortcomings that you don't know.

Before cohabitation, each date, each other is in front of each other to show their most perfect side, after cohabitation is likely to relax their vigilance, their real life state is completely exposed in front of each other. Now that you choose to live together, you should be fully prepared for all the shortcomings you know, and learn how to accommodate each other and adjust your mode of getting along in time.

2. Don't ask about each other's privacy. Cohabitation doesn't mean that he is your personal property.

Respect each other's privacy even after marriage. Cohabitation doesn't mean that you need to check each other's privacy clearly. He's not your personal property, and there's no need for his privacy to be frank and lenient. Pay more attention to your future and less to his past, so that you can easily get happiness and security.

3. When simulating marriage life, don't forget that life needs sentiment, and occasional romance must be insisted.

Although cohabitation is an early stage of marriage, even if you are really married, you still need to remember to add interest to your life. Don't leave nothing but fuel, rice and salt in your life. Remember to go out for a romantic date occasionally. It's also a good choice to snuggle up to a movie after a candlelight dinner. Occasional romance can make your cohabitation less insipid.

4. Don't live together as his wife, let alone become his nanny.

Maybe you think that since I live together, I will take good care of him and make him think that I am a good wife and mother. In fact, this idea is quite wrong. A man's choice of life-long partner is not to put whether you are good at housework at the first place. What he needs is not only a life partner, but also hope that you can connect with each other.

So don't live together to enter the role of his wife, a nanny like woman is difficult to win the favor of men. If it's something that anyone can do well, he doesn't have to pick on you.

5. Give each other certain freedom. Don't be like a housekeeper controlling him and his friends to go out.

The relationship between the two people is like a rubber band, which will break even though it is too tight. When cohabiting, don't start managing things like a housekeeper. Don't call when he and his friends get together. Give each other some freedom and don't let your cohabiting life feel oppressive.

6. Don't let your families get involved in your life too early.

Don't meet each other's family too early, and keep this in mind when your own cohabitation life is not completely stable. Family problems are likely to be the cause of your quarrels. Enjoy and consolidate your cohabitation first.

7. Cohabitation is not a real marriage, and there is no need to share finance.

Choosing cohabitation does make your relationship more intimate, but don't be so intimate that you and I can't even share the financial income. In fact, financial management can reduce many conflicts and make each other feel respected. Don't start taking over his wallet with a sense of entitlement.

8. Respect each other's living habits and try to accommodate each other.

In cohabitation, it is a big problem whether the living habits of both parties can run in well. Many originally harmonious couples, because their living habits can not be coordinated after cohabitation, finally split up. Therefore, we should learn to accommodate each other's living habits and step back from each other. If the other person is not used to staying up late, you should not be a night owl often.

9. Pay attention to your personal image. It doesn't matter if you look up to the sky. You can't dress too sloppy.

Don't let the other person murmur to himself in the bottom of his heart, 'she looks like this at home.' even if you live together at home, you should also pay attention to your appearance. It's OK to face the sky, but don't appear in front of him untidy, and destroy his sense of beauty in his mind.

Only by doing the above preparations can couples have a better trial marriage experience.