Lu ZiKuan eats in the ward. In order to meet the donation standard, he has gained 30 kilograms.
The traditional society has left us a lot of stories of filial piety. Lying on the ice for carp and tasting soup and medicine in person in "twenty four filial piety" are examples of promoting filial piety. But those positive social values will never be out of date. Recently, the story of Henan boy Lu ZiKuan's "fattening and saving his father" touched the public opinion field like a warm wind.
It is reported that when Lu ZiKuan, a boy in Huixian County, Henan Province, was 3 years old, his father Lu yanheng was found to have myelodysplastic syndrome and pre leukemia. In 2018, his father's physical condition deteriorated, and Lu ZiKuan then increased his weight to meet the physical standard of donating bone marrow to his father and 'fatten and save his father'.
It is conceivable that the process of Lu ZiKuan's fattening and saving his father will not be so beautiful: in March 2019, Lu ZiKuan ate five meals a day, from more than 60 kg to more than 90 kg within three months, and finally reached the standard of bone marrow donation.
At about 9 a.m. on September 9, Lu ZiKuan donated bone marrow in Qinghe Branch of Peking University People's hospital. The mother said that the child knew to smoke bone marrow. He woke up five or six times the night before. He was very brave when donating bone marrow. Today happens to be the child's father's birthday. This is the most precious birthday gift.
Such a story of "fattening and saving the father" has been widely spread through media reports. Public opinion is delighted with this family with twists and turns, and is moved by the 10-year-old boy's courage and responsibility. " The comments of "come on" and "sensible" are brushed in the comment area under the news.
If we evaluate 'fattening and saving the father' in the due state of filial piety, Lu ZiKuan just did what he should do. Everyone has the responsibility to stand up for their parents.
However, the reason why public opinion was moved by this news may be that it reflects a child's responsibility, courage and ease of facing life and death. " The road of "fattening and saving the father" was wide, and he shouldered the heavy burden that a teenager should not have borne, but he bravely shouldered the burden and didn't look back.
Donating bone marrow is not an operation, but a long preparation. After his father's physical condition deteriorated in 2018, Lu ZiKuan began to prepare for this bone marrow transplantation. It's not just about eating more and gaining weight, but also going around with your family, doing all kinds of tests, and overcoming the fear of a minor child facing the future.
All good luck, only in the fight, all the twists and turns, all because of perseverance. The way for minors is wide. It is with the sense of responsibility of a 'little man' that the family can see the light again. Such power is soul stirring.
This reminds me of another almost identical story of "fattening and saving my father". Five years ago, Lin Huiwu in Liuyang, Hunan Province was diagnosed with leukemia. After more than two years of treatment, the condition has stabilized and improved slightly. However, in February this year, Lin Huiwu's condition suddenly worsened.
It was also his son Lin Weiyuan who stood up: in order to meet the weight requirements of bone marrow donation, Lin Weiyuan maintained the rhythm of five meals a day and steadily increased his weight from March to July this year. In four months, he also successfully gained 17 kg.
Ordinary families and ordinary children exude a warm light. In any case, through the difficulties of not being an outsider, the light is ahead.
The outside world responded to them with a gesture of sympathy, but it is commendable that they can not complain or anger. In the reports of various media, Lu ZiKuan always smiles at the camera, showing the image of a sunshine boy. I think this is not because he doesn't understand his situation, but because he knows that with him, there is hope at home.
Life kisses me with pain, I still return it with a song, which can generally describe the boy's spirit of "fattening and saving his father" in the face of difficulties.
'fattening and saving the father' is a sad story, but it is also a 'model' of social positive energy - related to filial piety, courage and hope.