(original title: an old man in Shanghai only gave his daughter 1 yuan in a will, leaving 800000 yuan and the house property to the nanny)
Source: WeChat official account 'backbone in Shanghai'
'elderly, nanny, real estate, will', when these words are connected, what do you think?
Recently, the practice of an old man in Shanghai has aroused no small controversy. The old man obviously had a daughter, but he gave the inheritance and real estate to the nanny! What the hell is going on?
On November 25, 2018, an old man in Shanghai made a will in the hospital before he died.
"I left my daughter Wu one yuan, and the rest of my property, including a set of real estate and a deposit of 800000, was left to Ms. Chen."
This Ms. Chen, the nanny her daughter invited for the old man, has only been home for three months & hellip& hellip;
Divorce doesn't want property, just a daughter
Fifty years ago, my daughter Wu was born. My old father was very happy. Even for the sake of his daughter, he gave up smoking that he had been unable to quit.
Later, Lao Wu divorced his wife. He gave up the division of property and made only one request: I want my daughter.
Although it was a single parent family, Lao Wu also tried his best to love her when his daughter was a child. When her daughter was ill, she was sent to the hospital in the middle of the night; I will try my best to meet her any requirements.
Lao Wu said painfully to his daughter, 'dad really loves you'. At that time, Xiao Wu would also wipe his father's tears with his young hands, 'dad, don't cry, Dad, I love you too'
Children always have to grow up. Xiao Wu has reached the age of marriage.
After getting married and having children, her daughter and herself seem to become strange.
Lao Wu
From one phone call a week, to one phone call a month, to one phone call three months; Come to see me once in half a month, once a month, once three months, and then you may not see me again in half a year.
It's only an hour's drive from my daughter's house to my own house.
And this hour seems too far away for the old man & hellip& hellip;
50 years of family affection is not as good as three months of care?
Later, Lao Wu got old and fell ill. He lay alone in the hospital bed.
In three months, my daughter only came twice, gave a simple greeting and hurried away. After hiring a nanny for him, he never came to the hospital again. Fortunately, the nanny was kind and took good care of Lao Wu for three months & hellip& hellip;
Life is coming to an end, but I still haven't waited for my daughter. The father was so frustrated that he made the will.
'the rent in Shanghai is too expensive, so the house is left to the nanny. Dad doesn't have much savings. Your marriage and having children have exhausted all his father's savings, leaving only more than 800000 pension money. Leave it to Aunt Chen. "
In many families, children begin to work after graduating from college. However, this is the time when parents have the greatest pressure.
After graduation, he used his interpersonal relationship to find a job, buy a house, buy a car, get married, take grandchildren, wash and cook, and be a free nanny & hellip& hellip;
However, because children are busy with work and struggle, they may only spend a few days with their parents.
In today's society, it is really difficult for only children to support their parents.
Both husband and wife have to work, right? There's a child to take care of, right? My parents are not feeling well. I really can't take care of them every day.
24 hours a day, the work + journey is 10 hours. It takes 6-7 hours to sleep less? There is also the need to help children with their work, cooking and cleaning housework. The time every day is really limited, and not every company is human, so you can leave without pay. Time is really too tight & hellip& hellip;
Netizens also quarreled & hellip& hellip;
Some netizens said that the old man is too heartless. His father and daughter have been in love for 50 years. Can't they compare with the nanny's three-month care??
Perhaps the daughter cares too little, but the daughter may also have her daughter's difficulties, and the nanny is also paid by the family to take care of the elderly. What she does depends on the job or salary, not unconditional! Is it really good for the old man to do so?
Some netizens also said that they seemed to see the sadness and despair of an old father before his death.
Parents are bound by their children all their life. However, after their children get married, they are destined to gradually stay away from their parents
Some netizens also think that the father is right. If his daughter doesn't disappoint him too much, she won't get only one yuan.
Which child is not the future parent? If your children treat themselves like this, put yourself in a position & hellip& hellip;
It was also pointed out that in three months, money and real estate were left to the nanny. This situation is also worth pondering
After all, I've seen a lot of such things now & hellip& hellip;
A retired professor from a university in Shanghai, his wife, Ms. He, died ten years ago. They have no children. In 2017, the old professor Xie also died and made a will to leave all his family property and house to the nanny Xiao Xie and some old colleagues.
You and I are not parties. We don't know the specific situation.
But 50 years of father daughter love is really only worth 1 Yuan & hellip& hellip;