The discussion of virginity is no different. Another hot search 'girl's best dowry is chastity' from a college lecture. At the public lecture on traditional culture entering the campus held by Jiujiang University, the speeches mentioned by the keynote speaker Ding Xuan, such as "women's clothes are exposed and easy to lose" and "the best dowry for girls is chastity" caused controversy.
In response, a reporter confirmed that the Propaganda Department of the Party committee of Jiujiang University. The staff said that the university did hold this public lecture, but the controversial speech pictures revealed on the Internet were not the contents of the lecture on that day. The staff stressed that there was no improper speech in the lecture on that day. It is understood that this lecture was held on the afternoon of May 14 on the theme of "traditional culture into campus public welfare lecture - to be my fair lady in the new era". The main speaker was Ding Xuan, lecturer of traditional culture public welfare of China Women's Federation.
After the debate, Jiujiang University issued a public statement saying that "the purpose of the lecture is to enhance students' sense of responsibility and mission to inherit and carry forward the excellent traditional Chinese culture. Mr. Ding Xuan's lecture aims to guide the female college students in school to be upright, self-respect and self love, and find the key to a happy life. At the same time, it is emphasized that the lecture is organized by students' voluntary participation. '
The content of several ppt words uploaded in the disclosure is controversial. For example, women's clothes are exposed: it's the dilapidated appearance of the parents, husbands and descendants of Shangke, which the world has to guard against. "The best dowry for a woman is chastity. "It's very vulgar to be exposed. Not only the right and wrong, but also the disease, disaster, easy to break, easy to lose. 'Jiujiang University said in a public statement that' some netizens published the lecture content of Mr. Ding Xuan out of context, some PPT pictures are not used in our school, etc. "There is no anti party, anti socialism and anti socialist core values in the lecture. '
On the one hand, Jiujiang University came out to clarify that these remarks were not said in the University, but a person who claimed to be the victim came out to 'face' and stressed that these photos are facts, saying that for their own safety, the original text has been deleted, and Jiujiang University's notice and content of the lecture have not been found.
Many netizens criticized the pedantry: 'it's said that it's the 21st century', 'the school is vigorously promoting female morality, is it the next step to wrap up her feet' & hellip; & hellip; and even shocked the foreign media, the website of Singapore's Lianhe Morning Post reported on this matter.
But as for the story behind these two hot search words and their meanings, netizens' opinions on the Internet also show obvious polarization. Some netizens think that "hymen is to protect little girls from bacterial infection before they grow up, not for men." what's more, premarital sex doesn't mean that they don't love themselves. Only a few of them actually go out for promiscuity. Another group of netizens think that this kind of education is not wrong. 'why don't you have sex before marriage? It's not because you have more choices and less harm. Of course, some people like to die and no one stops you, but please don't induce those who don't have sex before marriage, because it's not cool at all & hellip; & hellip;'
In the comments of netizens, the most common one is "why only teach girls to control but not teach boys not to seduce girls easily, and learn to be responsible!" some netizens pointed out some dark social phenomena: "men like virgins, which is a personal hobby. Before making contact, just make it clear. The most disgusting kind of man, is clearly a virgin complex, but because of fear of being single, deliberately concealing, and then after marriage with a blame woman. '
In modern love relationships, young men and women have sex on the basis of loving each other, and even in most relationships, they are actively required by boys. However, in the concept of marriage and love, few people make demands on the boy's "chastity" and are only sensitive to the word "virgin". In the sex education of college students and even middle school students, the self-respect and self love of female students are more emphasized than that of male students. In the society of equality between men and women, it will inevitably cause the dislike of netizens.
What do you think of this problem?