'apparent relative' is a popular Internet term recently. I believe many people can know its meaning literally. What is the meaning of apparent relative? From where? Let's take a look.
What do you mean by apparent relatives
Everyone has relatives, distant relatives and close relatives are relatives, but I believe everyone has a different understanding of what superficial relatives mean. Recently, some netizens wrote that some of their relatives are doing well on the surface, but in fact they don't have any help. They lamented that relatives who also belong to family ties emotionally will also make superficial articles. It's really cool. So it triggered a discussion about superficial relatives.
As the saying goes, 'people have three relatives, uncle and uncle, uncle's daughter-in-law', this is because although uncle, uncle and aunt are elder relatives, they are not related by blood. In traditional thought, blood relationship is very important, ranging from feudal rule to kinship, which needs to be maintained. Although aunts and uncles are our direct relatives, they naturally have no aunts and aunts because they are not related by blood.
People have a strong concept of family kinship. Nowadays, although there are few exchanges and exchanges between relatives due to various reasons, some relatives, although they seem very enthusiastic and care about your family, often retreat or even disappear when your family really needs help and support. It seems that there has never been a relative like you. So there is the saying of 'apparent relatives'.
Surface relative citation example
The child is so fat! Excess nutrition is easy to get sick! This is jealousy
This wave of operation is not good. You see, he looks like old man Wang next door! This is jealousy
I tell you, your family can't always buy this and that for their children. You can't always get used to it! This is jealousy
What training class to learn! Just be honest and obedient, not so particular! This is jealousy
Your family is still traveling! Alas, there are so many people. They are crowded
Superficial social evaluation
The phenomenon of 'superficial relatives' must exist. Although it can not be said that every relative will be a' superficial relative ', it can not be eliminated. Relatives also have their own families, as well as their own warm and cold, ups and downs. It is just the so-called 'every family has its own difficult Sutra', 'superficial relatives', which is just due to the sophistication of the world.