How do women with high EQ get along with boys? These eight test sites should be remembered
4hw.com.cn: I believe almost everyone likes to get along with friends with high EQ, especially in a love relationship. If girls have high EQ, it will probably make the relationship smoother. So how do women with high EQ get along with boys? Let's have a look.
1. Men want to hold
They say 'women should be spoiled and men should be held'. Don't always say how good others are in front of him. Don't scold him for being worthless. You are his closest person. Please respect him if you love him. For most men, appreciation and encouragement can give him more strength to struggle than abuse.
Therefore, even in a quarrel, you can't hurt others. While physical injury is easy, mental injury will last for a long time.
2. Don't ask him if he loves himself all day
Love can be tasted as long as you experience it with your heart.
Love is not spoken out. Love that is not implemented verbally is pale and powerless. Romantic love is not real life.
3. Don't let vanity and utilitarianism fascinate you
The pursuit of material is endless. Your life is not to live for others.
Only you know whether shoes fit or not. Comfort is the most important. You should know that thousands of gold are easy to get, and true love is difficult to find.
4. Give him the necessary trust
The most important thing for two people to get along is trust. Don't try to test each other. Love is not that it can't stand the test, but that it can't be tested at all.
Getting along with two people is a very simple thing, but you misuse the most complex link in human nature to test. Whatever the outcome, you've lost.
If he can't stand the test, he doesn't deserve you; He passed the test. You don't deserve him.
5. Rely on him appropriately
If you completely rely on him mentally and materially and let the other party play the role of supplier, then your self-esteem will be taken away, you will be more insecure, and loneliness and fear will deepen day by day.
Therefore, true intimacy is a delicate balance and interaction. Proper dependence on your lover will make your attraction more lasting.
6. Keep a space for each other
Women should reserve an emotional space to love themselves. We have the right to retain our privacy and participate in social activities alone. Of course, it is very necessary to reserve a self space for him.
Two hedgehogs keep warm. If they are far away, they are not warm. If they are near, they hurt each other. If they are not far, they are just right. Love is not a yoke, nor a means. The best way of love is an appropriate distance.
7. Don't worry too much
Love does not love more, love less, pay more, pay less.
Or the feelings that can make you think like this are not feelings, but a deal to care who pays more and who pays less. Once who pays less, the balance of feelings will tilt until it falls to the ground.
Care, not love, tolerance, is.
8. Don't lose yourself
'you can love someone in the dust, but no one loves you in the dust'.
Love yourself first. Don't lose your dignity to love someone who doesn't love you. Even if you are a grass, you should have the dignity of grass.
No matter what time and age, don't lose yourself and don't easily let some people become the whole of your life. In this way, you will have less expectations, less disappointments, more freedom and happiness.
A woman with high EQ must be a woman who knows and will love. She is like an animal trainer. She can see through men's weaknesses, grasp men's weaknesses and subdue them steadily.