The issue of women's chastity has always been a controversial hot issue. Recently, a netizen revealed on his microblog that the speech of "women's clothes are exposed and easy to lose" and "the best dowry for girls is chastity" mentioned by the keynote speaker Ding Xuan at the traditional culture public lecture held by Jiujiang University caused controversy. And Ode to joy 2 Qiu Yingying was frequently abandoned by her current boyfriend because she lost her life in Bai junnan. For a while, the discussion about female virginity and virginity aroused hot discussion among netizens!
On September 26, 2016, the University sexual and reproductive health survey report compiled by China Family Planning Association was released in Beijing. According to the survey results, about 70% of college students accepted premarital sex. The majority of the respondents were women, accounting for 60.4%. It can be seen that 70% of college students accept premarital sexual behavior, and most of them are female students, which indicates that nowadays college students are more and more open in sexual issues, which is obviously a dangerous signal. In this context, female lecturers in university lectures, the public against premarital sex, that 'the best dowry for girls is chastity', is actually a kind of good advice.
Although the phenomenon of premarital sex exists in western countries, it is not "sexual openness and sexual freedom" in the eyes of Chinese college students. Chinese college students' interpretation of "sex" abroad is often guided by some wrong ideas in European and American TV plays. In fact, even western scholars do not support premarital sex. Not long ago, Professor Edwin Myers, an American sociologist, gave a lecture at Wuhan City Vocational College on "I hope you all know before marriage" about love concept in University. He said: 'it's not love, it's stupid to have premarital sex'. He also said he was surprised at the openness of Chinese college students in public. At the same time, he suggested that college students in love should be more implicit and pay attention to the occasion when they show their love for each other.
As we all know, the essence of premarital sex is to vent desire and relieve loneliness. Although fresh stimulation is also a main cause, too much indulgence in fresh stimulation will make people crazy. Moreover, premarital sex is against morality and ethics, which is needless to say. The key is that it hides many risks such as emotional entanglement, physical and mental health, and accidental injury. It can be seen that premarital sexual behavior runs counter to sexual morality, sexual civilization, sexual health, etc. it will not be recognized by the mainstream society, and college students should stay away from it. Based on this, a university in Xi'an once asked female students to fill in a commitment card and swear to refuse premarital sex, and to refuse extramarital sex after marriage, which is obviously a guide to sexual civilization. College students are social demonstration groups. They should resist unhealthy sexual culture and lead the way in refusing premarital sex.
It is undeniable that freedom of marriage and love is the basic personal right of all citizens. However, due to the influence of Western wrong thoughts and culture, a few college students neglect morality in love. At the same time, some colleges and universities attach great importance to the professors of basic subjects, but neglect the moral education, which leads to some college students being eroded by the bad views of marriage and love in the society prematurely, pursuing the lust for flesh, greedy for enjoyment, and giving up the sense of social responsibility; moreover, some colleges and universities usually ignore the unhealthy life style of college students, which leads to their frequent contact with the outside world and extensive communication in the society Friends, do not rule out a small number of college students have premarital sex.
In particular, 70% of college students accept premarital sex, which is worthy of reflection. First of all, colleges and universities should carry out the investigation of sexual problems, set up sex education courses and marriage education courses, let college students face the hot topics such as premarital sexual behavior, through teaching and examination, guide college students to analyze and distinguish the right and wrong of premarital sexual behavior, recognize the harm of premarital sexual behavior to society and individuals, so as to establish a correct concept of sexual love, consciously stay away from and resist premarital sexual behavior, so as to be healthy Mentality, facing life, love and sex.