Now we have entered a wechat era, the circle of friends is everyone's mood dynamic, but more and more people start to advertise in the circle of friends, resulting in more and more people choose to close the circle of friends~
The circle of friends always falls into the absurd situation of 'enviing others' and' scheming to make others envious'. The circle of invoices and the circle of checking tickets become more and more boring.
Have you noticed that it's popular to close the circle of friends recently?
Inadvertently open a friend's home page, only to see a beautiful picture of the cover of the circle of friends suddenly appeared in front of you, below the town of a cross mantra: the friend has not opened the circle of friends.
Immediately let people feel that the friend is too cold, too cool, too personality!
Close the home page behind the circle of friends.
This is related to the function of wechat update not long ago: unable to view the home page of users who have closed their circle of friends. In the past, after users chose to disable their circle of friends, they could not be disturbed by little red dot, but also make dynamic comments to themselves. Now, after the circle of friends is closed, there is only a small line of 'this friend has not opened the circle of friends' across there, so you can't view other content.
As a result, many people who close their circle of friends are questioned by their relatives and friends, and they have to restart their circle of friends under pressure, and they have to send an explanation to forgive them. Some people close the circle of friends a few days, can't help but re open, silently diving praise.
Turn it off and on, turn it on and off, over and over again. However, as an energy and trend, escaping from the circle of friends is accumulating.
Are there more and more diving parties around you?
A typical Chinese's social life is composed of numerous circles. People in the circle can exchange interests or even mingle emotionally by pushing cups and exchanging cups, while people outside the circle have to work hard to enter the circle. Ah Q 觍 was close to master Zhao with his face, but he was slapped two times.
There are noble and humble people in the circle. Those who are high in the entertainment circle, the president's class, the art circle, and the ordinary people can't get in anyway. Those who are low in the circle of colleagues, neighbors, and relatives, everyone has them. The reason why wechat's circle of friends function can replace forums, blogs and microblogs and become the main space for Chinese people to socialize on the Internet lies in its successful establishment of a circle familiar to Chinese people on mobile phones.
Therefore, the circle of friends is divided into different sizes, different groups for different people, and different words to different people. Choosing different groups is equivalent to sitting at different wine tables. This kind of role-playing skill is naturally familiar to the Chinese people who are steeped in the wine table culture and acquaintance culture.
After opening wechat circle of friends, you can master all the social circles of acquaintances of Chinese people.
The circle of friends perfectly replicates and enlarges the acquaintance community in reality. However, young Internet users are increasingly averse to the 24-hour kidnapping of acquaintances. In 2016, a Tencent survey pointed out that QQ was the most commonly used social tool after 1995, while most of wechat users were adults. For a while, the story of "after 95, old people play wechat" spread all over the Internet. Some post-95s think that wechat is like 'an embarrassing family party', but 'it can't really go away'. According to the "post-95s' new generation social network preferences report", 48.2% of post-95s shield their parents.
Douban user 'San Xian' said: 'wechat circle of friends is more and more like emotional kidnapping. If you forget to praise a friend who gives birth to a baby, you may be secretly married. Just like the social pressure QQ brought to people a few years ago, invisibility is easy to offend people. If you don't invisibility, you can't stand the trouble of others. Sometimes you forget who is who. When the pressure accumulates to a certain extent, and then meets the external factors such as the change of software and hardware, new IM is easy to appear. '
According to the survey of penguin think tank, QQ is the most commonly used social product after 1995.
Now, they have adopted a multi-party strategy. Different needs, different apps, different social behaviors in different communities. Ins and in are used to print pictures, microblog, post bar and QQ group are used to pursue stars, microblog trumpet and QQ space are used to send mood, and wechat is used to chat with acquaintances.
As the total number of Internet users does not change much in the short term, the number of active users of each platform can only increase and decrease. According to the financial report released by Weibo on February 23, the monthly active users of Weibo have reached 313 million, with mobile end users accounting for 90%. Weibo, once depressed by wechat, has regained its lost ground and has more users than before.
Since its launch on January 21, 2011, wechat era has entered its seventh year, and we have reached the seven-year itch with wechat circle of friends.
The cover of issue 463 of new weekly is titled 'go away! Circle of friends'.
Tired of watching the circle of friends: the sender is uncomfortable, the viewer is uncomfortable
Most people who don't look at their circle of friends have the same reason: annoyance. Most people who don't make friends have a similar reason: tired.
Indeed, when you are eating takeaway and knocking code in the haze wrapped buildings, you find that the friends in the circle of friends with sunglasses jumping up on the golden beach show exaggerated smile. Suddenly, you are surrounded by a thick self pity, every day so, only annoying.
Do you think it's easy for a friend in the photo? I jumped on the beach 17 or 8 times before I caught the next perfect photo. After I repaired the photo, I sent it out. I was already sweating. It's too bad to take a rare annual leave without getting dozens of compliments and replies. How can we not be tired if we send out several ticket circles and make up nine tickets each time?
Food, travel, running, children, love... All kinds of frequent shows in the circle of friends are boring.
Circle of friends is an art of show. Few people put the pain, no results or unsatisfactory things in the circle of friends, what we can see is often the bright side of others. Sunshine always after the wind and rain, the wind and rain will not tell you, just give you some sunshine to feel. A lot of times, can send a enviable circle of friends, and even become the driving force in the face of immediate difficulties. As time goes by, the circle of friends is full of relaxed and beautiful happy scenes, and the truth behind the twists and turns of life is always a mystery.
The circle of friends falls into the situation of 'always envious of others' and' deliberately making others envious'. Under the double embarrassment, the circle of invoices and the circle of checking tickets are becoming more and more boring.
One by one, the little girl struck a match and wanted to survive the winter night. The purpose was to send a circle of friends when the sun rose in Copenhagen, with the words' I am such a strong girl '. The sender is uncomfortable and the viewer is embarrassed. Everyone is trapped in this circle and wants to get away.
Escape from the circle of friends to enjoy more personal time.
Since ancient times, Chinese people need circles to express themselves. Before the emergence of wechat circle of friends, there was no lack of such settings in our life.
In the Tang Dynasty, engraving on the Dayan Pagoda in Chang'an became a tradition of the new Jinshi. After Bai Juyi won the entrance examination, he wrote a circle of friends on the wall, which was the youngest of the seventeen. Xueba's hair circle was very proud.
Unfortunately, Li Deyu, the Prime Minister of emperor Wuzong of the Tang Dynasty, was not born as a Jinshi. In a rage, he wiped out all the circles of the ancient Xueba on the Dayan Pagoda. He was just a jealous screen peeper who emptied the data.
Lei Jun said that when the gale comes, pigs standing on the tuyere can also fly into the sky. Wechat circle of friends is coming with the huge social needs of the Chinese people, sweeping the country, unstoppable, but in this era, it is only sooner or later that a product will fall off the top of the wave.
The only thing we can be sure of is that as long as the circle culture is still there will be new space for us to circle one circle after another.