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Is there a pure friendship between men and women?

Why is there no pure friendship between men and women? I believe many people will stand up and strongly deny it. Such as so and so around you, and it has lasted for many years. But do you guarantee that they have never thought beyond friendship? In fact, this is the result of moral constraints. Let's talk about it briefly.

Do you think there will be pure friendship between men and women? The opinion I want to reserve here is' basically not '. After all, this man and woman have been together for a long time. Although they are friends, it's impossible for them not to spark love and affection. It's not absolute for anyone to put this problem on. Even if they don't cross the thunder pool in their behavior, they must have had some wrong thoughts in spirit and thinking. Dare you say you don't? That's why both men and women in love and married are afraid that their partner will have too much contact with other heterosexuals and something will happen that makes them worry and afraid.

First: people are high-level emotional animals. Men and women have been together for a long time. Because of the understanding of each other, in the process of understanding each other, their feelings gradually become deeper and deeper, so that they can not control themselves in behavior or thought, and have a further relationship beyond friendship.

The second one is that desire dominates everything. When men and women interact with each other for a long time, when their feelings rise to a certain height, they will naturally and easily express their love for each other through more intimate behaviors. Then this more intimate behavior is nothing more than going beyond the scope of friendship and having some relationship between men and women.

Of course, it's undeniable that there is pure friendship in reality, but it's just that the behavior is controlled. In fact, if there's my idea between men and women in my heart, you may have the answer in your heart. In other words, men and women together, as long as the behavior is not put into action, but some thoughts are not separated, they can be called people with strong control, because they know that some desires are like drugs, which can not be touched. Such men and women can be described in a very competent sentence: they are very moral and have their own bottom line. However, when people face all kinds of temptations, people who can suppress their desires and control them are very rare.

How to keep friendship with the opposite sex without making mistakes

1. Let heterosexual friends know that you love your partner very much. Take the initiative to introduce your heterosexual friends to your partner. The purpose of doing so is to dispel each other's ambiguous thoughts and clarify your bottom line. Second, let your partner know your circle and trust you more in your relationship with the opposite sex.

2. Don't say ambiguous words, don't say your partner's bad in front of friends of the opposite sex. After having the other half, you should talk to the other half if you have any ambiguous words, so as to avoid all the ambiguous possibilities with friends of the opposite sex, not to mention the intimate body movements. It should also be noted that if you complain about your partner, you'd better not talk to friends of the opposite sex. After all, it's easy to cause misunderstanding.

3. Avoid going out alone with friends of the opposite sex, and pay attention to the occasion and time when going out. It's hard to believe that you are pure friendship. Don't blame your partner for being jealous and not understanding. You don't have to go to places that are too romantic and hidden, and you shouldn't go too long.

Conclusion: friendship is also the most precious thing in life, so we should know how to operate correctly and avoid losing the beauty because of touching the bottom line.