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Why can't I be a bridesmaid more than three times? How can I resolve it

You can't be a bridesmaid for more than three times, including the third time. That is to say, you can't be a bridesmaid for the fourth time.

Why not more than three times

(1) Traditional customs

To be a bridesmaid is to share your fate (marriage) with others (bride and bridegroom)! So every time you are a bridesmaid, your fate will be less. Of course, the more times you are a bridesmaid, the thinner your fate will be.

(2) Folk saying

According to common sense, every time a bridesmaid should feel more happy atmosphere, but you can find that every time you go to be a bridesmaid, you will find that the atmosphere of many new couples is strange; this is because when they get married, they usually have some disputes; It's normal to have fear in the eyes of bridesmaids! Another thing is that when you contact the new couple after a bridesmaid, you will hear complaints (the running in period with your husband's family when you get married). Naturally, the more times you listen, the more scared you will be!

(3) Practical significance

Because when there are too many bridesmaids, they will see many off-line bridegroom and inconsiderate bridegroom. They are usually wary of choosing a better bridegroom to remarry. Therefore, there is no satisfactory bridegroom.

What's the taboo of being a bridesmaid

1. Delusion of white, if you attend a western wedding, just like the mother-in-law who was ordered to take off the white dress in "monster mother-in-law", white is everyone's taboo, small to white shoes, white scarves, white gloves can not touch, this is the exclusive bride's color. Please remember the most original rule of guestdress, the focus of all people is the bride and groom, not you!

2. Black dress, although many stars wear black to attend the wedding, no matter in the West or China, try to avoid wearing black in the daytime wedding, unless it is a Western cocktail party, you can wear the classic little black dress.

3. Red dress, unless you are the bridesmaid, unless you are the bride's best friend, otherwise red is also taboo, especially red, red over the bride, the uproar will lead to white eyes. In addition, too bright, such as fluorescent color is also taboo. Of course, you don't have to worry about the color and the bride's parents or other female guests, it's impossible to coordinate with all the guests in advance.