Now there are more and more cases of social domestic violence, which really affect social security and family harmony. Today, Xiao Bian will teach you how to deal with domestic violence~
According to reports, a tragedy recently happened in the north of Xi'an City: a woman suffered domestic violence and died. Her husband was arrested for intentional injury. According to the doctor, the deceased's abdominal cavity and organs were damaged, which was suspected to be caused by stool beating. Before admission, there was no spontaneous breathing and heartbeat, which belonged to the death before admission.
In today's society, domestic violence has occurred repeatedly and been exposed, but it is still repeated. Whether it is a man or a woman, what should we do when encountering domestic violence?
How to deal with domestic violence
1. Respond to 'the first time' with the greatest resistance and madness
In fact, there are many facts in real life that tell us that the key to stop domestic violence often lies in the first time. If when we encounter domestic violence for the first time, we just respond like a dragonfly, and let it go in that way, nine times out of ten, there will be more serious second and third domestic violence.
2. Timely communication and careful management
"When we are faced with cold violence, we should patiently find out the real needs of each other's heart, face the crux of each other's personality and communication barriers, and find that the other person has psychological problems, so we need timely psychological treatment. According to experts, timely communication is the best way to resolve conflicts.
3. The principle of gender equality and justice
Gender equality refers to the equality of rights, responsibilities and opportunities of people of different genders; gender justice refers to giving fair treatment to different needs of different genders, including different treatment to achieve gender equality (such as adhering to the victim centered principle). Adhere to gender equality and fairness, and challenge the principles of objectivity and neutrality. In a society where there are different interest groups and uneven distribution of power / rights, it is impossible to be absolutely 'objective' or 'neutral' (for example, to deal with domestic violence cases in a way of 50 big boards each), but it is necessary to distinguish right from wrong. We should adhere to the principles of gender equality and justice, and break the traditional gender concepts such as the binary distinction between the public and private sectors, men's superiority over women, men's outside and women's inside, and men's dominance over women's subordinates. The latter is the structural reason for the occurrence and persistence of domestic violence.
4. You can't give up saving yourself
If you have been seriously injured, you must not give up self-help with kindness, go to the court to sue him for the crime of injury, and go to the relevant departments to apply for injury identification. This will be the most favorable evidence to determine the extent of his injury to you.
5. The principle of respect and protection of human rights
Domestic violence is a violation of human rights, including the right to life, the right not to be subjected to torture and inhuman or degrading treatment, the right to freedom and personal safety, the right to family equality, the right to the highest attainable physical and mental health, the right to fair and favorable working conditions, etc. Women and all people have the right to equal protection before the law. Domestic violence is an illegal and criminal act, which should be treated as seriously as violence in public places.