So, I'll write about it today. Why don't I think he's perfect, and I don't think he has any special place to marry a woman.
Of course, I only comment on this person, which has nothing to do with the actor himself. I don't hate actors, but I don't like men with this personality. Whether it is watching drama or reading articles, we should treat it rationally. (in case you like Yehua so much, don't spray me. Just keep your liking.)
If some girls like Yehua just think he's handsome, I think it's nothing. Everyone has their own aesthetic taste! It's good to like it! But if you think that such a man is perfect and a good match for a woman, I really want to say: girl, you have a bad eye for choosing a mate!
For a woman, he is really not perfect.
First of all, he didn't know what he wanted. When he was given a marriage, he never met a woman, let alone liked it. But he didn't object to it. Instead, he chose to acquiesce. It's like those ignorant people who don't have a love in their hearts, and their elders choose a woman, and then they follow. So the tragedy began. Of course, this point does not need to be censured. When there is no love in the heart, it is easy to follow blindly.
Then, he fell in love with the mortal Su Su. In order to stay with her, he took her to the heavenly palace. However, Su Jin became his side imperial concubine. Some people may say that he doesn't want to. It's forced by the emperor.
Is this really the case? If his character is resolute and brave enough, and he would rather die than block his beloved woman, there would be no concubine at all. Whether it is a gift of marriage or a side concubine, all of these reflect that the man's ability to solve problems is very poor.
Secondly, at that time, he did not know that the mortal Su Su he fell in love with was the same person as his real princess. Then, did he give her the most precious title for his love? No.
Think about it, his second uncle was given a marriage at the beginning. Later, he fell in love with a little maid. The scene was exactly the same as him. But how did his second uncle do it?
He would rather give up his noble identity, would rather be demoted or even die together than give up his beloved woman. He knew that he could not resist, but he said to the beloved woman, "you go first, I will come later.". I think, at that moment, his woman should be very happy.
Women who really love know that we are not afraid of pain, but can't bear it. When the test comes, the man who loves deeply can't stand up and join hands. As long as he is willing, even if he wants us to give our life, it's very happy.
Once again, many people think Yehua is so affectionate! I don't know why, I didn't think it was because I was old, so I thought about things more rationally!
In my eyes, his love is very conceited, do not know how to communicate and transposition thinking. He said he wanted to protect her, but did he know what she wanted? Did he know her helplessness and anxiety?
What made me speechless was that Su Jin framed Su Su Su. He knew it was Su Jin's conspiracy, but how did he do it? He dug Su Su Su's eyes and compensated Su Jin because he wanted to save Su Su Su's life.
At that time, he witnessed all this and saw that his beloved woman was framed and wronged. His practice was not to try to prove her innocence, to trust her and to rely on her, which did not fully reflect the wisdom a man should have. He said to his third uncle, what can I do?
I want to say, in addition to helping others frame up your wife, you can also die together. Will the emperor let you die? Will you let the little grandson die? If you can't protect your own woman, it's a kind of incompetence.
Many people say that he has suffered the thunder for Susu for three years. How affectionate! I can only say that Susu is very poor. As for him, I can only say that he is responsible for himself. If you are Su Su Su, someone framed you, and the man you love knows you are wronged, but he digs your eyes and compensates to the woman who framed you. Will you forgive him?
So, does Susu need to be grateful? If she appreciates, she won't kill Sendai.
This man doesn't understand women at all. If someone framed me, you'd be guilty of my crime. Even if I saved my life, I'd survive with a stain. Even if I was alive, how could I have a good life?
Su Su clearly saw this, coupled with the despair of Yehua, just jumped down from Zhu Xiantai.
Simple girls will think that Su Jin is too bad, Su Jin is really bad, but her bad is not as destructive as Yehua. If he knows how to communicate, how to transpose thinking, and how to really love his woman. No matter how bad Su Jin is, she will not be so desperate that she will jump down to kill Xiantai.
It is never the other women who can really beat a woman to pieces, but the one who loves deeply. He is not willing to uphold justice for himself or to believe in himself. He even stands opposite to himself.
The play jumps off zhuxiantai, can soar to become a God, but in reality, it can't, this life, hurt is hurt, which has what three lives, men must understand: women, can't afford to hurt once.
So, is a man like Yehua really worth marrying? I want to say that most of the men around him are better than him!
For example, his second uncle, in the same problem, tried his best to break away from his shackles for the sake of his beloved woman, even though he gave up his noble identity, even though he almost paid his life. Therefore, they were able to live a life of "willing to be a man of one heart, with white heads not separated". Their experience also tells everyone:
It's no use running away when you encounter problems. If you meet them bravely, there may be a turning point.
Even night Hua himself said that what he envied most was his second uncle. What's the use of envy? You are like your second uncle to fight for it!
For example, Mo yuan, Yao Guang captured seventeen years ago. He not only saved people himself, but also fought against them. Will he dig her eyes? I think he would rather have his eyes dug than allow anyone to move them.
Another example is the emperor. If someone framed Feng Jiu, would he plead guilty for her, dig her eyes and take thunder for her?
Absolutely not, unless he is ill. When the little fox bites Su Jin, Su Jin also hurts the little fox. Let's see how the emperor dealt with it. Regardless of her status as the imperial concubine, he directly taught him a lesson and warned him to stay away from his people and the fox.
Women want, is not their own time, men will stand up without hesitation?
Some people may say that it is because of their different status. Yehua is just the crown prince. He has too many restraints and has to give in. The emperor's status is respected. He was once the co owner of heaven and earth. Therefore, he can favor his wife with strength.
But I don't think so. Status is only a very small factor. What really leads to this contrast is character. Yehua's forbearance is actually the cowardice in character. The cowardice of men's character is bound to be a disaster for women.
Of course, the two people are very happy in the end, but we all see that Bai Qian wants to come back, and she revenges the revenge herself. What does Yehua do? She yearns affectionately. But if it's not about the theme of immortal love, after jumping off zhuxiantai, everything will be gone. It's useless for you to miss deeply.
In real life, a woman can't have no resistance for a while, and become a powerful one at a time. Therefore, if you marry such a man, unless you have strong strength, you can handle everything, just as Su Su Su's final identity is white and shallow on God. If she is still mortal, I can only say that ten pairs of eyes are not enough to dig.