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Why is a woman 30 years old like a wolf 40 years old like a tiger?

Many sexologists believe that there are different times in the life cycle when men and women reach sexual peak. Women do not reach the highest point of sexual desire until they are 30 years old, which is the same as the 30 years old tradition in China. Men reach the peak of sexuality at the end of their teens (some say 17, some say 18). So some researchers say: in terms of sex alone, 18-year-old men and 30-year-old women are the ideal combination, because at this age, both sides are at their peak. On the other hand, 18-year-old girls and 80 year old people are also the best combination, because the requirements of both sexual life are in between.

Sextherapists Helen & Middleton; Kaplan and Clifford & Middleton; SEG have written about the disappearance of sexual desire in men and women as they grow older. It is worth referring to: At this age, men's sexual desire is very strong, and it seems that they can never be satisfied. This situation continues until their twenties. Their sexual behaviors often confuse or disappoint their girlfriends or wives, because if they are the same age or a few years younger than them, they usually haven't reached this level of insatiability in sexual life. Teenagers are prone to erections, sometimes on the bus and in the classroom, which makes them feel embarrassed, and the rate of softening after ejaculation is also slow. By the age of 30, men's libido has been slightly reduced, and the number of sexual fantasies has begun to decrease. The period between ejaculations is not longer, usually after the first ejaculation, it takes at least 20 minutes to get an erection again. Men in their forties, who are not heavy in sex, are less important in ejaculation than in sexual experience. Men in their fifties and sixties and seventies, though still able to erect and ejaculate, are less sexually active.

However, some men are busy with their careers all the time at this time, and they will not have desire for several weeks. If men's sexuality ends with running and walking, then women's sexuality starts with crawling and ends with running. Girls' interest in venting sexual desire is much lower than that of boys of the same age. Quite a number of women have not experienced sexual intercourse before marriage. Many women have to increase the number of orgasms with the growth of years after marriage. By the age of 35 or so, women's sexual response has reached its highest point, and will not decline as soon as it reaches the highest point. Women now need more than men, and wives of this age have the most. In old age, women still retain all sexual activities, although their libido will gradually decrease. According to Kaplan and Seg, an 80 year old woman has almost the same potential as when she was 20 in terms of the frequency of orgasm. Some women think that they don't need contraception after menopause, and they don't worry about having children. This is the golden age of enjoying the joy of fish and water. The physiological cycle of sexual response of men and women seems to be formed by different physiological structures of men and women. However, there are many factors involved in sexual behavior. Some factors, such as the state of central nervous system, the level of hormone stock and general health, are indeed physiological factors.

But some factors, such as the acquired sexual reaction and inner conflict, are psychological factors. In addition, the taboo of sexual behavior in society and the suppression of sexual behavior by my moral concept are all psychological factors. When the husband reaches middle age, his sexual reaction to his wife is not as strong as that of his youth, and there are many social reasons. By the age of thirty or forty, he may have just reached the peak of his career. He has too much pressure to work. He may not have achieved anything, and he is worried about his future and the livelihood of his family members. He may be well-off in his career, so he is busy with social activities. Neglected 41 branch flower's delicate wife in the family, perhaps because the long-time marriage wife did not pay attention to the decoration. Or the lack of change between the beds made him tired of it for a long time. In all this, the wife must take the right medicine to keep her husband interested in her. In fact, healthy men are interested in sex all their lives. The old people in their 70s and 80s can enjoy the water and fish. At the end of their lives, middle-aged men lose the impulse of their youth, but they attach great importance to the feelings of husband and wife. The middle-aged women abandoned the romantic dream of their teenage years and had a further understanding of their own needs, so they were not as constrained in the bedroom as before. These are the favorable conditions for establishing a happy marriage, which are worth grasping.