Want to know how old is the most suitable age for a man and a woman to get married and have children~
A European study found that if a man is 4-6 years older than his wife, he will have the most children; while a man is 15 years older than his wife, although he has few children, he has the most happy marriage life.
1. The man is five years older, the happiest marriage
According to a survey by European scientists, age is a key factor affecting marital stability. According to a follow-up survey of 1534 couples conducted by Dr. Emmanuel flanier of the University of bath in the UK, the best couple model to maintain a strong marriage is that both men and women are highly educated and have no divorce history, and the man is more than five years older than the woman. According to the researchers, wives who are more than five years younger than their husbands are the least likely age group to have conflicts, and their divorce rate is one sixth of that of other marriages.
In addition, a study by the University of Vienna found that if the husband is 4-6 years older than his wife, he will have the most children; while the husband is 15 years older than his wife, although he has a small number of children, he has the most happy marriage life.
2. Couples of the same age are easy to communicate
In addition to the "male Big Five", the marriage of "same age love" is also good! Yue Xiaodong, associate professor of Social Science Department of the Chinese University of Hong Kong, believes that "same age love" is not the narrow sense of the same age, but the same age of both sides, basically belonging to the same generation. Wang Guorong pointed out that men and women of the same age are men and women of the same age or men are less than three years older than women. It can be said that in the concept of modern people, this mode of marriage is very ideal.
The basis of peer love lies in the psychological and physiological coordination between the two sides. This kind of marriage is the most sustainable and has six advantages. First, it's easy to build close relationships. Second, frequent interaction. The third is the synchronous growth. Fourth, the demand is consistent. Fifth, support from relatives and friends. Sixth, equality and self-confidence. In short, lovers of the same age have similar social experiences and tend to be of one heart and one mind when they encounter life problems. Long term running in will lead to the combination of thinking and the formation of a common cognitive model.
Although men and women of the same age have many advantages, it is precisely because of equality that there will be some problems. Couples of the same age are prone to compete for rights by being too equal. They may often fight for "who has the final say".