every older girl may have a worry that she is urged to marry by her family. Will you make do with it? Don't think so, or your whole life will be ruined. If you regret your marriage, divorce as soon as possible~
You are old enough to get married! Your parents want to have grandchildren. Why are they not satisfied? Who has children at your age? You never know how many people's happiness is affected by these words.
I remember my neighbor girl is not small, her parents anxious to arrange a marriage, said the boy conditions are good, tall suitable for marriage, but before marriage, the boy was not good to her, never gave her a decent gift, never gave her a decent gift, the girl did not have a bus at 11 o'clock, the boy clearly has a car, but only said careful on the road.
After marriage, the boy never took care of the children, and her mother-in-law didn't take care of them. One day, her husband and cousin went shopping. She stayed in the house to change diapers, heard the sound of the car starting, and said something wrongly. Another time, in the elevator room of the hospital, she heard two middle-aged and elderly people talking to each other.
At that time, I found that women were also cruel when they were bad, especially my mother-in-law. I saw a post on the Internet that refreshed my definition of 'father'.
This kind of marriage is more and more like chicken ribs for girls
When you don't get married, you are only urged to get married. After you marry the wrong person, you will be charged with countless crimes. A student sister was urged to get married when she was 30 years old. When she got married, she was urged to give birth to a child. After giving birth to a child, she was scolded and even looked bad at a child. Now the child goes to kindergarten, and the family gives birth to a second child. After giving birth to a second child, she is said to stay at home and don't make money. When she goes out to make money, she is scolded and ignored Family, never do right after you marry this family. So girl, please remember, others can't be responsible for our life, happiness is our own.
Just like a friend of mine, she is a gentle person. She is very particular about clothes. She likes to grow flowers, read books and pay attention to the sense of ceremony. But her boyfriend at that time was a rough man. He was relatively rich in economy, but he didn't fit in with each other. He never remembers her birthday, full of swearing and sloppy clothes. Once when he went out on a trip, they quarreled. The boy threw her on a strange street and walked away, regardless of her safety. So she wanted to break up, but others said it
Finally, fortunately, she resisted the rumors and the opposition of her family, and finally broke up. I still remember that she cried at that time,
Later, she met her husband, a considerate person who has read a lot of books. She remembers every anniversary about her and likes to wear a pair of loving clothes with her before going out.
When his friend was sick and hospitalized, he cut the fruit, cooked the soup and brought a bunch of fresh roses every day. He liked to hold her in the sunny afternoon and read her favorite poetry anthology. The Braille people with the same disease all tilted their heads and envied her. So when you choose love, someone tells you that the boy has dandruff on his head, forgets you when he takes an umbrella in rainy days, and doesn't AA when he meets for the first time. Many boys are so careless, and you're not too young. Don't be too choosy.
Remember not to listen, follow your heart, meet the wrong person will immediately let go, don't look for a boyfriend in the garbage, you wear good-looking clothes, apply good-looking lipstick, try to make money to raise yourself so well, not to find a man to make you aggrieved.
Dear girl, I hope you can understand that life is too long. Meeting the wrong person is more terrible than loneliness. I hope that the one who will appear at your wedding in the future is the one who can give you a lifetime of love.