Why do some couples seldom quarrel? If you think they are lucky and can't find out each other's faults, there are really no suitable two. Most of the time they can't fight because of these reasons.
Know what to quarrel about and what is unnecessary
A couple with stable relationship and healthy life, you will find that their EQ is good after careful observation! They won't quarrel over big things, because it's really unnecessary. What's more, healthy relationship should tolerate each other's shortcomings properly.
It's the language that hurts
Temper this thing everyone has, but you can use the right way to express, speak well, there is no need to simply vent and attack. It's hard for people to control themselves when they are angry. They will say very bad things. Once they say something, they will never get it back. It's useless for you to regret it. Disaster comes from the mouth.
It's boring not to test each other's bottom line for no reason
Girls often make this kind of trouble. When they say a word, it implies another meaning. They expect the other party to find it and give you the expected reaction. What's the state of mind? Sisters, it's really bad to tempt the other party to satisfy themselves psychologically. Throw out an ambiguous question directly, let the other party want to break the head, answer wrong you still want to be angry, this is really unfair to the other half, don't be so childish.
Better at learning from arguments
Trial and error, such a simple truth, there are a few people can learn & shy; lovers must have quarreled, including those who seem to love to death sweet lovers. The two sides who know how to try and make mistakes seldom quarrel again for the same reason, because they have learned a better way to get along with each other from conflict. Life is short. I don't have time to argue so many times about the same problem.
They don't deliberately provoke each other
Have you ever said something like "I'm willful, I'm shrewd".
I'll never go back to the old books
At least one problem will be solved after each quarrel, so where are the old accounts!
Know the importance of apologizing
You hurt each other in the quarrel, you must know, but at that time you were also very angry and had no time to consider each other's feelings, but remember! When you calm down, you must apologize to each other, now is not the time to argue who is right and who is wrong, but you hurt someone. If you hurt people without introspection, you will only get farther away.
Very satisfied with the relationship between the two people
When a relationship is very happy and happy, you don't need to fight. If he wants a gentle goddess, you happen to be a self rebellious Cosmo girl. He won't let you be himself. You have to be yourself. It's strange that they don't quarrel. If you find that you quarrel with TA frequently, you should reflect on whether TA is really suitable for you;?