1： On the wedding day, the number of cars that the man came to pick up his parents was odd, while the number of cars that the mother's family came to make up an even number, and they couldn't go back. That is to say, those who receive parents should be singular, and those who send them off should be singular, so that they can count even. As the saying goes' husband and wife return home 'well, Chinese people generally think that even number is very auspicious. It's a good moral to form a couple and fly together, so the first thing to pay attention to is to collect even number!
2： In ancient times, when a woman married, she was carried to her husband's house in a sedan chair. Along the way, people from her mother's family would come to the four corners of the sedan chair to send the bride. These four people were all men, including their elders, uncles, uncles, etc., or younger brothers and cousins of the same generation as the bride. The men escorting the bride not only shows that the woman attaches importance to the wedding, but also shows that the woman's family knows how to be polite. Four male relatives escort the bride to her mother-in-law's home. This is a tradition that has existed in China since ancient times. Therefore, it is necessary for us to pay attention to this little stress!
3： As for the choice of bridesmaids, we are also very particular. Generally, the bridesmaids are four girls, and the girls are unmarried. The bridesmaid can be a good friend of the bride or a relative of the bride. But if she is a relative, she is usually of the same generation as the bride. It's better not to be a junior or elder. There is also a need to pay special attention to a lot of places, the bride's sister is not allowed to send off, these are wedding send off what pay attention to small pay attention to Oh!
4： In many places, there is a special fun custom of seeing off the bride. After the bridegroom comes to pick up the bride and puts on the bride's shoes, the bride can't walk up to the float, but ask her brother or brother to hold the float or carry it on her back. In many places, the bride is allowed to sit on the chair and the brothers carry the bride on the float together.
The taboo of marriage custom is to see off the bride. The people who send off their relatives should also be "all alive". Widows and pregnant women are not allowed to send off their relatives. This is very particular in the Central Plains. In the Bohai Bay area, there are taboo customs for people to see off their parents, such as' father does not see off their mother ',' aunt does not marry, aunt does not see off, and aunt does not see off a disease '. It's all about women. Taboo women in marriage, on the one hand is contempt for women, on the other hand, because women are soft hearted, emotional vulnerability. Seeing their relatives get married will produce some sad feelings, and may shed tears, which is not good for marriage, so there are some taboos. People who welcome or send off relatives also have a taboo on Zodiac. The popular taboo ballads in Shandong Province are: "Chen Zishen taboo snakes, chickens and cows; Si Youchou taboo tigers, horses and dogs; Yin Wuxu taboo pigs, rabbits and sheep; Hai Maowei taboo dragons, mice and monkeys.". 'Many places are not welcome.
The bride is sent directly to the man's home by the woman. There are also some places where women don't send their relatives to the men's home, but only send them to the sedan (car, horse). In rich families, there are also maids who have been married with the bride, so they will never return. In ancient times, there was a taboo of not raising a fire in a married woman's home for three days. It is recorded in the book of rites as a sign of injury. Among the taboos of sending off relatives, sending off relatives by pregnant women is the most taboo. I'm afraid that the bride will be pregnant and become an infidelity bride. In fact, what does the chastity of a bride have to do with the pregnant woman who sees off her relatives? This association is a reflection of the original idea of "congeniality" and a taboo custom implemented only when she is afraid of the power of sympathetic witchcraft
The custom of seeing off relatives: Xuebao Village: there are taboos of avoiding the zodiac, the custom of beating ashes, and the custom of three generations of uncles giving auspicious words to the bridegroom and bride.
Zhaikeqiao: there is a custom of offering money to welcome relatives.
Chopping board: widows and those who have not had children for several years after marriage are not allowed to enter the bridal chamber, nor are they allowed to have women after marriage.
Pillow dam: send relatives to send out and into the door when shooting singing, in order to increase happiness. The wedding party was full of singing and drinking.
Zhonglingshan: send off the bride and welcome the bride. The bride passes through the crossroads and places a table to offer sacrifices to the gods. The bride sings a welcoming song to welcome her home.
Lizhishan: in the bridal chamber, men and women without children are not allowed to enter, those with malignant diseases are not allowed to enter, and couples with children under one month are not allowed to enter.
Rengongshan: the ancestor who offered sacrifices to the bride when seeing off relatives, and the God who offered sacrifices to the man when he came to his home.
Yangga mountain: people who send off and welcome their relatives usually stay at the wedding party for three days and three nights, drink, sing and have a wedding banquet for three days, and then the man will send the woman away. On the wedding night, they usually dance circle of fire.