Why is it easy to have extramarital affairs in the workplace? In fact, many companies have banned falling in love with their employees. Why do office extramarital affairs still occur frequently? In fact, it is mainly caused by these reasons.
Although it is said that colleagues have no friends and can not easily reveal their feelings to each other, they are grasshoppers on the same line and often need to advance and retreat together. For this reason, we should fight side by side even if we set up defenses. Otherwise, we will only isolate ourselves in the unit if we are too wary. As a result, a sense of revolutionary friendship emerged among colleagues. This friendship is permeated with colleagues' participation (help) in your family trivia, and with the accumulation of life, it will produce gratitude feelings, so as to establish a deep revolutionary friendship. After all, man is an emotional animal. The penetration of friendship and love will be like fog, rain and wind. At the moment, as long as one side has evil thoughts, the other side will give feedback that they don't know how to refuse. Office extramarital affairs just need more persistence and more shameless, it will be successful.
People who have been used to each other's existence are most afraid of habits. No matter good habits or bad habits, they will be like people's bones. Apart from the time for sleeping and eating, the time between husband and wife is far less than that between colleagues. For this reason, & lsquo; I love you & quot; is often defeated by & lsquo; being together & quot;, that is, colleagues have superior time to get along with each other. At the same time, colleagues will show mutual humility, and couples will show mutual provocation. For this reason, people in the workplace will inevitably compare excellent colleagues and lovers. This comparison of the original platform is unfair, because people are used to using the advantages of others to compare the shortcomings of their lovers. Therefore, the conclusion after comparison is that colleagues are more attractive than husbands. In this case, even if you are not willing to admit that you are mentally derailed in your heart, you will be haunted or in love when your colleague is sick or on a business trip.
The reason why parents are selfless to themselves is not only the blood relationship, but also the fact that parents invest too much in their children. Children are like some "goods" made by parents themselves. Therefore, parents can't help but give their children selfless love. For this reason, there is a phenomenon in the emotional world: what people cherish is not those who have been kind to them, but those who have been given them. In other words, a person's infatuation with another person is to a large extent infatuated with their own efforts. Just like many people who love each other will not be reconciled after they break up, this reluctance mainly comes from not being reconciled to their own efforts in this love, rather than the love itself. Among colleagues, the respect for each other, imperceptibly into their lives. When you realize that you have an affair, you will often show your desire to give up.
The most popular office romance is the emotional entanglement between superiors and subordinates. This extramarital affair is mainly caused by two factors: 1) the boss is a lecher; 2) the subordinates have a strong heroic plot. When these two kinds of feelings ferment at the same time, it will soon be an office affair. Of course, not all office romances show true love, and there are still some people who rely entirely on their bodies for benefits, that is, the boss enjoys my body, and I use this handle to get the title I want. Such power color trade is also common in today's workplace.
Since the office is a place with high incidence of extramarital affairs, we may emphasize the harm of extramarital affairs
1) It's easy to be a joke for colleagues.
2) Damage to the face of the unit, may be both dismissed.
3) It's easy to get started. Once you decide to break up, it's hard to digest.
4) The original marriage relationship was found broken.