when you are in love, you want to know what the boy is thinking and what kind of psychology he has, but he doesn't want to say, and you're too embarrassed to ask. If you want to go on your own love road for a longer time, you should have a good understanding of what the other person's psychology is thinking. Let's have a look~
I hope you take the initiative
Many people think that women should be reserved when they are in love. If they take the initiative, they will lose face. However, men in love hope that you can take the initiative. In the process of communication between men and women, no one always takes the initiative, because it will make him feel that it is a unilateral payment, and you will not know whether the result of taking the initiative is good or bad. But what we can be sure is that after the great ship of mutual affection starts, any man will be full of tenderness just like a woman. Occasionally they will become no longer active, not timid, not afraid of rejection, in his hope that you take the initiative behind, he wants to get your response!
Fear of being prompted to marry & hellip; & hellip;
I don't know when men will separate love from marriage. In their opinion, love does not have to marry each other. Men will only consider getting married when the time is right, the place is right and the people are right. If he is not ready to urge the marriage, men will not want it. Especially in the face of the girlfriend who urges the marriage indirectly, they will feel very collapsed. So dear, please give him more time and space, love is a process of mutual understanding, real love can not be obtained by urging marriage, we must wait patiently. I want to see you busy for him
A man will take care of himself or even you before he has a relationship. But since he had you, he has made things all in a mess, always coquettishly saying what's uncomfortable. Even a little cold and runny nose has to be said to be the end of the world & hellip; & hellip; that's enough. It's not because a man has changed, but because he likes to watch you pick up things for him, nag about his slovenness, and see you worry about him. In the eyes of men, this is a kind of happiness.
Silence in a quarrel
Men are magical creatures. They don't like to quarrel. In the face of sudden bombardment from women, they can fight back and scold back. But from a woman's point of view, this kind of indifference is the expression of not repenting, which will make women more angry and more noisy. In fact, this time a man will be angry, he doesn't quarrel with you, not because he doesn't care about you, and doesn't think you can't make trouble, but to calm down while accommodating you. Men's delicacy is always shown quietly, in fact, their ideas are very simple, but they are always shy to express in front of the people they like. Have you got this silent love? Self centered! Capricious!
Every man is in fact a willful little public examination. They like to practice their lovers and their career. They require their girlfriends to conform to their ideal standards. Girlfriends must always show their advantages. If they don't achieve his goal, they will be very angry and even feel that you have failed him. Men in the realm of feelings, is absolutely a dujun. As long as a woman is willing to flatter, he will promise anything. It's probably their so-called man's self-esteem, so girls should be little women~
Career first forever
Once a woman encounters love, she can't help but be monopolized by love. Everything is secondary to her, and only love is her only one. But men are different. In his heart, career is the first factor. In their opinion, men without career have nothing like women without love. The impact of love on men is that they have a conversation partner after work, and they hardly care about others. They will also think in their hearts, career No.1, only have the capital to make their women happy. I won't be honest with my brother about love details
A woman can never be a person who keeps secrets. Once she is in love, her best friend will get information from her soon, and she will even ask her best friend to help her analyze all aspects of her best friend. This characteristic of women makes it difficult for men to understand, because even in the face of his closest friends, he will reserve the details of his love. A woman will think that a man is just playing with her performance, but in fact, it is a commitment for a man to introduce you to his brother and family. This kind of reservation of a man, on the contrary, is a kind of self-confidence of a man. In love, he only believes in his own judgment.
The requirements for lovers will be higher than for wives
A man's demand for his wife may be lower than his lover's, and his appearance and character are higher. Because wives are transformed from lovers, men have really high requirements for lovers. The period of love is like the assessment period in love. Men will understand women in an all-round way and require their girlfriends to meet their own ideal standards. Only those who are suitable for them will come to the end. In this long-distance love race, lovers are mutual. If they pass, they will be promoted. If they fail, they will be eliminated. Are you ready?
Care about women's past
For women's past, men can't completely let go. They always want to find out, maybe it's the strong possessive desire in their heart. Men are highly possessive creatures. Women are like treasures in the bag. They want their beloved women to be their own. Therefore, they care who once owned you. Even if they get to the bottom of the matter, they have to find out. It's like standing in the center of the earth and announcing to men all over the world that you are his woman.
The more you can't wait, the more you want to get
Men always like to constantly challenge themselves in love. The harder they get, the more they like it. If a woman agrees to a man's courtship too quickly, it will make a man feel inexplicable loss. Maybe you will say that it's' cheap ', but there's no way. Men are like this. The sense of superiority everywhere can prop up their strong self-esteem. The more they can't get, the more difficult they are to get, the more precious they will feel and cherish. Gao Leng's sisters, let's go in the cool mode! The untidy room is the real one
At the beginning of love, in order to win the favor of women and try to express themselves, men may show a clean state, or even show some cleanliness. But you know, 9 out of 10 men are slovenly. They don't make quilts, don't like to wash clothes, and even don't wash face when they don't go out. This is the real them. If you can accept him like this, he will love you to death
It's not important to go to bed? It's a lie
People always say that women are vegetarians, while men are carnivores. In a relationship, in a woman's heart, what love pursues is feeling. In a man's heart, to measure the degree of development of a relationship is often to see if he has gone to bed with the woman. To prove your charm. Even if there are women in love, bad men still like to prove their charm from other women. So you have to see him! I hope there is enough private space
Even if you tie each other to your belt every day, if the other person's heart is not with you, then you are useless. After falling in love, men are afraid that the other half will always stick to themselves. Although this is a way for women to express their love, men don't seem to like it. They are looking forward to having more time to chat with their good friends. If you can give him enough time to live the life he wants after you fall in love, he will be inseparable from you. A woman who knows how to give men space is really smart.
Expecting girlfriend to control consumption
Women's material desire is relatively high, always want to put their favorite things in the bag, wake up! No man wants his girlfriend to be a hand chopper, but also to chop a man's hand, he thinks it hurts. Don't think that if a man doesn't speak out, he will support you. Smart women must learn to control consumption. Even if you have a strong desire to consume, please restrain yourself in front of him. It's absolutely good for you.