Nowadays, there are many social software. Many boys and girls know each other on this social platform, but some girls just chat with you and don't make an appointment with you. Why~
The reason why girls only chat and can't make an appointment is because of their boyfriends
Just because some girls have men's tickets doesn't mean they don't chat with other opposite sex. Maybe it's because I don't feel like chatting with men's tickets every day, and then I want to chat with others. But when you ask her if she has a male ticket, she will let you guess or just avoid not answering. Let you ponder over, at the same time and you talk very hard. But every time you say you're going out for dinner, you always refuse for various reasons. After all, there are also people who have objects. They can't just go out to eat when chatting online. There is still a sense of guilt, unless she doesn't love her boyfriend.
No sense of security
Whether you go out or not depends on whether you give each other a certain sense of security. After all, there are so many social swindlers. A young girl will not easily go out and meet people chatting online. This kind of girl is usually a good girl. They don't believe in strange boys. If you ask her out, she will think a lot. The first thought is whether you are a bad person. There may have been cheated, and then there is a defense in my heart. One of my friends used to be very simple. He fell in love with a boy online. Later he was a scum boy. Since then, people who chat on the Internet will refuse as long as they meet. Sultry girl
This kind of girl may have a larger scale in chatting. But once they meet, they think more about protecting themselves. I only fight with people I know very well. And acquaintances and strangers are different. I don't know each other. I haven't met each other. It's just a world of networks. Usually reality and network are very clear, so they are different in the network world. They are only suitable for chatting, not for meeting.
Keen intuition
Women's intuition is very keen, they can always capture some incredible details, and then through the inexplicable logic, finally come to a correct conclusion that you can't say what you want. Don't look at girls who are usually stupid, stupid, stupid, crazy and cute, just relax your vigilance.
Women are natural liars. It's very technical to disguise themselves in front of her. It's very easy for young teenagers to be torn down if they want to pretend to be x-big. Mature women will instinctively perceive whether a man has the potential or qualification to be the opposite sex that they can rely on. They often give answers like "haunting feeling" and "insecure feeling". However, the reasons behind them are complex, unspeakable and often accurate. So a lot of chat details need to pay special attention!
It's normal that a girl can't make an appointment when she only chats. For example, they are busy, shopping with their best friend, working, watching TV, and have no time to talk to you. So don't lose heart, let alone ask her what she thinks. This may ruin her chance in the future. Here's how to create opportunities for your next date:
Find your own reasons. If a girl doesn't agree to your invitation for many times, you have to understand that the problem must be with you. Most of the reasons are that you don't attract her. Of course, people don't want to get closer to you. For example, self-motivated, your efforts, humor, knowledge, connotation, or your life, your work, your love, your taste and so on.
How to let her see your advantages, be attracted by you, early is undoubtedly through the circle of friends to let her understand QQ. For example, take a photo with your family, take a self portrait with your pet, show your love, eat Western food, sushi, go to fitness, swim, play golf, ride a horse, show your colorful life, hold a meeting for employees, give a speech on stage, show your value and your dedication, and so on, Who would be interested in a poor stranger? You don't even have these basic contents. First of all, they will be eliminated for you.
Then there is the chat. If you come up and ask questions like 'what are you doing','How old are you ','Where do you work','Do you have an appointment ', who will be willing to answer you? Girls will think, who are you? Why do I tell you this? It's boring! It's interesting to chat like checking household registration. If you change the way, for example,' you remind me of the & hellip in plants vs zombies'; &Hellip; '(pause, strongly suggestive of her to fill in the blanks). 'ice shooter?' "yes! It's ice shooter. Do we really want to have such a tacit understanding?" good chat skills can make girls who don't like you look up at you, and even make girls who like you burst out. Learning is the only way to chat. There are many skills involved in chatting, and the only way out is to study hard and practice constantly. How to make an appointment with her? It's clear that the first impression has passed, and it's good to chat with girls. Why can't I make an appointment. It's very simple! Here we also talk about it in three aspects.
1. Why is the invitation unsuccessful
The first aspect: your invitation time is wrong, she just can't attend the appointment. I can't help it. I have to make another appointment next time. The second aspect: you invite for no reason. Sometimes in front of a beloved girl. You may not be able to restrain your inner impulse and want to date her immediately for further development. This is a mistake that many boys will make. They haven't established enough familiarity, that is, girls don't know you at all. If you ask for an invitation, most of them will be rejected by girls. The third aspect: you did not eliminate the doubts in the girl's heart, give her a step down.
2. Remove the doubts in the hearts of girls
Girls in the face of your invitation will be thinking about why he asked me? What he asked me to do? At this time you should eliminate the doubts in the hearts of girls. Explain when and where you're going to meet her and what you're going to do. Under the premise that you attract her, I believe most girls are willing to come out with you.
3. Give the girl a proper step down
Sometimes some girls don't want others to think that she is a casual woman. She will refuse your invitation first. For example: I haven't made up yet, I can't come out for a while, or I have to do something first. At this time you should give the girl a step down, explain, nothing, when the time comes to call me. Of course, there are many other situations, I won't do the answer here, the routine is to give girls a step down.
Summary: how to invite girls is introduced here. Do you understand why girls only chat with you and don't agree to your date? Try to change your mode! The probability of success will be greatly improved!