what do you do when you meet true love? Look at the different behaviors of men and women ~ but it's really enough to test whether a person really loves you.
1. She and her boyfriend have been together for four years, and they are very kind to her. Every time they come to the holiday, they will cover her stomach with a hot water bag, but they find that they are having an affair with other women on the Internet. So, the girl asked to break up, and her boyfriend cried and begged her not to break up, saying that he really loved her. He only occasionally went on a business trip and chatted about loneliness, but he never really cheated. The girl was entangled, and thought that if she didn't love her, how could she be so good to her in the past four years? But these things became the shadow in her heart.
There are a lot of readers' comments. Some say that if he said he didn't cheat, he didn't cheat. It's just that he wasn't found out. Some say that such men still don't break up and keep them for the new year? Others say that good men are extinct and turn a blind eye! In reality, a girl also saw this interaction and said to me in private: now the society is so impetuous and the feelings come quickly. How many people haven't done anything out of line? If it's really so true, maybe every girl can't get married . I think we are all familiar with such remarks. It seems that there has been a strong force telling girls: men are lustful, they can't stand temptation, they are lower body animals, they want to cheat, just to see if they have a chance.
You have only two choices: one is to accept, the other is not to get married. Of course, there is another way, these people will tell you: even if you don't accept another one, the next one may not be better than this one! Many girls feel that marriage is boring, so why do you have to find such an unreliable person? It's better to live alone! I believe that many girls and children agree with this saying that men don't have a fickle heart. I also believe that they agree with this saying The more girls who say goodbye, the more men will really be fickle. This is a causal relationship. 2. Back to the question at the beginning of the article, if this man really didn't cheat, just ambiguous, can he wash white for himself? Is he really in love with his girlfriend? This reminds me of two things.
My friend L is a well-known favorite wife maniac in our circle. Every time I go abroad, as long as I have a little spare time, I go everywhere to buy gifts for my wife. I usually buy anything according to one standard: my wife likes it. We are also very unkind. We always tease him and feed us dog food every day when he is old. What's the intention? L always smiles innocently and continues to spoil his wife. L's social status and wealth are good, and his wife married for more than ten years, one year, his company came to a new college student, in the L department, I do not know how, took a fancy to L, the little girl can be described as exhausted mind, personally knitted a sweater for L, gave him in L birthday. At that time, l didn't know. The little girl found an excuse to cheat him into the underground garage. At that time, l severely refused her. The girl said I didn't mean anything else. She just wanted to thank the leaders for their usual care. It's your birthday. I want to show my heart. L said that if you want to express your heart, a happy birthday is enough. It's hard to tell who can give me such a dress, which is woven by yourself.
Moreover, I'm afraid you misunderstand me. Since you work in our department, I'm bound to let you develop and give you all kinds of opportunities for growth. This is one of my responsibilities as a leader. It's not a special consideration. To do my job well is the best reward to me. In the end, he didn't take the gift. The girl didn't send her home, but she didn't give up. Once, it rained heavily, and the girl wanted l to send her home. L said that I know you have that kind of mind, and I can't get along with you alone. I should avoid suspicion. These things, or the girl later found their favorite, said with emotion, thanks to the integrity of her leadership at the beginning, only now happiness, these things as the past, other people know that there are several.
Someone interviewed L and asked him if there are beauties who take the initiative to show their love. Is it true that they are not moved at all? L sincerely said: when I am old, there are beauties who love me and say that there is no vanity at all. That's false. But if you really have someone you love in your heart and others are close to you, you are repulsive. If you don't repulse, it means that your feelings are empty. If you love someone, you are willing It must be full.
At that time, we all thought l's wife was very happy. Indeed, his wife is now clearly in her early 40s, but her smile is bright and her eyes are soft. Standing with us, she is not old at all. She is full of vitality and has a very young mind. Just look at her face, you can't help but think she is in her early 30s. When you see her smile, you can't help but think she is very happy. I think that should be true That's why I have been treated sincerely by a man for a long time. I totally agree with what l said. I really care about one person in my heart, but in fact I will exclude others.
3. Last week, I went to the South on business. Because of the wrong weather, my clothes were very thin. That day, a local sister invited me to dinner, and another friend of mine, male. The place to eat was not far away. In the past, the weather was tolerable. But after eating, it began to rain, and it was late at night. The temperature dropped a lot. After waving goodbye to my sister, I went back to the hotel with my opposite sex friend. He looked at me and said: you wear too little, or I'll give you the coat? I said thank you with a smile, but insisted: No, you give me the coat, won't you be cold? There's not much way, and it's coming soon.
He mentioned it again. I said it's not cold. It's really not cold. If I insist, my friends will follow me. Isn't it really cold? I almost became a popsicle! But I'd rather be frozen than wear the clothes of men other than my husband. Maybe in other people's eyes, my behavior is very funny. It's just a dress. It won't stick to you. I know that I'm too conservative in this respect, but I'm willing to. It's really good to feel magnanimous. Of course, the immediate consequence is that I have a cold. Some people may say that the performance of men and women is different. However, I always firmly believe that a person who is really loyal to his feelings and loves each other in his heart, no matter whether he or she is male or female, the first consideration before he or she does anything is whether he or she will hurt him or her and make each other unhappy. Then, they will restrain their behavior. It's no use to rely on the other party's coercion. It's only based on care and affection to automatically restrict one's own behavior.
No matter love or marriage, there is only one truth: when I am with you, I give up other possibilities. Some people may think that this state is too idealistic. How many people can love only one person in their whole life? Then, at least, it should be like this: maybe everyone loves more than one person in their whole life, but at least they should love one person attentively in every relationship instead of wandering among different people. This is what it should be like to really love one person.