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Women will understand the truth after marriage. Do you know these after marriage?

women before marriage are blindly looking forward to their life after marriage. They often fantasize too much about love, but marriage has to return to reality after all. How much do you know about the several principles that women must understand after marriage?

Men can never only like you a woman, but can only be responsible for you a woman.

This sentence not only has the consistency of wife in marriage, but also has exclusiveness. Consistency, that is, you are the same as other women, only one of the women he loves or once loved. It is absolutely normal for a man to fall in love with two or more women at the same time. This is the crisis of women in marriage.

In addition, you are also exclusive, that is, you do not have him. For most men, he can fall in love with more than one woman, but a mature and responsible man will not easily act on those so-called likes, especially the one who can make him responsible is the one he marries. That's your advantage as his wife. Therefore, from a certain point of view, if women can adhere to their own bottom line, at the same time, relax the policy a bit, grasp the big and let go the small, and give them relative freedom, it will be easier to resolve the crisis of "consistency" in front. A man's boasting is not a bad thing, just as a woman's vanity.

Record of the blue once said, hate men boasting women are mostly not interesting women. Although many people don't quite agree with it. But in fact, love to boast that is the nature of most men, ten men nine love to boast. However, the purpose of a man's boasting is not to deceive others. He may just make fun of himself, to vent his anger and to make women happy. There is a lot of knowledge in his boasting and a lot of 'second language' that men usually don't speak.

In fact, through such a 'second language', women can more easily approach men's inner world and find more happiness and marriage interest & hellip; & hellip;. This is the same reason that men should treat women's vanity correctly. A woman without any vanity, she is sick or old, even sad. Never expect a man to thank you for saving money on cosmetics. The money you save will never satisfy his demand for your beauty.

In real life, there are a lot of poor silly women. They are determined to teach their husband and children. They are frugal for their families. They buy a dish and bargain with others for a dime. They are reluctant to buy two more clothes for themselves at the end of the year. With all due respect, maybe in the beginning, men will be moved by you. But after a long time, men will be numb. And his attention will be gradually transferred from the money you save to your old face. In other words, the money you save will never satisfy his demand for your beauty.

To tell you the truth, I dare not think about it. That is to say, the money you save is only contributing to other women. Maybe the cost of cosmetics you save a year is not enough for another woman to buy a bottle of perfume. Never lose an income, but never put work ahead of your family.

There are many women who understand this, but few of them can really do it. Most of us women, because of her husband, children or family, unknowingly give up their career and lose their jobs. And gradually lose their economic status, vision from then on smaller, narrow-minded, living space declined sharply. Of course, there are other women who have also made another mistake. That is, they value career too much. They think that women have everything when they have career and money.

In fact, it is not. For most women in China, the foundation of women is always in the family. This is China's basic national condition that will not be shaken in the next 100 years. As a woman, you can contribute to the process of gender equality, but the most important thing is that you need to live a good life in front of you, so the cost should not be ignored. If possible, try to keep your home clean and tidy.

Men who procrastinate like to have a clean and tidy home. Therefore, keeping the house clean and tidy is the place where women can add points to themselves from men's subconsciousness. Maybe many of us women misunderstand men on this issue. I think that since he can accept my procrastination when he is in love, why can't he accept it after marriage?

It's really two things. Although in love, he can tolerate you to go to bed at night without taking a bath, can allow you to throw your socks and clothes around at any time, and can turn a blind eye to the food that is going to stink in the pot for two days & hellip; & hellip;, it's totally different after marriage. Marriage is to live. Every neat move you make will add points to you in his subconscious. Although he doesn't like it very much, you don't allow him to sit on the bed in clothes outside, and he's not used to you following him every day to put the garbage into the basket, he will be in the bottom of his heart, because it's more convincing to you. Women are not men's accessories. They should have their own opinions.

To let you have your own opinions is not to let you give him a compliment, or not to regard yourself as a member of his big family. Therefore, women in peacetime, don't always use the tone of 'your family' to talk to him, the spirit of being a master and integrating themselves into his family is very important. We have many women. The biggest trouble they encounter after marriage is that they can't integrate themselves with their families. They always regard themselves as' outsiders' because of subjective and objective reasons. It's your mother's and your father's who open and shut up. What's the matter in your family? They always try to change the whole family with their own habits and ways of thinking.

In fact, this is very stupid. Although women are not men's accessories after marriage, they are always close to the man's family because of many factors. If you always let men feel that you are fighting with them, then this day will naturally be impossible. If possible, please try to be gentle, less complaining and more confident.

Many of our women generally have a very bad development trend after they get married. That is, less gentleness, more complaints and less confidence. It is true that marriage itself needs to run in and seek common ground while reserving differences in constant collision. But we must not run into each other. In the end, the advantages of both sides are gone, but the disadvantages of each other are even greater.

In fact, in marriage, the most attractive thing for a woman is gentleness and self-confidence. If possible, please try to be gentle. This is the truth of marriage. You can complain that it's sarcastic, and you can put a lot of difficulties in front of me, so that they can't be the reason why you can't live a gentle life. Don't always be too strong! It will make your marriage sweeter if you make a whine at the right time.

Showing weakness is not to make you really weak, but to let you know some skills of women's marriage. Women must not always be too strong, to timely hair whine, or to your man to send some help signals. This is what men's physiological genes need, and it's also a way for women to improve their charm.